Novice mothers must have noticed a phenomenon, every time the baby is hungry crying, this time to breastfeed them, the result is not a few minutes, the baby may fall asleep. After the baby falls asleep, no matter how light the force is, no matter how slow the process is, as long as the baby is put on the bed, it will not be long before the baby will wake up, which also makes the mothers feel that the baby is too difficult to serve.
01 Bao Mom directly collapsed after breastfeeding for two weeks, and her mother-in-law's words calmed her down
Kobayashi is still a young post-95 mother, and sometimes she feels that she is a child who has not grown up, and as a result, she gave birth to a baby. When she first started taking care of her baby, there were a lot of things that she didn't fit in, and there were a lot of things that made her feel devastated.
In the case of breastfeeding, Kobayashi found that her son was a "quick mouth", crying before every time he wanted to drink milk, and the crying was more fierce than other babies, and every time he made Kobayashi cry.
What makes Kobayashi feel even more helpless is that every time she rushes to breastfeed the child, the result is that the child falls asleep after drinking milk for only three minutes, and gently pats and gently shakes or talks to him, and cannot make the little guy wake up, which will make Kobayashi mistakenly think that the baby is asleep, so simply put the baby to sleep on the bed.
But before a few minutes, the baby woke up again and began to look for milk to drink, and Kobayashi could only toss with him. Originally, she had just given birth to a child, and her body needed more rest, but the child's fuss made her unable to rest well at all.
If it is only a few times, it is fine, but for two weeks in a row, and every night even at two or three o'clock in the morning, the child will wake up, and after two weeks of spinning, Kobayashi finally collapsed, holding the child and crying while breastfeeding. At this time, the mother-in-law heard the noise and came to be frightened, and thought that something had happened, and she could not cry during confinement, which was not good for her eyes, so she quickly comforted Kobayashi.
After Xiaolin informed her mother-in-law of her grievances, her mother-in-law was relieved and explained, "Silly children, newborns are so difficult to serve, you want to think, the reason why the baby will fall asleep, in fact, he feels that his mother has a sense of security in her arms, plus drinking milk is easy to get tired, the little guy's strength is so big, naturally falling asleep faster." ”
The mother-in-law's words made Xiaolin suddenly feel very warm, and she slowly calmed down her emotions. After that, the mother-in-law said that she could sleep with Kobayashi during the confinement period, so that she could take care of the children together.
02 The baby sleeps "as soon as he dips the breast milk", and wakes up when he puts it down, why is it so difficult to serve? The reason is heartwarming
In fact, many babies have "a dip in breast milk" to sleep, put down on the situation of waking up, as for why it is so difficult to serve, the reason behind it is still very warm. On the one hand, because the closest person to the baby is Bao Ma, when they wake up and do not find their mother around, they will have a great sense of uneasiness, and then they will cry endlessly. Until the mother comes to soothe their emotions, and breastfeeding is the most direct way for them to be close to their mother, and it can also calm their uneasiness the most.
On the other hand, whether in the previous stage of crying or in the subsequent stage of breastfeeding, "crying" and "sucking" will cost the baby a lot of effort. The newborn's strength itself is very small, and it is easy to fall asleep after spending too much energy on these two aspects.
In addition, there is also a "cold knowledge", that is, some components in breast milk can play a role in soothing the baby's emotions and can make the baby sleepy, so the baby often appears to be hungry when drinking milk and drinking for many reasons.
As for why the baby puts it down and wakes up, it is mainly because the baby has not yet eaten enough, and because the stomach is too hungry, resulting in too much rush to suck breast milk. We all know that when people are hungry, they can't actually eat much, and they will soon feel full, but it won't be long before they will be hungry. Babies are the same, and after a few minutes, they will feel hungry again, so they will wake up and look for milk again.
Of course, there is another reason, that is, the baby originally fell asleep in the arms of the mother, at this time did not enter the deep sleep state, if the mothers put them on the bed for a long time, then the baby will be out of the arms, and there is no strong taste of the mother and the feeling of uneasiness, so instinctively wake up from light sleep.
It can be seen that the reason why the baby sleeps "as soon as he dips breast milk" and wakes up when he puts it down is still very warm. In the process of breastfeeding the baby, the mothers are indeed very hard, but I also hope that the mothers can stick to it, and adjust their mentality to avoid postpartum depression, because many mothers have problems at this stage.
The family should also do a good job in logistics, as far as possible to provide help to the mothers, do not let the mothers alone with the baby, otherwise for the body has not fully recovered, it will only produce a bigger blow.