-01-
Sanmao has a sentence in "Allure", which is very beautiful:
At that time, I was a beautiful woman, and I knew that when I laughed, I was like a spring flower, and I would be able to move people--whoever he was.
People, if they can have a vivid and beautiful smile at any time, then most of the time, luck will be very good.
Because, a person who can keep a smile, no matter how old he is, no matter where he is, he can make his heart warm and bake, and let the people around him be warm.
Perhaps, we always like to live a little freely, the sky is not afraid, the earth is not afraid, in order to be at ease with everything.
However, the bittersweet and bittersweet of life will always infiltrate into the ordinary days from time to time, making us lost, making us timid, and making it difficult for us to adhere to our own authenticity.
So, the smile becomes a mask to protect ourselves, anytime, anywhere, as if we can all rip the corners of our mouths and give others a big smile.
But every time, when he was alone, he took off the mask on his face, and in the middle of the night, he couldn't sleep looking at the moon.
It can be seen that people need to be bright in their hearts in order to live their lives.
Only with a bright heart can you encounter any difficulties and setbacks, no matter how embarrassed you are, no matter how deep you are in the mud, you can be safe, calm, and gentle, and walk out of your own undisturbed mountains and rivers.
So, don't panic, don't worry, the rest of our lives are long, we have to laugh and walk slowly.
-02-
Mr. Yang Dai once said a sentence:
In this materialistic world, life is really hard enough. You are bent on being an honest person who has no quarrel with the world, and people will use you to bully you. If you have a little talent and moral character, people will be jealous of you and exclude you. If you give in generously, people will invade you and harm you. If you don't have to fight with others, you have to have nothing to ask for from the world, and at the same time you have to maintain your strength and prepare for struggle. If you want to live peacefully with others, you must first deal with them, and you must be prepared to suffer losses at any time.
It seems that no matter how you live, you are a little aggrieved, and you are a bit at a loss.
However, the road still has to go forward step by step, and people still have to meet one after another.
We must take out our own qualities and bottom line, encounter any difficulties, encounter any injustice, in order to measure our own principles, do not violate our hearts, and make the right choices.
When people live and their hearts are not dark, then everything is warm, and the more you do not take "difficulty" seriously, the less difficult it will be for you.
Walk slowly, enjoy the scenery on the side of the road, calmly and calmly, elegant and safe, treat the days as fine wine, savor it carefully, in order to be able to spoil and not be shocked, watch the flowers blossom before the court, go to stay unintentional, and see the clouds cirrus in the sky.
Life is not about how much you have, but how much you are willing to let go; life is free, not how much you care, but how much you can look down.
-03-
So-called, the real celebrity is self-indulgent.
Probably because they don't care if they are a pampered lady at the moment, or a farmer busy in the rural fields, whether they are hermits living in the mountains, or high-ranking officials in the temple... They all have a heart that has tasted all the flavors of life, and their hearts are still as bright as ever.
In this world, if a person can experience the ups and downs, he can not be alarmed, he can hold the heart of peace with the encounter, go with the flow, so many and a half, the rest of his life, will not be too bad.
Life is a long road, we can live in peacetime, can have no food and clothing, go out conveniently, and have already enjoyed too much happiness in this world.
Chai rice oil and salt is a kind of happiness, poetry, song and painting, is a kind of sublimation.
In this life, the joy of living lies in more experience, living a picture of the day.
Those who are good, bad, happy, unhappy, happy, sad... No matter what kind of situation, it is given by years, put away your uneasiness, accept it calmly, and so that you will be fine.
When you're angry, vent it; when you're happy, laugh out loud.
Don't let yourself live so embarrassingly and hold back. And like the people, chat more, and disgust people, far away, live up to the time, do not live up to themselves, in order to live their own free life.
-04-
In fact, in this lifetime, the larger the heart, the bigger the world; the smaller the heart, the narrower the world.
So, bored, don't be bored alone, talk to friends more; hungry, don't deal with it at will, go to the vegetable market, the cure of fireworks is not good you can imagine; stuffy, go to the beach to see the sea, the vastness and blue of the sea, will make all your troubles dissipate in an instant...
We live to have a gentle heart and live gratefully. Don't let yourself, always closed, the spring breeze is ten miles, the scenery is infinite, you must believe: as long as you live, you will encounter beauty.
If you have a good mentality and a good state of mind, everything is fine.
Everything has its laws, don't be stubborn, don't look away, don't think through, don't live so brazenly, don't be too stubborn, the more you can hold your breath, the more life will return to you more.
Days, to live out the taste, in order to be able to live vividly.
If you go to a narrow place, believe that this is the norm of life; if you go to a wide place, don't be arrogant. Don't be discouraged when things happen, gain or lose at will, and stay in the sky in order to live out the realm of slow life.
-05-
Taste a cup of tea, drink slowly, in order to taste the fragrance in the bitterness, in order to be full of mouth, thick and mellow;
Reading a book, reading slowly, in order to see through the bittersweet and bittersweet in the text, to understand a person's life, in order to read the charm of the text;
Look at the sunset, slowly appreciate, in order to see the red of the sky, see the bottom of the heart, in the twilight of the day, to meet the peace of mind of the arrival of the night;
Only by reciting a sentence of Buddha and slowly entering the heart can we deeply engrave the words of the Buddha in the heart, restrain ourselves in behavior, respect cause and effect more, and be more kind to the world.
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Life is like a reverse journey, we are all just pedestrians.
You must believe that in this life, what people we meet and what we encounter are the best arrangements in fate.
Look away, everything is a natural; the heart is wide, and anything will be open.
Those imperfections that are encountered, those emotions that are accumulated in the heart, when they can retreat, take a step back and let it open the sea and the sky.
No matter what kind of way of life, no matter where you go, no matter where the future is, you must open your heart and let the sun shine in.
The rest of the day is very long, let us walk slowly with a smile, not hurried, not in a hurry.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!