With the improvement of life, more and more people, pursuing the "Dink" family, although they are stars of fame and fortune, have also chosen not to have children. Many people can't understand that for grassroots people, the economic pressure is high, and life is chicken feathers, so they dare not have children. Afraid of giving children a good material life, why do the stars of high-income groups also have such a thought, is it a choice of life, or a selfish escape from responsibility?
In the eyes of outsiders, having children is a natural thing, especially for stars in the entertainment industry, whether it is economic ability or time, they have reached the standard of fertility. But the stars we are familiar with, Zheng Yijian and Park Shu, these two men. Saying a different view, because life is too hard, so I don't want to have children, is it really appropriate? Is there an unknown side between the bitterness of life and the inheritance of the lifeblood?
Zheng Yijian successfully went out of the circle with the hong Kong ancient puzzle characters, and at the peak of his career, he chose to marry his wife in a low-key manner. It can be said that he is a very responsible and good man, but he has been married for many years, and he has not yet come, and the good news of two people having children has made many people very strange. Isn't it a pity that such good resources are wasted? The reporter asked Zheng Yijian such a question. But he did not choose to avoid answering, but very sincerely said a reason that people could not understand.
In Zheng Yijian's concept, life is very painful, and he does not want his children to experience it again. It can be said that such an idea is very extreme, you know, every child should come to this world because of love. Experience the joy of life, experience every stage of the growth process, and feel the beauty of life, but Zheng Yijian does not think so. After being married for many years, he was not ready to become a father, and even felt that the life in front of him was the best enjoyment.
I have to say that everyone has the right to choose marriage, what kind of way, what kind of experience, all up to the individual. Just the lack of such a stage, is it really happiness?. Because life is too hard, so I make up my own mind and decide for my children whether to come or not. Can't help but sigh, what kind of thinking is this? Living in a nursing home in his later years, without a trace of concern, he appeared extremely indifferent.
Of course, Zheng Yijian's idea has also been affirmed by people in the industry, and Park Shu, as a folk singer, has an introverted personality. It also entered the marriage. Asked about the same topic, he also has the same opinion. The general meaning is similar to that of Zheng Yijian. He does not feel that the arrival of the child is to enjoy love and beauty, but to taste the hardships and heartaches of life. It has to be said that these two men not only deprived themselves of their rights as fathers, but also bound the other party's desire for children with love.
This is a selfish act and a responsible act. As a parent, everyone has no experience, the arrival of the child is another chapter in life, how many families have become innocent victims because of the breakdown of feelings. Children in marriage. It is a special existence that not only constrains both husband and wife, but also makes some families happy. It can be said that Zheng Yijian and simple behavior are very selfish, but is it not a responsible attitude towards life?
The child is not a cat and a dog, it takes a lot of effort, and it cannot be discarded at will. As a parent, you must not only provide a good living environment, but also give time to accompany you. Growing up together in the process, but becoming a qualified parent is not an easy task. Some people, because of their feelings, choose to leave, and they owe their children uneasily. Some people choose their children and remain aggrieved for a lifetime.
From the moment the child arrives, everyone has the mission of the next generation on their shoulders. Houses, cars, bride price, for boys' families, this is a must to prepare. Even the marriage relationship of children has become a consideration. This is a very tedious thing, Zheng Yijian and Park Shu, as men, stand in a rational point of view, poke at the hearts of many people.
There are no easy words in the adult world, but families without children are not necessarily happiness. Although the process is difficult, in later life, it will be rewarded. The Dink family is a special existence that has been controversial in recent years. Some people feel that this is a selfish performance, as a parent who makes up his own mind and negates the arrival of the child, and some people feel that this is the behavior of the person in charge, and he spends his life without talking about indebtedness.
After all, it is their own child, whether to come or not, the parties can decide. It's just that more and more people are choosing Dink, more like an escape from responsibility. It is difficult to feed yourself in the face of the chicken feathers of life, not to mention the children of the family, who call themselves "Dink" in a dignified manner, which is quite ironic. Of course, there are also people who nest their own experiences in their children's bodies, afraid that the other party will suffer the same pain, and choose Dink.
It's just that on the road of life, there is no eternal sweetness, and whose life will have some bitterness. This problem should be viewed rationally, not emotionally recognized. Zheng Yijian and Park Shu believe that their lives are very bitter and are a negative emotion. Why don't you use your heart to appreciate the beauty of thousands of worlds, is it that a person's life is to enjoy happiness and lie in the book of merit?
Obviously, this kind of thinking is very extreme, if everyone thinks about it like this, what kind of scenario will it be? The economic level and mentality are not enough to bind the other side. Zheng Yijian's wife and Park Shu's wife chose to be perfect because of love, but the selfishness of the two people is a kind of deprivation of the opportunity to "be a mother".