On September 7, 2014, in a hospital in Yanqing District, Beijing, a nurse pushed a bed to walk in the hospital passageway, and the pregnant woman's stomach on the bed was bulging high, and the size was more than twice as large as the stomach of an ordinary pregnant woman!
The people around them were very surprised, and their eyes stayed on the pregnant woman for a long time. When the door to the operating room closed, a patient asked a young man who had just moved with the pregnant woman's bed out of curiosity, "Oh, who is this person?" ”
The man replied, "It's my wife." ”
The patient was surprised: "Your wife? You look a round younger than her, right? ”
The man seemed to have long been accustomed to such conversations, and he nodded and said, "Well, she is pregnant with three children this time." ”
How did this old wife and young husband come together in spite of the world's vision? And what causes an elderly pregnant woman to risk her life to conceive triplets?
"Love at first sight for the landlady at the annual meeting"
Su Jianjun, born on July 18, 1983 in Xin'an County, Luoyang, Henan Province, his father is a middle school teacher in the town, and his mother is a farmer at home.
Su Jianjun was trained by his parents to be admitted to Henan University of Science and Technology. It is said that love during college is the purest and happiest, although Su Jianjun looks ordinary, but he likes to participate in various student activities, he has excellent grades and is kind, in this case, Su Jianjun has also talked about love several times.
Su Jianjun's love affair during college did not exceed half a year, and Su Jianjun found that he always felt that the other party was very childish and liked to make unreasonable trouble when he got along with girls of the same age.
As a result, Su Jianjun began to feel bored with love, and after his senior year, Su Jianjun never had the idea of falling in love with a girl younger than himself.
After graduating from college, Su Jianjun chose to drift north, and he came to work in a private company in Beijing, and there were many young and beautiful girls in the company, but Su Jianjun never touched them.
On December 17, 2005, the company held a year-end party at the Everbright Hotel in Beijing, at which Li Qiaolin, a 41-year-old owner of the company, spoke. This was the first time Su Jianjun had met Li Qiaolin, who was 19 years older than himself.
At the meeting, Li Qiaolin spoke softly in front of the employees, expressing his gratitude to the company's employees this year.
Although Li Qiaolin herself is 41 years old, she is very well maintained, and it can be seen that her skin is still blown and broken.
The female colleagues around Su Jianjun all bowed their heads and talked about the secret of Li Qiaolin's maintenance, and Su Jianjun himself was deeply attracted by the gentleness and rationality revealed by Li Qiaolin in the process of speaking.
Su Jianjun began to ask his colleagues about Li Qiaolin. Colleague Wang Dewei, who joined the company two years before Su Jianjun joined the company, smiled and told Su Jianjun that the company was founded by Li Qiaolin and her husband, and Li Qiaolin also had a 16-year-old son.
Originally, he only wanted to inquire about the news about Li Qiaolin, but he did not expect to learn that she was already married, and Su Jianjun also knew that it was immoral to sabotage the marriage of others, and he could only hide his admiration for Li Qiaolin deeply in his heart.
"The boss is divorced, brave to chase love"
However, shortly after the Spring Festival resumed work on February 16, 2006, Wang Dewei gossiped to Su Jianjun that Li Qiaolin had divorced her husband during the Spring Festival. The speaker had no intention of listening to the heart, and Su Jianjun's heart was pounding at that time, and he was busy asking about the inside story of the Wang Dewei incident.
It was almost the Spring Festival, and it was supposed to be a happy family, but Li Qiaolin's husband also said that he needed to go on a business trip, and Li Qiaolin was suspicious of this. As a result, on the eve of the Spring Festival, Li Qiaolin caught her husband and lover opening a house.
Sitting on the fact that her husband was cheating, Li Qiaolin did not cry, on the contrary, she was unusually calm. She and her husband divorced directly after the Spring Festival, and her husband left the house, while Li Qiaolin won the children and the company.
Wang Dewei also sighed after gossiping, and now Li Qiaolin is a single rich woman sitting on tens of millions of assets, if any little white face leans on her, the second half of her life will not worry about eating and drinking.
As a spectator of the incident, most people in the company regarded Li Qiaolin's divorce as a talking point after tea, but Su Jianjun sensed Li Qiaolin's difficulties.
A middle-aged woman who has been in love with her husband for many years cheats and does not know how Li Qiaolin is heartbroken behind his back. Coupled with the fact that Li Qiaolin also has a son who is in a rebellious period at this moment, the burden of the company and the family can only be borne by Li Qiaolin alone. The two sides could not get out of their bodies, and Li Qiaolin himself must have been very tired.
