Recently, in a variety show, the stories of former ice and snow partners Sui Wenjing and Han Cong have attracted widespread attention.
The two were once a high-profile pair in ice and snow events, and they went through countless difficulties and challenges together, and finally achieved excellent results and won honor for the country.
With the end of the game and the arrival of retirement, the relationship between the two seems to have experienced some twists and turns, and even some estrangement and misunderstandings.
Recently, in a show, Sui Wenjing connected with Han Cong live, hoping to communicate with him, but was treated indifferently by Han Cong, and this scene also made many viewers feel distressed.
In the face of Han Cong's departure and indifference, Sui Wenjing also showed some heavy emotions and needed to re-examine her inner world and emotional problems.
With the passage of time, many elite athletes will go through the inevitable process of retirement, and retirement often means a huge change in life and identity for athletes.
In the past competitions, they have achieved excellent results with their excellent skills and perseverance, won glory for the country, and have been recognized and loved by many people for this.
Once they retire, they need to adapt to the living conditions of ordinary people, and can no longer have the glory and achievements of competition as in the past, which is a huge psychological shock and challenge for many athletes.
Take Sui Wenjing and Han Cong as examples, in the past competitions, they could stand on the podium with their outstanding performances, play a victory movement for the country, and received applause and blessings from many people.
With the arrival of retirement, they need to slowly adapt to such a new state of life, and they can no longer devote all their energy to training and competing as in the past, which is undoubtedly a huge challenge and test for them.
Perhaps it is precisely because of such changes that there will be some estrangement and misunderstanding between the two, and their relationship will become a little delicate and complicated.
In the face of Han Cong's departure and indifference, Sui Wenjing was indeed hurt to a certain extent, she may not have expected such a change in the relationship between herself and Han Cong, and she didn't know how to face and deal with it.
In the past, the two could support each other, face difficulties together, and achieve excellent results.
Now, Han Cong has chosen another path, and it seems that Sui Wenjing has not been included in his new life, which is undoubtedly a heavy blow and test for Sui Wenjing.
Even in the face of such emotional distress, Sui Wenjing did not choose to escape and complain, but bravely faced reality, examined her inner emotions, and gradually let go of her past obsessions.
Perhaps, everyone needs to go through such a process, in life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges, can not stay forever in the good memories of the past, only bravely face the reality, can meet a better future.
The story of Sui Wenjing and Han Cong may just be a reflection of the emotions that are common among ice and snow athletes, and many athletes experience similar emotional problems and distress after retiring.
Retirement is not only a technical and physical departure, but also a huge mental and emotional test, requiring a re-examination of one's life and values, and the need to find inner balance and self-identity.
Perhaps, in the old days, they could gain the recognition and affection of others with their excellent technology, and feel that everything they do is meaningful.
Now, they need to adapt to a new state of life, rediscover their purpose and motivation, understand that the glory and achievements of the past cannot sustain them forever, and they need to learn to adapt and change.
Perhaps, we can take some inspiration from the stories of Sui Wenjing and Han Cong, and try to communicate with others and ask for help and support when facing similar emotional distress.
You can also enrich your life in various ways, find new hobbies, expand your life horizons, and believe that as long as you face it bravely, you will be able to find your own happiness.
In the process of growth and life, everyone will encounter various difficulties and challenges to a greater or lesser extent, and will also experience many unexpected changes and separations.
When we are faced with similar emotional issues, we may be able to draw some inspiration from the stories of Sui Wenjing and Han Cong, and understand that past glory and accomplishment cannot sustain us forever.
We need to learn to face the reality bravely, let go of the obsession of the past, and believe that only in this way can we meet a better future.