At the moment when the girl's emotions collapse, please cherish life and protect yourself

Originality is not easy, please do not infringe

In the past two days, I saw a young woman in Feng County, Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, holding her child and jumping into the lake to die, the child was only 2 months old, the two-month-old child had not seen the flowers and white clouds, and the young woman had not yet had time to enjoy the joy of being a mother, which made me tear up instantly. Later, it was found that it was because the in-laws quarreled with their daughter-in-law for money for full moon wine and eventually jumped into the lake and died. As a mother, I burst into tears, and I couldn't imagine whether the girl's heart was cold or the lake was cold. In just a few words, on the issue of money, but looking at the essence through the surface, it must be the result of the long-term accumulation of contradictions that make the girl's thoughts gray.

Before the two-month-old child could open his eyes to see this beautiful world, he drowned in the cold waters. Many of the comments, whether it is a video platform or a text, are helpless to blame women for not depriving children of their lives. Without experiencing the despair of human affection, especially love, I felt that the girl would not jump into the lake. I feel that it is not that this mother is irresponsible, it is precisely because she loves the child and cares about the child, she will feel that she is not at ease with who entrusts the child to, and the lake in the winter is cold and cold, and I don't know what marriage gives to this woman? Even if she was going to leave this world, she would take her children with her, leave this world that was cold to her, and I don't know how much she has been wronged, how determined she has been, and how helpless she is. If you can cross, I want to say to her ' Girl, the lake is too cold, please follow me this weak woman, although I come out early and return late just to take care of myself, but I am willing to take my meal, divide my bed in half, life in the world is just a meal and a porridge and a bed, wait to ease this period, in front of the suffering, there is a child's smile' Unfortunately, life will never have if, if there is another world, I pray that you and the baby will not be abusive, there is no cold, only warmth and sunshine in that world. Now it is very difficult to get married in China, and those who do not marry a daughter-in-law want to marry a daughter-in-law, but how this lady's husband treats her daughter-in-law after marrying a daughter-in-law is not easy for us to judge, but with this lady's desperate behavior, we can imagine that she is lacking in love, even if the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is great, if there is a wise and loving husband, I think she will not jump into the lake. At the same time, as a woman, I am also a mother now, and I will be a mother-in-law in the future, but I really want to say that the daughter-in-law is also a baby that other people's parents hold in the palm of their hands, just like you love your son and daughter-in-law, holding it in the palm of your hand, the treasure in your mouth, your daughter, the son can't do it, and why ask other people's girls to achieve your satisfaction overnight? Why should I let my daughter-in-law go through the pain I have experienced?

Now as a woman, you probably have to live like a thousand horses to not be treated like this, right? As a daughter, not married, parents worry, worry, married parents are also worried, afraid that the baby they hold in the palm of their hands will be a little wronged in a strange home, and they are more afraid of the strange eyes and gossip of the people around them. Married, it is okay to meet a good person, someone cares for someone who hurts, even if you meet a good person, the social competition is cruel, the woman does not work, the pressure is too great for men, the economy is not independent at all, if the work can not be very good to take care of the family and take care of the children, as a woman in the end how to work hard to deserve the turbulent displacement of this life.

Until I am in my thirties, I understand how to control my emotions, disguise my own sharpness, hide my kindness, try to make myself happy, encounter unhappy things and people to slow down, or go to eat what I like, even if I cry in the bed for a while, the moment of emotions wants to cry, cry, what can I do. Love yourself is the beginning of a romantic life, the most important thing to love yourself is to cherish life, because life is only once, may all women live as a light of their own, if there is no light to give themselves a ray of sunshine, adjust their mentality, maintain a healthy body and work hard to live. At the moment when the emotion came up, the impulse was the devil, and I really couldn't help it, tens of thousands of 20 numbers were watching what to do. May all the girls live toward the sun, without sorrow, without heart and lungs.