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Nowadays, with the development of the economy and people's lives have also been improved, the changes in the social division of labor have given women a way out, so that women have more opportunities to go out of the house and obtain a kind of development of their own.
Bingxin said:
"If there were no women in the world, the world would lose at least five tenths of its truth, six tenths of its goodness, and seven-tenths of its beauty."
Women are indispensable in this world, but if this woman does not have the ability, even if the world gives this woman a lot of opportunities, but women still will not be very happy in this world.
Women want to find a man to rely on, but one day you will find that you can only rely on yourself, only if you have reached a certain height, you can attract people who are as good as you, and sit on an equal footing with each other.
Therefore, the hardest bottom card of a woman is these three words: having the ability.
01.
Capable women do not ask for people
If a person has the ability, he will not ask others, and some women have no ability, so when a woman asks for someone, she will always give something.
Some women, due to their own lack of ability, even sell their bodies when they ask for others, which will send themselves to the end of the road and will also send others to the end of the road.
Because this practice is invisible, if one day this practice is exposed, then this woman's life will not be good.
We often see on the news that so-and-so women have done something unseemly, resulting in their own leaders being accused, and also leading to the loss of this woman's job, some women are smarter, and when they do this, they play themselves as a victim, so they escaped in the end.
However, not every woman is so lucky, if you are capable enough not to ask others, you can't do such a thing, you can't bring negative news to yourself.
02.
No one dares to mess with a woman who has the ability
There are many people in this world who are bent on perfection, and the reason why these people are bent on perfection is because their position is not high enough.
"Without a thorough cold, how can you get plum blossoms?"
Life in this world is also particularly difficult, in this world there are many unfair phenomena between men and women, that is, when this woman is looking for a job, there are many units that will consider that the girl will have to take leave after giving birth, and will also take into account some of the reasons for the girl's body.
Therefore, it is not possible to carry all the burdens like boys, so at this time, in terms of employment, the status of women is different from that of men.
But if a woman molds herself perfectly enough through some of her own advantages, then at this time, no one in this woman dares to provoke when a woman is looking for a job, and no one dares to prompt it, because everyone thinks that this person is very good, even better than boys.
People always feel that this society gives too much tolerance to women, in fact, sometimes it is not too much tolerance for this woman, but everyone feels that women are relatively weak.
So sometimes they will take care of it a little, but in many cases, people will not look up to women, and always feel that women are inferior to men in the workplace, so only by making themselves better and better, no one dares to discriminate.
03.
A woman with ability has status
If a woman has the ability, she has a status in the family and a position in the outside unit.
Capon said:
"The vow of fidelity is a ridiculous promise, but it is at the heart of marriage."
Marriage requires fidelity, but after two people get married, men have nothing to worry about, if you feel that this woman is like a soft persimmon, whether it is in the career or in the spiritual aspect, this woman is relatively weak.
Then men will have to move forward, always feel that they are the head of the family, and when they do anything, they will never go through the consent of this woman, and they will take this woman's words as the wind in their ears and treat this woman as a breath of air.
There are many people who think that the true face of a woman is the way the woman removes her makeup, and the true face of a man is what the man looks like after he is married.
This sentence is particularly well said, people are sometimes like this, everything on the surface is disguised, it takes time to understand a person, and it also takes some time to experience some things.
Women must let themselves have the ability, so that you will not be bullied by others outside and at home, the words of the people who have the ability are the king's way, and the people who have no ability say more words and no one will listen, but everyone will think that you are a mother-in-law and mother,And will not take care of you, and even get bored with you.
04.
Capable women are not afraid of being abandoned by men
Zhang Ailing said:
"Woman. ......... Women talk about men all their lives, think about men, and complain about men, forever and ever. ”
Many women regard men as the most important person in their lives, and always feel that their whole life should be dedicated to this man, and in the end, they are resentful and hateful about this man, but they can't let go, and they still deeply miss each other.
In fact, the woman who has the ability is not afraid of being abandoned by this man, when the two people are just together, the woman pays a lot for the man, the man also pays a lot for the woman, and in the end, the man may be chaotic and abandoned, and the woman is single-mindedly treating each other, and finally for each other's good.
When a woman is with a man, don't give up your career, don't cut off your own financial resources, when you reach out to others for money, open your mouth to ask for food from others, you will feel that life is very hard.
When you spend your own money, you buy what you see, and in this way, you will be very happy.
Most women want to marry a rich person who can spend as much as he wants, but many women will still marry ordinary people and need to get something through their own hands.
If you have been relying on others, one day others abandon you, you have nothing, and you will also be in this relationship to seek perfection, because after you are abandoned by the other party, you are abandoned by the whole world, which is particularly terrible.
Hegel said:
"If not every husband thinks his wife is beautiful, at least every fiancé thinks his fiancée is beautiful."
This sentence also shows that when men want to marry women, they think that this woman is still good, but when two people are married, they find that this woman is like that. Therefore, it is particularly unreliable to say that women should not rely solely on marriage.
Women must make themselves capable, must find their own strengths, when you find their own strengths, the right medicine, and then shape themselves.
At the same time, don't be too lazy, be sure to use the current resources to enrich yourself, expand your network, and broaden your horizons.