Because Su Jianjun performed well in the company and was just promoted during this time, Su Jianjun had more opportunities to contact senior executives, including Li Qiaolin.
Because of his admiration for Li Qiaolin, Su Jianjun was very excited every time he talked to Li Qiaolin, but at that time, they were still the relationship between the superiors and subordinates of the company, and the conversation between Su Jianjun and Li Qiaolin was mostly centered on work.
On August 14, 2006, Su Jianjun's excellent ability was affirmed by Li Qiaolin, and the company decided to increase Su Jianjun's own salary. On this day, Su Jianjun was called to Li Qiaolin's office alone to talk.
During the period from work to life, Su Jianjun gradually eased his nervousness, and he became calm and self-assured. He talked to Li Qiaolin as if he had met an old acquaintance. Su Jianjun was talkative and humorous, and at once he narrowed the distance between Li Qiaolin and himself.
The two talked happily and forgot the time, until Li Qiaolin's secretary came in to remind them that there was a meeting shortly after, and the conversation between the two was forced to be interrupted.
Before leaving, Li Qiaolin praised Su Jianjun and said that he was a talkative person. After that, Su Jianjun always took the initiative to chat with Li Qiaolin in his free time. Sometimes I came to Li Qiaolin's office, and sometimes I met him in the canteen during dinner.
Li Qiaolin had a good impression of this young man who was 19 years younger than himself, and did not refuse Su Jianjun's chat.
The two have been in this situation for more than a year, Su Jianjun and Li Qiaolin chatted, felt the charm of mature women's conversation, and he was more certain of his feelings for Li Qiaolin.
On October 12, 2007, Su Jianjun involuntarily confessed his heart in a chat with Li Qiaolin, he said, "Qiaolin, I love you, although the age difference between the two of us is very large, but I don't care." Would you like to be with me? ”
Li Qiaolin, who received the confession, was very shocked at that time, in the daily chat, she just regarded Su Jianjun as a junior, willing to solve his puzzles in life and work, she never thought that Su Jianjun had always liked herself. Li Qiaolin even rejected Su Jianjun.
After being rejected, Su Jianjun was once confused, and whenever he saw Li Qiaolin, he stared at the other party with a very sad look.
Under this sense of guilt, Li Qiaolin also gradually began to pay more attention to this young man, and even later developed feelings similar to pity.
Li Qiaolin knows that he may have been impressed by Su Jianjun, but the fact that her ex-husband cheated on him makes it difficult for Li Qiaolin to easily believe in the love in a man's mouth.
Li Qiaolin, who was undecided, told his friends about Su Jianjun's love for him. Friends have said that Su Jianjun must have taken a fancy to Li Qiaolin's money and wanted to take advantage of Li Qiaolin's divorce and injury.
Friends also let Li Qiaolin's gender reverse, assuming that he is a man with not very good family conditions. Just think, a single rich woman with tens of millions of assets, well maintained and charming, who will not have some other thoughts?
Under the persuasion of his friends, Li Qiaolin gradually calmed down.
But Su Jianjun himself never gave up his pursuit of Li Qiaolin, and even became more and more frustrated and courageous after Li Qiaolin refused.
Some people in the company ridiculed Su Jianjun that he just liked money, and Su Jianjun replied: "I just like Li Qiaolin's money. But compared to money, I think Li Qiaolin's character and charm are ten thousand times more precious than money. ”
"Company bankruptcy, hand in hand"
In 2008, the 44-year-old Li Qiaolin failed to invest, and then like dominoes, even the company with Li Qiaolin was hit hard. In the later stage, Li Qiaolin could not afford to pay the salaries of employees, and she could not continue to operate the company.
The trees fell and scattered, and the walls fell and the people pushed them. Since li Qiaolin's investment failed, the original friends around her began to gradually stop contacting her, and even the old employees of those companies have resigned.
Li Qiaolin sold the large villa where he originally lived, and he could not even afford to pay for the rental house, and Li Qiaolin could only live in the dim basement in the end.
Li Qiaolin believes that after he has no money, Su Jianjun will also stay away from him like others and look for his own great future. After all, it is human instinct to seek advantage and avoid harm.
But what Li Qiaolin did not expect was that Su Jianjun did not stay away from himself because of the collapse of the company, on the contrary, Su Jianjun accompanied him from beginning to end. At first, Li Qiaolin also persuaded Su Jianjun not to accompany him, a poor egg, but Su Jianjun insisted on sharing hardships with Li Qiaolin.
