When you face your friends, you must always keep an honest attitude; when you face the enemy, you must persist in summoning up the courage of faith. Between people, learn to be polite to others anytime and anywhere. People who are always in the same degree as themselves are still thinking that they are superior, and the result is to mislead others and waste time. Learn to communicate more with people who rely on strength to make some achievements, and only then will they know what they should do at this moment. Such a relationship is a noble friendship.
What is the best friendship?
I don't need to see each other often every day, but there are people in my heart who are worried. Although there is no long-term companionship, when difficulties arise, someone must send charcoal in the snow. There was once a girl who took care of herself and expressed her heart, a friendship that was particularly good and always missed, but it was always broken at the end, disappointing. Everyone has had a similar experience, different people at different times, some of them left in the middle of the company, maybe it will be sad and lost, but in the faint will find that each other is always in their own hearts. Although the friends who have been away for many years have been reunited for a long time, they still find that friendship is as good as ever, no matter what they have experienced, no matter how long they have not met, they are still the friends in their hearts, and they have not let time erase our common words, as if everything was yesterday, without any explanation.
The Buddha said, "Everyone you meet is someone who is destined to appear, and he will definitely bring you something special." "So friendship is not sooner or later, in addition to worrying about each other, we all know each other in their hearts."
Second, there is no need for friendships that are too heavy
If the emotion for a friend is still in the degree of dependence, then it is not a true friendship, it is just a sense of security obtained by dispatching loneliness, an illusion of indulging in familiar and comfortable relationships. In such a situation, we must first ask ourselves whether there is a strong inferiority complex hidden at the bottom, which leads to the process of daily interactions that dare not pay sincerely, the fear of being abandoned, and the inability to find their true value to others. Such a mentality will make people continue to give in and sacrifice to please friendship, belongs to a kind of emotional bribery, any kind of bribery of possession, will eventually lose to a higher-priced bribe, resulting in their inability to really have, it is this fear of not being able to really have, and continue to lead to their inability to trust each other, can not really pay, resulting in a vicious circle of friendship.
In order to avoid or deliberately ignore this fear, many people put their friendships in a surveillance cage, always hoping to understand the other party's attitude and emotions towards themselves in order to check whether their friendship has been betrayed. This act not only violates the private space of others, but also increases the psychological burden of oneself. If you can correctly find this problem, it is better to try to give trust, enhance friendship, stop using emotional bribes, but instead perfect and realize a strong self, and become a person who is helpful to everyone else.
Third, what is the most comfortable friendship
A comfortable friendship is like a cup of strong tea, the taste is bitter and obscure at first, the fragrance is overflowing after brewing, the throat is ups and downs, and the stomach is calm and peaceful. Comfortable friendship should be buried in the plain, hidden in the hustle and bustle. Respecting friends is like tea, tasting light but endlessly reminiscent, or inadvertently remembering, you can greet each other a few words and exchange a few words. Friendship does not need to be as strong as spirits, but like fragrant tea refreshing, understand to understand.
Speech:
Time flies, and the years grow old. Just as my heart longs for your happiness, and like you nagging at me, I am worried. Although the world is prosperous, it is difficult to find long-term feelings. May the world be kind to friendship, may everyone have friendship, may they be with each other for a long time, from summer flowers to autumn frost, from winter snow to spring wind, taste the world and discuss the style.