"Seven-year itch", it originally meant that many things in the seventh year, will not be based on the will of the people for some problems, feelings, marriage, life, work are like this, people will appear tired of the heart.
In fact, if you are in the same environment for too long, you will inevitably feel bored and bored, and it is inevitable that you will have some other ideas.
Many people feel that the seventh year of marriage is really an insurmountable year, and many problems in marriage are revealed in this year.
Leaves don't turn yellow in a day, and problems don't come up in a day. It's just that these long-standing problems broke out in the seventh year of concentration.
But I would say the "seven-year itch", it's not a spell. As long as we have enough patience and love to prescribe the right medicine in people's tired hearts, we can break this spell.
Lift the spell of love and cross the "seven-year itch"
To be full of romance and passion in the company of ordinary
Two people together, and just living a life, but also have sweetness and romance, it is necessary to pay and manage each other.
I remember your birthday and I'll prepare you a candlelit dinner. You will remember the holidays and send me a bouquet of roses on Valentine's Day.
Companionship is the longest confession of affection, then romance is a dose of seasoned salt in companionship.
Gao Yuanyuan and Zhao Youting, the national goddess of high cold, married in 2014 and have been together for 7 years. It is an enviable pair in the entertainment industry.
During the filming of "Perfect Partner", Zhao Youting accompanied Gao Yuanyuan in the crew for several months, helping his wife to line. Read the script. As long as the high circle is needed, it will be the first time to arrive.
During the visit, Zhao Youting sent flowers to Gao Yuanyuan, and the two people held hands, in front of the caravan, a shake, I shook a little, very sweet.
This wave of sugar on the set. Envy a lot of people, their lives seem to have been in love.
So in marriage, we must not only accompany each other with our hearts, but also create some small romances and small surprises in life to leave beautiful fragments for life. This makes it easier to get through the tiredness of marriage.
More praise and encouragement, less complaining
Shakespeare once said, "Praise is the sunshine that shines on the human heart." Without sunlight, we can't grow. ”
It can be seen that in married life, properly praising each other and encouraging each other will enhance harmony, warmth and good feelings.
The famous Georgiellard went from being a man with nothing to becoming the world's first car salesman. Countless failures in a lifetime.
These failures can frustrate him
One day, When Joe Girard returned home with a sad face, his wife Julia saw her husband's face, and she didn't ask what had happened.
Instead, he said softly, "Joe, you're the best, you can do it, I have faith in you."
These words are important for him to be the development of his career.
It can be said that if there was no praise and encouragement from Julia at that time, there would be no Joe Girard, the world's first car salesman.
Don't skimp on your praise, good marriages are "picked up".
Praise and encouragement can not only bring people closer together, but also be the lubricant for marriage.
There are no two people who are born right, only two people who change each other.
Each of us is an individual, with a different environment of growth, with our own personality, habits and ideas.
I love eating parsley, and you may not be able to smell that. I love watching horror movies, and you probably love to watch comedies.
Only when two people run into each other and change each other can they last forever
Yang Dai and Mr. Qian Zhongshu married from the age of 23, experienced various tribulations, and have always been with each other affectionately for nearly 65 years, taking care of each other's living and eating habits and changing each other.
Yang Dai has the habit of sleeping late and getting up late, Qian Zhongshu is not dissatisfied with this, but respects this habit and never disturbs her to rest, you must know that in that era, late rise is not in line with the rules for women.
Qian Zhongshu often lamented that he was "clumsy and clumsy", and did not cause trouble for Yang Dai, once, Yang Dai was recuperating in the hospital during the confinement period, Qian Zhongshu panicked and went to the hospital, saying: "I overturned the ink bottle and dyed the landlord's tablecloth." Yang Dian smiled and said, "It doesn't matter, I will wash." ”
Yang Dai will teach himself to needle for Qian Zhongshu, and Qian Zhongshu, who is not good at cooking, will become a chef for Yang Dai.
They have spent the years of tribulation together, I have you, you have me, and they will not dilute their feelings by the chai rice oil and salt in ordinary life.
In ordinary and trivial life, you think for me, I do it for you, so that we can get through it together.
Someone said, "When you are born, you are only halfway down, and you walk in the world to find your other half." Some people are lucky and find it quickly, while others have to find it for a lifetime."
You have to believe that this person around you is the person you are looking for with all your hard work, and you can be with each other for a lifetime, with simple and sincere companionship, with love and tolerance, and integrate with each other as a whole.
There is no "seven-year itch", only seventy years of warmth.
As long as we have passed this stage with our hearts, a feeling will be sublimated and the transformation from "passion" to "affection" will be completed.
Let's break this love spell together.