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My name is Xiaoting and I am an ordinary girl. Growing up in a small town in Shanghai, I had big bright eyes, long dark brown hair, and a gentle heart. Although I am not the kind of beauty that stands out, I always try my best to stay confident and optimistic, and I am full of expectations for life.
My boyfriend Xiaowei and I met when we were in college. He is a sunny and handsome boy with a smile that is always so charming. We have been in love for five years, and every day is full of sweetness and joy. Although we had some quarrels, we always reconciled very quickly.
However, just as our relationship was moving towards more stability, an unexpected opportunity changed our lives.
It was a sunny weekend, and Xiaowei and I decided to visit his parents at his house. Although we have been dating for a long time, I have never met his family. I was both looking forward to and nervous about this meeting.
Xiaowei's home is in the suburbs, in a quaint and quiet village. When we arrived, he was greeted warmly by his parents. His father was a kind old man with a slightly childish smile that made people feel kind. His mother, on the other hand, is a typical traditional Chinese mother, with a serious but caring face.
"Xiaoting, welcome to our home." Xiaowei's mother said softly, her eyes showing anticipation and relief.
I smiled and nodded, "Thank you, Auntie, I'm glad to meet you." ”
Xiaowei's father smiled and patted me on the shoulder, "Xiaoting, you're welcome, we are a family." ”
I felt a wave of warmth welling up in my heart, and I knew that my relationship with Xiaowei had been recognized by his parents, which made me feel extremely gratified.
We had a lovely afternoon at home, chatting and sipping tea. Xiaowei's mother warmly prepared a sumptuous dinner for us, and I kept thanking her and expressing my gratitude.
However, while we were enjoying the food, something happened that changed my understanding of Xiaowei's family and left me in a state of confusion.
Xiaowei's mother suddenly took out a bank card from her bag and handed it to me, and said with a smile: "Xiaoting, this is a little bit of our family's heart, you can accept it." ”
I took the bank card in some surprise, and a wave of doubt surged in my heart. What should I do in this case? I hesitated for a moment and looked at Xiaowei, only to find that he also looked confused.
"This ...... What does that mean? I asked cautiously, trying to hide my inner uneasiness.
Xiaowei's mother still smiled, but there was a hint of seriousness in her eyes, "Xiaoting, this is a little bit of our family's heart, you can accept it." ”
I felt an inexplicable panic in my heart, and looked at Xiaowei at a loss, hoping that he could give me an explanation.
Xiaowei smiled bitterly and shrugged his shoulders, "Mom, this ...... I think we should talk about it again. ”
Xiaowei's mother listened, her face changed slightly, but she quickly regained her calm, "Xiaowei, this is the rule of our family, you young people don't understand, and the relationship between me and your father also started like this." ”
My heart fluctuated, I knew that Xiaowei's family might have some traditions and rules that I didn't understand, but I couldn't accept this way. I am reluctant to accept their "heart" in such a situation.
I rejected the bank card handed to me by Xiaowei's mother and whispered, "Auntie, I appreciate your kindness, but I can't accept this gift." ”
Xiaowei's mother listened, her face showed a trace of disappointment, but she quickly regained her composure, "Xiaoting, don't worry, this is our family's tradition, and no one will laugh at you if you accept it." ”
I felt helpless in my heart, and I understood that I could not change their traditions and concepts, but I also could not go against my own principles. I silently stuck to my decision, hoping they would understand.
After dinner, Xiaowei and I didn't speak all the way, full of contradictions and uneasiness. I don't know if the relationship between me and Xiaowei will be able to withstand such a test, and I don't know if I will be able to adapt to the life of their family.
By the time we got back to the city, it was already late at night. Xiaowei and I walked silently on the streets, and the distance between us seemed more distant than ever.
"Xiaoting, are you angry?" Xiaowei's voice broke the silence, full of apology and helplessness.
I shook my head, "I'm not angry, I just feel a little unacceptable." ”
Xiao Wei stopped and looked at me seriously, "Xiao Ting, I know this matter confuses you, but I hope you can understand. In our family, it's a tradition, a way to show love. ”
I sighed, "I know, but I don't think I can accept it this way." ”
Xiao Wei gently held my hand, "Xiao Ting, I will try my best to keep our feelings unaffected, I will communicate well with my parents, I hope they can understand." ”
I smiled slightly and looked at Xiaowei gratefully, "Thank you, Xiaowei." I'm sure our relationship will stand the test. ”
We walked the streets tacitly, and our hearts were full of anticipation and hope for the future. I know that although we will face many difficulties and challenges, as long as we love each other, we can overcome everything.
The next day, Xiaowei and I decided to face his family again and try to solve the awkward situation that happened last night.
Xiaowei suggested going to a coffee shop near his house first, and I readily agreed. In that quiet corner, we started an in-depth conversation.
"Xiaoting, I'm really sorry for what happened last night." Xiaowei's eyes were full of apology and guilt.
