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Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

Huang Wei refused to reform after being captured, so he did

Lived in prison for 27 years. whereas

Cai Ruoshu, who had been waiting for her husband for 27 years, scolded her a year after her husband was released from prison, and jumped into the river to commit suicide because she could not stand it.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

Huang Wei's original name was "Difficult Wife"

Cai Weixin

Born in Hangzhou, she is a typical southern girl with a good face and a gentle and pleasant face.

In addition, Cai Weixin also has a good family lineage. Her grandfather Cai Zhongchu was very prestigious in the local area and belonged to a generation of celebrities.

In 1933,

The spirited Huang Wei had just graduated from the special class of the Army University, and when he went south to Hangzhou, Huang Wei went to visit Cai Zhongchu.

At a high-society dance party on the shores of West Lake, 17-year-old

He met 29-year-old Huang Wei and fell in love at first sight. At that time,

It is the pearl in the palm of Hangzhou celebrity Cai Zhongchu, and the most beautiful school flower among women in Hangzhou, while Huang Wei, who is less than 30 years old, is already the ace of Chen Cheng's civil engineering department and the deputy commander of the 11th Division.

From all aspects, these two can be said to be langcai women, the only obstacle is that Huang Wei already has a wife in his hometown and has given birth to three sons for him. However, Huang Wei concealed his marriage and childbearing, with him

Fell in love and lived together

, even unmarried pregnancy.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

Cai Weixin desperately chose to marry Huang Wei, and after marriage, Huang Wei gave Cai Weixin a new name

Cai Ruoshu

。 It means giving the wife the dawn of life, or that she is the dawn of his life. So he "returned home" with a ray of his own glorious light.

Just a few months after marriage, Cai Ruoshu encountered the first difficulty, it turned out that Huang Wei was not a bachelor, he had already been married once in his hometown, the other party was arranged by Huang Wei's parents, and Huang Wei was not satisfied with this arranged marriage. As a woman with a new education, Cai Ruoshu is of course more reluctant to share a husband with other women.

However, in that era, this is not a big problem at all, arranged marriage is not protected by the new society, Huang Wei has married a young and beautiful, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting everyone, of course, it is impossible to give up this marriage, he resolutely wrote to his parents, decided to divorce the original match, Huang Wei's parents saw Cai Ruoshu was born noble, and also gladly accepted this new daughter-in-law, Huang Wei's original match can only leave home.

A few years before Huang Wei and Cai Ruoshu married, the couple lived happily, and in 1934, their first daughter was born, and she was named by Huang Wei

Huang Min

Since then, Huang Wei, who has a wife and a beautiful son (daughter), has gradually embarked on a brilliant period in his military career.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

When the War of Resistance Broke Out, as a genuine patriotic general, in the face of the arrogance of the Japanese Kou, Huang Wei did not hesitate to stand up.

Originally, in February of that year, Huang Wei was ordered to study in Germany, and his wife Cai Ruoshu of course went with him. However, 6 months later, Japanese Navy Lieutenant Ōyama Andio and others drove into Shanghai Hongqiao Airport to provoke, and were killed by the garrison security team, thus igniting the famous in history

Battle of Songhu

。 When Huang Wei in Germany learned of this, he was indignant and returned to China early. Before returning to China, in view of the danger of war, he wanted his wife to stay in Germany and take her back when the war was victorious. But Cai Ruoshu firmly refused:

"Wherever you go, I will go, even if the sword mountain is on fire, go up with you!"

So the two returned hand in hand.

The day after returning to China, Huang Wei went to the battlefield and then became famous in the Battle of Luodian, known as the "Flesh and Blood Mill".

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

It is said that before the war, Huang Wei was mobilized to talk about Cai Ruoshu and inspire the soldiers. He said

In order to support me, my wife kept 20 widows. But your sister-in-law, my old wife does not recognize

。 Now, my wife, your sister-in-law is 30 kilometers away with all the people of Shanghai. Can you bear to leave your sister-in-law and the people of Shanghai without a home?

Cai Ruoshu heard that the Japanese army was approaching and took the initiative to send his residence to the war correspondent camp 500 meters from the front line. Put out a fiery banner yourself: "

I am with you

", became a good story of the Songhu War of Resistance.

In the War of Resistance Against Japan, Cai Ruoshu and Huang Wei also gathered less and left more. Because she could not return to her hometown, Huang Wei specially built a house for her on Lushan Mountain, and his wife lived there with her children.

In August 1945, when the War of Resistance ended with the surrender of Japan, Cai Ruoshu originally thought that he could stay with her husband, but Chiang Kai-shek brazenly provoked a civil war, and Huang Wei had to leave his wife again.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

In fact, before the Battle of Huaihai began, Huang Wei knew that there were many evils and fewer ji, so he entrusted his wife and children to his friends in advance.

At the beginning of 1949, two major events occurred in Huang Wei's 44-year-old life.

