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In this world, there will always be a person who thinks of you from the heart, your sorrows and joys, your sorrows, he can sense and give back.
In this life, people do not seek everything to go well, but when they do not go well, they can have a listener, quietly stay aside, and listen to you. Solve your problems, fight for you and the whole world.
As the old saying goes, "A thousand dollars are easy to get, but it is hard to find a confidant." Sometimes it is very difficult for someone to understand you and be sincere.
Life is in a hurry, we are all urged by time to grow up, and it often backfires if we want to meet three or two friends. Some people have a set in front of their faces and a set behind their backs, and when you take him seriously as a friend, people are secretly calculating and comparing.
Therefore, more often, the difficulty of finding confidants is more reflected in the cold attitude of this world, and it is the insincerity of people and people that makes it impossible for people who are really related to each other to get together.
Whether this person is a relative or a lover around him, a confidant or a friend, he will become the reliance behind you, quietly listening to the story without making ripples, knowing how to consider you, in fact, it is also a kind of happiness.
Being able to have three or two friends, know each other, know each other's bottom line, and know how to make each other happy is actually a kind of mutual redemption.
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Sincerity is the most important thing for people to come to the end
The way people get along with people can often see a person's behavior and attitude, sincere people, often surrounded by real friends. People say, "Sincerity for sincerity." If you treat others sincerely, others will give you the same feedback.
The criterion for judging a person's goodness to you is not how much money he spends for you, nor whether he is obedient to you, but the company of the lows, which is also the arm when you are tired.
In love, two people who communicate with each other go further than people who share the same bed and different dreams.
In love, not all Romeo can meet his own Juliet, and not all Liang Shanbo can meet his own Zhu Yingtai.
In Wang Xiaobo's letter to Li Yinhe, there is a sentence that says: "I only hope that we will be kind to each other, not jealous of each other, not praise each other, and what I say to you is like what you said to me, sincere and not with the slightest falsehood."
Perhaps it is precisely because they are so sincere that they have survived the most difficult distance and the world's worldly vision, which is why there is "Love You Like Loving Life", a sincere love letter that spans centuries.
Wang Xiaobo is very lucky to meet Li Yinhe, and it is also a blessing that Li Yinhe can fall in love with Wang Xiaobo. Just like a relationship, the most beautiful thing is not wishful thinking, but two feelings of mutual pleasure.
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People who know how to be good to you must know how to cherish
Feelings are not used to miss, but to cherish, cherish the present is also love in the present, do not feel depressed until the loss, do not wait until the person in mind is gone, before delaying the opening.
Just like the famous line in "Journey to the West": "There was once a sincere love in front of me, which I did not cherish, and I regretted it until I lost it."
On Earth, there are 7.7 billion people, more than 200 countries, and the probability of being able to meet is 29.2 million, and it is not easy to meet, let alone love and know each other, so don't lose the person you love the most.
In "If Love", Sun Na, who dreams of becoming an actor, and Lin Jiandong, who wants to direct a play, met in the trough of their careers and loved each other deeply, but when the dream and love chose one or the other, Sun Na still chose Nie Wen, who could give him more acting opportunities, and this relationship also buried deep regrets.
Unfortunately, Sunna lost the one he loved her, and when he wanted to save it, he had no chance.
More often, their story is the choice between our life, love and bread, and those who understand you will certainly be able to give you happiness, while those who have bread may not be able to give you a future.
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The best luck is that he understands you in love
True love is not to be reciprocated, as sung in "Warm and Warm": "Sincerely be good to me, do not ask for return."
Loving someone and hoping he's better, playing warm from the heart, you are more important than yourself. "Love is giving, it's the joy of looking at your face with a smile, and it's also the silence when you're depressed."
In the movie "Heavenly Love", there is a scene that is memorable: Andy Lau's role, for the sake of his beloved woman, smashes open the window, lets the beloved girl put on the wedding dress, and then drives a motorcycle, galloping in the night scene.
Maybe the person who really loves you understands your romance, and this is also his action after hearing her dream of putting on the wedding dress and becoming his bride, maybe he understands her, can be so wayward protector, can be so concerned and loving.
In this life, it is very difficult to meet a person who is sincere to himself, do not lose it to be sad, more often, to grasp the present, to keep the happiness of reality.
Some people worry is a kind of happiness, some people respond is a kind of respect, some people love deeply is a kind of satisfaction, people must learn to cherish, cherish the person in front of you, cherish a person who fights for you.