In the past, when we looked at the Three Kingdoms, on the one hand, we felt the beautiful life of those heroes, but also we would be sad about the tragic experience of their wives. For example, Liu Bei is known as the most positive figure in the Three Kingdoms period in the history of Zhengshi, but his wives are not allowed to die one by one, which is painful.
So, there is a saying that the man's heart is in the world, and the woman's heart is in the man. But sometimes the two are often prone to conflict, and the result is the paranoia of men and the collapse of women.
This kind of thing did not only occur during the Three Kingdoms period, but also a typical tragedy in modern times, that is, the relationship between Huang Wei and his wife. Twenty-seven years of persistent waiting for the result is broken by a rolling word, and the wait for life and death becomes the tragedy of abnormal suicide. So what's going on here?
Most people probably know something about Huang Wei, who was the ace division commander of the Kuomintang at that time, a good student of Chiang Kai-shek, and also a senior lieutenant general of the Kuomintang. In the period of the War of Resistance Against Japan, he fought with enthusiasm, participated in many major wars, and made outstanding achievements. Later, during the Liberation War, he became the commander-in-chief of the Twelve Corps in the Huaihai Battlefield, but unfortunately he was beaten by our army and lost his armor and was captured.
In general, despite the defeat in the Battle of Huaihai, Huang Wei can be regarded as a legendary figure of the Kuomintang, and he is also a representative of young and promising. But it is such a young and promising figure who has failed so much in marriage that people can't even think of him. Why? This matter has to be said to Huang Wei's wife, Cai Ruoshu.
According to the records, although Huang Wei was later a legendary figure, his early birth was not very good, this is an ordinary people's home, and later became a student of The First Phase of Huangpu, only to change his fate. However, this is not the case with his wife Cai Ruoshu, a child of a wealthy family, who has been dressed in fine clothes since childhood, and is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, which is quite a model for everyone.
At that time, Cai Ruoshu was seventeen years old, really a young girl with a lot of age, and at that time, Huang Wei was twenty-nine years old, but he had also become the commander of the Kuomintang ace division, which could be called young and promising.
The two looked at each other in a chance encounter, and Cai Ruoshu was very beautiful as a celebrity, which made Huang Wei's heart move. And Huang Wei's handsomeness and majestic hair also made Cai Ruoshu stare at him.
In this way, the two fell in love and even had a relationship. But unfortunately, although the two are in love, if they want to get married, there is a great obstacle, that is, Huang Wei already has a wife and has given birth to three children. It just so happens that this wife was arranged by Huang Wei's stepmother, so if the two want to be together, they must convince the stepmother.
Unfortunately, Huang Wei's stepmother was very dissatisfied with Cai Ruoshu, and even though the two of them knelt outside the door for most of the day, they still did not allow Cai Ruoshu to enter the house. Later, Huang Weihao said that he mobilized all his relatives to help, which made the old lady let go of her anger, but she also clearly stipulated that Cai Ruoshu would never get her approval and was not allowed to enter the clan ancestral hall after death.
In the face of such a vicious request, Huang Wei had no choice, but Cai Ruoshu was overwhelmed by love, and she still chose to accept it with tears. It should be said that in that era of emphasizing identity and family belonging, a woman can still choose to insist on love in such a context, then the sincerity of her love is enough to make everyone awe-inspired.
However, cai Ruoshu did more than one thing for Huang Wei, she also made more and greater sacrifices for Huang Wei later. It's just a pity that in the face of his wife's selfless dedication, Huang Wei's return is chilling.
According to records, the sweet life of the two of them did not last long, and soon the Huaihai War broke out, and Huang Wei became the commander of the Twelve Corps and wanted to kill the battlefield. Originally, Cai Ruoshu was a little worried about her husband, but in the face of her husband's military glory, she could only choose to silently send him away. Perhaps at this time, Huang Wei only had the world in his eyes, but Cai Ruoshu's eyes only had her husband's back.
Fate is always so tricky, the Battle of Huaihai failed, Huang Wei did not know whether he was alive or dead! When she learned of this bad news, Cai Ruoshu's whole body collapsed, and she locked herself in the room and cried for a long time, crying so that her eyes were swollen. But there is no way, although the husband is gone, but the children still need to live. So Cai Ruoshu took the children to Taiwan.
However, Cai Ruoshu is obsessed with her husband's love, so even though she witnessed her husband's funeral in Taiwan, she firmly believed that her husband was not dead. Under the support of this love, Cai Ruoshu quietly left Taiwan, first came to Hong Kong, to pursue her husband's shadow when she learned that her husband was not dead, but was locked up, and after the labor reform, her whole person was happy.
So she quickly and quietly picked up the children again, and took the children to live in Shanghai, where they were not familiar with life. We can't imagine how a single mother with several children can survive in an unfamiliar environment. But what is certain is that no matter how hard and tired, Cai Ruoshu's eyes are always full of light.
However, the wait for her husband is still very long, especially the news of the first amnesty, which almost broke her. At that time, when the first amnesty was granted, many people similar to Huang Wei were released, but there was no huang Wei's figure. It turned out that Huang Wei was a stubborn stinky student, so he resolutely did not accept the transformation, and often sang the right stage drama. As a result, he missed the amnesty.
Hope was dashed, and Cai Ruoshu's spirit was greatly stimulated, and at this time she had already suffered from severe mental illness. But she still gritted her teeth and continued to wait for her husband, from 1959 to 1975, this woman went from being a former woman to a poor woman with white hair and a nervous breakdown, which waited for her husband's return.
However, in the face of his wife's bitter waiting and the excitement of the moment of reunion, Huang Wei ignored his wife like a robot, but repeatedly said that his perpetual motion machine was true.
It turned out that after Huang Wei lost his faith in prison, he had pressed all his life to the study of perpetual motion machines, and he had even abandoned everything for this.
So he ignored his wife's efforts and the child's eager eyes. Such a change, for Cai Ruoshu's blow can be imagined, a whole twenty-seven years of waiting, actually in exchange for such a result, this is how ironic.
But Cai Ruoshu can still persevere, because her mental disorder is often in the midst of reality and illusion, so she can still withstand the blow.
However, the tragedy of fate still arrived, and it turned out that Cai Ruoshu's son sent a message that he was going to get married. The rare good news made Cai Ruoshu finally return to normal, and quickly found her husband who was doing research and announced this good thing. But her husband's response to her was only one word, roll.
At this moment, Cai Ruoshu's pain reached the extreme, and even schizophrenia could not be contained, so she chose to commit suicide under the ashes of all thoughts.
This is the tragedy that belongs to Cai Ruoshu, maybe he is not a great woman, but she is a simple woman, who does not care about the world, does not care about ideals, only cares about lovers. But in her man's eyes, his efforts are not as good as perpetual motion machines and the world, which is a sad thing.
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