The first thing was to set up the battlefield in the double pile, and when the new tank he was riding broke through, the new tank he was riding on dropped anchor, and the subordinate Hu Lian ran away in the old tank.

The second thing was that at that time, his wife Cai Ruoshu was pregnant and was anxiously waiting for his return in Shanghai.

She called the Ministry of Defense several times to inquire about her husband, but the answer was always "waiting for a breakout."

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

However, Huang Wei could not go back.

When he dressed as a soldier and sat with the captured officers and men, he might remember the agreement he made to say goodbye to Chiang for the last time in 1948, after this battle, I would go back to the military academy.

In Huang Wei's heart, he actually didn't want to fight this battle.

But after being captured, he still carried loneliness and pride in his heart.

Zhao Miao Village, on the south bank of the Huan River, was a temporary detention point for captured officers above the regimental level of the Huang Wei Corps.

After the defeat at the Battle of Huaihai, Huang Wei was captured, and his wife and children were taken to Taiwan by Chiang Kai-shek.

At that time, the Kuomintang publicized that Huang Wei had "killed himself and become a benevolent person." However, Cai Ruoshu did not believe that her husband had died, she inquired about his whereabouts everywhere, and later, Huang Wei's boss Chen Cheng secretly told her that Huang Wei was still alive and was only imprisoned in the war criminals management center for reform.

So he resolutely returned to the mainland secretly with his children to accompany his husband. In that era, a woman with several children, you can imagine how difficult life is, especially Cai Ruoshu's special status, which makes her life stretched. But Cai Ruoshu did not regret it, raised several children without complaint and regret, and waited for the day when her husband was released from prison.

It's just that Huang Wei was stubborn and stubborn, and at first he was captured, and Huang Wei said that he refused to bow his head, and he was stubborn and stubborn, and he couldn't see the posture that a prisoner of war should have. He Huang Wei himself also said: I am not guilty, my biggest mistake is to lose the battle.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

Perhaps it was too quick to fall from the altar, and the transformation center of Gong Delin really did not conform to Huang Wei's identity as a "gentleman", in short, Huang Wei and the other warlords in Gong Delin seemed incompatible.

He suffered from five types of tuberculosis, and he was already terminally ill, but he was still a hundred times more energetic and worked against the Gongdelin stewards.

At that time, in order to stabilize the emotions of the people who were transformed in the Gongdelin and not to make impulsive behaviors that self-determined in order to seek "great righteousness", Gongdelin did not turn off the lights all night.

From the beginning of 1959 to the beginning of the Cultural Revolution, there were 6 amnesties, but Huang Wei, as a diehard in the Gongdelin, was never on the list of amnesties.

During this period, Cai Ruoshu still often went from Shanghai to Beijing to visit her husband, in addition to bringing daily necessities, she tried to persuade her husband to change his attitude, cooperate with the government transformation, and strive to come out of the reunion as soon as possible, but he was scolded again and again by the stubborn Huang Wei.

Waiting again and again, disappointment after disappointment, described in words on paper is only a few dozen words, for Cai Ruoshu is indeed thousands of days and nights of suffering and erosion. There is nothing cruel in the world than to give you hope and then shatter it again and again.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

It was not until March 21, 1975, that Huang Wei arrived at Beijing Station on a train from Shenyang to Beijing, when his wife Cai Ruoshu was waiting for Huang Wei on the platform, and the two were finally reunited on this day after 27 years. For Cai Ruoshu, this day seemed like a dream, and she had waited for this day for too long.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

When Huang Wei came out, he was already in his twilight years, and Cai Ruoshu was no longer young and beautiful at this time. The reunion was only a year old, and Huang Wei was still obsessed with studying perpetual motion machines, and his wife Cai Ruoshu persuaded him that he actually scolded Cai Ruoshu:

"Roll, what do you know?!"

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

Cai Ruoshu suffered from depression during years of torment

Coupled with Huang Wei's stubborn personality and the lack of a husband in one amnesty after another, Cai Ruoshu's spirit was tormented. And these abnormalities, Huang Wei, who was released from prison, did not pay attention to them, but still focused on his own affairs.

Cai Ruoshu gave all his feelings and time to her husband, and as a result, her husband was only interested in perpetual motion machines.

Cai Ruoshu: Waiting for Huang Wei for 27 years, the reunion was only one year, but because of her husband's words, he committed suicide by throwing himself into the river

Cai Ruoshu finally chose

Slowly walking into the Yongding River, his mouth kept saying: "I am not good, dragging down your family", and finally flooded by the river.

When Huang Wei knew that his wife had thrown herself into the river, he also jumped down without hesitation to save it, and When Huang Wei came to him, Cai Ruoshu had already turned into a corpse.

He probably really regretted it at that moment.

He wrote a letter for his wife with his own hands:

"If Shu shu is difficult to marry, Huang Wei respects him."

With 27 years of waiting, in exchange for 1 year of reunion, it ended in such an ending, as she wrote that year:

"I'll go crazy without you; marry you and I'll still go crazy."

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