I shook my head slightly, "It's okay, Xiaowei. I know it's not your fault. ”
Xiaowei was silent for a while, and then said, "I had a good talk with my parents last night, and they also realized that what they did might have gone too far. ”
I was slightly stunned, "Did they really say that?" ”
Xiaowei nodded, "Yes, they say they are too traditional and don't take your feelings into account. They say they will respect your choice. ”
I was moved in my heart, I didn't expect Xiaowei to make such an effort for me. "Thank you, Xiaowei. I really appreciate it. ”
Xiaowei held my hand, "Xiaoting, I love you." I will always have your back, no matter what happens. ”
I felt a warm current in my heart, and I knew that the relationship between me and Xiaowei was so strong and sincere.
We spent a wonderful afternoon in the coffee shop, chatting about dreams and plans for the future. I felt filled with anticipation and hope for the future, and I knew that as long as we love each other, we can overcome all difficulties.
In the evening, we decided to go to Xiaowei's parents again to try to solve the embarrassing situation that happened last night.
When we arrived at Xiaowei's house, Xiaowei's parents were already waiting for us in the living room. They all had smiles on their faces, as if they had let go of what had happened last night.
"Xiaoting, welcome to our house again." Xiaowei's mother greeted me warmly.
I smiled and nodded, "Thank you, Auntie, I'm so happy to be here again." ”
Xiaowei's parents looked at us with a satisfied smile on their faces. I felt a warm current in my heart, and I knew that the conflict between us had been resolved, and we were back as a family.
We chatted in the living room for a while, and the atmosphere gradually became relaxed and pleasant. Xiaowei's mother suddenly took out a box of tea leaves and handed it to me, "Xiaoting, this is our family's specialty, you can take it." ”
I took the tea and my heart was full of gratitude, "Thank you, Auntie, I will definitely cherish it." ”
Xiaowei's mother smiled and nodded, "You're welcome, this is a little bit of our family's heart." ”
I feel full of warmth and emotion in my heart, and I know that my relationship with Xiaowei will always be happy.
As time went by, Xiaowei's relationship with me became deeper and deeper, and we experienced many joys and sorrows in life together. Whenever I think about the first time we met, I feel that everything is so beautiful and real.
Xiaowei and I decided to enter the palace of marriage, and we began to prepare for the wedding. In this process, Xiaowei's family also gave us great support and help. I am grateful for their acceptance and understanding of me, and I hope to build a closer relationship with them.
On the day of the wedding, I was wearing a white wedding dress and stood at the door of the church, waiting for Xiaowei's arrival. When he walked into the church, my heart was filled with joy and happiness.
Under the auspices of the pastor, we solemnly took the oath of marriage and became each other's lifelong partners. I looked into Xiaowei's eyes, my heart was full of gratitude and happiness, and I knew that I had found my happiness and that I would go through every stage of my life with him.
After the wedding, we held a grand banquet and invited family and friends to witness our happy moment. Xiaowei's family also attended the banquet, and they celebrated our wedding with my family, and the scene was warm and touching.
At the banquet, Xiaowei's mother suddenly walked up to me and hugged me, with love and relief in her eyes, "Xiaoting, I'm really glad that you can be a member of our family. ”
I felt a warm current welling up in my heart, and I knew that my relationship with Xiaowei was not only recognized by him, but also by his family. I smiled and nodded, "Thank you, Auntie, I'm also very happy to be a part of your family." ”
Xiaowei's parents looked at us with a satisfied smile on their faces. I felt grateful and happy in my heart, and I knew that my marriage with Xiaowei would be a happy one.
Our wedding ended with laughter and blessings, and Xiaowei and I embarked on our wedding journey. We chose a beautiful resort and enjoyed a sweet honeymoon.
During this time, Xiaowei and I got to know each other better, we shared many beautiful moments, and we also got through some challenges and difficulties together. But every time we get along, we make our relationship stronger and make us believe in each other's love more.
After returning to real life, Xiaowei and I started a new life. We rented a small apartment and started working together. Every morning, I would make a good breakfast for Xiaowei and then go out to work together. In the evenings, we would cook together, talk together, and enjoy each other's company.
Although there will still be some small frictions and run-ins in life, we have all learned to tolerate and understand each other, making our marriage more happy and happy.
After a period of hard work, Xiaowei and I decided to welcome the arrival of a new life. The good news of pregnancy filled our lives with anticipation and hope, and we decided to prepare for the arrival of our baby.
The birth of our child has made a new look in our lives, and we have given him a wonderful name in the hope that he will grow up healthy and happy. Every night, Xiaowei and I would accompany the child together, tell him stories, sing songs, and enjoy the happy time of the family of three.
While there will still be some challenges and difficulties in life, we all believe that as long as we love each other, we can overcome everything. I know that Xiaowei and I will have a happy marriage, and we will always support each other and go through every stage of life together.
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