The winter vacation is coming, how to let children spend a healthy and happy vacation? As a practitioner, here are three pieces of advice for parents.
First, give children a certain choice, so that they have room for independent development. The holiday is to give children a rest and adjustment stage, a semester of study life has given children greater pressure, they are still young, need to relax in a timely manner. We must respect the laws of children's growth, do not use the holiday as a semester, and give children time and space to think and innovate and explore. For example, let the child choose a musical instrument or read some literary works, and participate in some social activities under the premise of epidemic prevention and safety to expand his thinking and cognition.
2. Strengthen parent-child relationships. In the semester, many parents play the role of knife bearers, giving their children a lot of pressure, and even erupting into certain words or behaviors that affect the parent-child relationship. Therefore, we must take advantage of the holidays to have more intimate contact with children to grow together, give children the companionship of love, you can chat with them about life, talk about growth, talk about hobbies, truly understand the children's spiritual needs, and be a good friend and role model for children.
Third, health is the most important. Health is not limited to the body, but also mental health. Children must be encouraged to exercise, cultivate interests, inherit culture and labor practices, and cultivate comprehensive literacy, strong physique and healthy personality that will benefit children for life.
Also remind you to pay attention to how long your child spends using electronics and what they browse. Electronic products are not "drugs" that must be rejected, but they must be used together with your children to better play the role of electronic products, help children explore the unknown, and grow up healthily.
The journey of life is long, do not rush to sprint, the so-called thick accumulation, cramming behavior is harmful and no benefit, rather than parents harshly educating children, it is better for parents to grow up with them.