Perhaps li Qiaolin, who has experienced great ups and downs, needs the comfort of others in her heart, this time she did not drive Su Jianjun away, but let Su Jianjun live in the cold basement with herself, perhaps at that time, Li Qiaolin really fell in love with Su Jianjun.
In the basement there was only one wire bed and two stools. This is all Su Jianjun and Li Qiaolin's "home", and sometimes cockroach rats crawl over the bed.
In such a depressed day, Su Jianjun accompanied Li Qiaolin through the haze of the company's bankruptcy. After that, Li Qiaolin regained her strength, started from scratch, re-established the pharmaceutical company, and put it on the right track.
Because of this accompaniment, Li Qiaolin's friends recognized Su Jianjun's character, and they finally believed that Su Jianjun did not like Li Qiaolin's little white face for money, and the two finally came together.
"Elderly pregnant women, venturing to give birth to triplets for their husbands"
After a few months together, Su Jianjun took Li Qiaolin back to his hometown in Henan to meet his parents. But the relatives in the hometown are very unoptimistic about Su Jianjun's love affair, after all, the woman is 19 years older than Su Jianjun, and even the same age as Su Jianjun's parents.
Many people outside say that Li Qiaolin is "an old cow eating tender grass." But the two have already survived the most difficult troughs together, and how can they be defeated by rumors so easily.
With the efforts of both sides, Su Jianjun's parents soon relaxed and recognized the daughter-in-law, who was 19 years older than their son.
On December 17, 2010, witnessed by relatives and friends, Li Qiaolin wore a white wedding dress and once again entered the palace of marriage. This time, Li Qiaolin firmly believed that he had really met someone who could be entrusted for life.
Although Su Jianjun did not put forward his needs for children after marriage, Li Qiaolin could still feel her husband's desire for heirs. Every time he met someone else's child outside, Su Jianjun always had to tease for a long time.
After thinking about it for a long time, Li Qiaolin decided to conceive a child for Su Jianjun. Because Li Qiaolin is more than forty years old, it is almost impossible to conceive naturally at such an age, so Su Jianjun accompanied Li Qiaolin around to seek medical treatment, planning to do IVF.
But I tried many times, but IVF could not survive in Li Qiaolin's womb. Husband Su Jianjun could not bear to see his wife's expectations disappointed again and again, so he offered to give up the matter of having children.
Li Qiaolin did not agree, she actively maintained her body, with the doctor's examination, this time Li Qiaolin put a total of three embryos in her body. She thought that even if she survived one, it would be a gift from heaven to herself.
However, it was such providence that Li Qiaolin put in all three embryos this time.
The conception of triplets was not an easy task, not to mention that Li Qiaolin was nearly fifty years old at this time. The doctor suggested that for Li Qiaolin's safety, two embryos in the uterus could be taken out. But Li Qiaolin believes that conceiving three children is God's will, and she does not want to give up any of them.
On September 7, 2014, after more than seven months of pregnancy, Li Qiaolin, who was 50 years old, had a caesarean section in the hospital and successfully gave birth to two boys and a girl.
"Crossing the age gap, finally becoming a model couple"
Today, Li Qiaolin is 58 years old, and Su Jianjun is almost 39 years old.
Since Li Qiaolin gave birth to a child, she has slowly shifted her focus from work to family. After Li Qiaolin retired, the company was fully controlled by Su Jianjun, and Li Qiaolin's company has developed steadily under the operation of Su Jianjun in recent years.
After retirement, Li Qiaolin became a full-time mother, taking care of the daily life of the family's three children. On September 1, 2020, Li Qiaolin sent all three children to Yihe Road Primary School in Beijing.
In addition to picking up and dropping off children every day, Li Qiaolin will also make an appointment to the beauty room for maintenance, even if he is nearly sixty years old, Li Qiaolin's face is still not old.
Before the epidemic, Li Qiaolin and Su Jianjun would take their three children to play around the country every winter and summer vacation. Because of the epidemic situation during the Spring Festival this year, Li Qiaolin decided not to go out of the province on his journey with his children and play locally in Beijing.
Today's Li Qiaolin and Su Jianjun are no longer the "old and young love" in the surrounding population, and more people will say "model couple" when they are mentioned.
Age and identity are not barriers to love, as long as you have feelings, no matter how "unmatched" the relationship can also work together to grow old!
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