Shakespeare once said, "The power of love is peace, and from the defiance of reason, convention, and honor and disgrace, it can make all fear, shock, and pain sweet when suffered." "Yes, a thousand worlds, what is love?" Is it money? Is it the benefit? Or emotion? But not all love has a purpose.
59-year-old actor Xu Xiaoshun's love for his 24-year-old wife Xiao Tie is Akagi and warm, for 10 years, they have endured the sneers of others, cold eyes, and even not optimistic, but this does not affect their emotions in the slightest. They dare to show their kindness and love, even if they are criticized. But when Xiao Tie wanted to have children for Xu Xiaoshun, Xu Xiaoshun hesitated, was he selfish or had boundless love?
Xu Xiaoshun also had an unhappy marriage, but this did not become a resistance to his pursuit of happiness again. On the contrary, Saion lost his horse and was not blessed. If the last marriage did not end, he would not meet Xiao Tie, which was not lucky for him. They are 24 years apart, and they have entered the palace of marriage amid the doubts of everyone.
No more, no less, two reincarnations, a 24-year-old gap, there are too many variables that can happen, but they don't believe in the barrier of age. "The mountains and seas you love are flat." Yes, their love has been weathered from the beginning, and there are not a few people who pour cold water. But even so, it has not been able to resist the power of love.
Ten years have passed, netizens are still chattering, but the lives of Xu Xiaoshun and Xiao Tie are also "thriving" step by step. When a person knows how to be satisfied and grateful, the god of luck must be close to him. He boasted that he was lucky to marry Xiao Tie. Instead of boasting about his efforts, he confessed that it was his wife who brought him good luck.
Yes, human energy is limited. Spending a lot of time in your career is bound to be greatly reduced in life. His wife did not frequently express dissatisfaction and obstruction to his career, but silently accepted and tolerated him, which was indeed Xu Xiaoshun's blessing.
Because of this, he also did not hesitate to give his love to his wife. At the award ceremony, the figure of Xu Xiaoshun appeared. "Golden Bell Award Host Award Winner - Xu Xiaoshun", the host's voice just dropped. Xu Xiaoshun did not enjoy this honor himself, he took his wife Xiao Tie to the podium.
This honor, without the wife's understanding and dedication, it is almost impossible to win it alone. He gave all his love to his wife, on the podium, on the podium, in all sorts of public places. When he praised Xiao Tie, there was a little light in his eyes full of pampering.
He has experienced the failure of marriage and clearly knows his shortcomings, so he is also trying to be a good husband. "Love needs to be managed," he did. In his spare time, he always creates surprises for Xiaotie - buying flowers, cooking, etc. Flowers and ingredients became the lubricant of the two people's emotions.
This is the mode of getting along between the two of them, and they should be envied, but because of the age gap, they are suffering from all kinds of criticism. The photo of the two eating out was taken, and in the photo, the two could not see the appearance of a husband and wife in terms of body shape or skin state, but rather like a daughter and a father. Because of this, Xu Xiaoshun is often ridiculed by others: old cows eat tender grass.
It seems that in all marriages with large age differences, the two parties must be trying to figure something out of each other, but is this really the case? If Xiao Tie married Xu Xiaoshun to make money, is it that Xu Xiaoshun's investment failed, and Xiao Tie would leave him?
But Xiao Tie did not, since the two married, Xu Xiaoshun is frequently making large and small investments. Of course, investing is risky, sometimes successful, sometimes failing. However, in Xu Xiaoshun's investment experience, most of them failed. But Xiao Tie did not leave him because of this.
Therefore, not all marriages are profitable, simple and pure love is not in the minority, Xu Xiaoshun and Xiao Tie are not one of them? Setbacks did not tear them apart, but made them cherish each other better.
"If there are three tigers in the family, you don't have to look at the yellow calendar when you go out." Xu Xiaoshun belongs to the tiger, xiao tie belongs to the tiger, and there is still one difference. Xiao Tie hoped to add another tiger to Xu Xiaoshun, but Xu Xiaoshun said that his wife's ambiguous smile made him afraid.
Many people will ask: Passing on the generations is a good thing, why be afraid? Is Xu Xiaoshun not wanting to take responsibility? Or is there something else hidden? This has also become a major doubt. But think about it in reverse. If Xu Xiaoshun did not want to bear it, how could he accept a son and a daughter? But some people will say: A son and a daughter have it, are you afraid of another one?
It is reasonable to say that the public is justified, and the mother is reasonable, but our remarks are only speculations, and only the parties know best.
According to the person concerned, such a decision was made because he considered that there was a problem with xiao Tie's cardiac membrane. The birth of two children may have reached her upper limit, all of which is unknown. However, he did not dare. He did not dare to risk the safety of his wife's life, even if it was voluntary.
Love that falls on the lips is not love, and action can only explain. He did what a husband should do. He was responsible for his wife, for life that had not yet come. This is the man. Although the outside world thinks that he has done a good enough, but for Xu Xiaoshun, this is not enough, he thinks that he has not given enough to his wife and children, he wants to create more happiness for them.
With a start-up capital of 1.5 million yuan, he became a funeral tycoon in one fell swoop. Yes, he continued to invest, only this time, he succeeded in investing. Six-figure monthly income, bringing a better standard of living to his family, he did.
Today, Xu Xiaoshun is 59 years old and is about to enter the age of enjoying his old age, Xiao Tie is 35 years old, which is in a beautiful stage in his life. Most people at this stage, they don't have financial pressure, they can completely empty themselves and enjoy life. But for Xiao Tie, her and Xu Xiaoshun's being together is the greatest happiness.
In the entertainment industry, there are not a few couples with far different ages, but there are only a few whose feelings are so stable. Of course, a good relationship must need to be managed, if in this relationship, one party "suppresses" the other party, naturally it will not be long-term. They treat each other as equals and manage with their hearts, so this relationship has become our envy.
For everyone, this is true. Love is an act of intuition, looking for clues in each other's gaze, love is an intuitive choice, in the pocket of feelings, I am willing to empty for you. The relationship between Xu Xiaoshun and Xiao Tie is also like this, they dedicate themselves to each other, pay each other, and achieve each other.