Parents are not easy, we must become better

#Boom boom over the big year #Become excellent little habits

1. Clear goals

Progress is often accompanied by pain. Why? Because progress usually means change, and change means breaking your habits and forcing yourself out of your comfort zone.

How to overcome this temporary suffering? Pursue another state or thing with a firm goal. The clearer the goal, the more this pain of longing to achieve the goal, or the pain of fear of failure, the pain of not getting it, the more it drives people to overcome the pain of that effort.

2, avoid too strong utilitarianism

A utilitarian person is often too short-sighted in his vision. In other words, too much utilitarianism can cause a person to focus on immediate interests and forget to think about long-term returns.

The result of a short field of vision is often nothing. People with short-sighted vision look at short-term results, and once they find that their efforts are not rewarded, they will question whether their efforts are in the wrong direction, and the results will not take long to change the direction of their efforts.

If there is a chance to pay ten dollars today and get a hundred dollars tomorrow, I think everyone will flock to it, and once everyone is involved, then this opportunity will no longer be an opportunity. Utilitarian people are the pursuit of this opportunity, short-term can make money does not mean that you can always make money, in order to get more long-term development, you need to ask more about why persistence.

3. Find the direction and make continuous efforts

The direction is not right, and the hard work is in vain.

When doing anything, we would rather spend a lot of time looking for a feasible direction and then acting, rather than making a hasty choice, whether it is right or wrong. Sometimes the cost of trial and error is often tens of times the cost of finding direction, and maybe we will spend twice as much time than others when looking for direction, but we will achieve a qualitative change in the middle and back journey, all of which is brought about by the right direction.

After choosing the direction, it is a process of continuous effort. It's a painful process, especially when taking the first step, but you have to believe that "the starlight does not live up to the passerby" and that all your efforts will be rewarded with you at some point in the future.

4, do not calculate the temporary gains and losses

As the old saying goes, "Sai Weng lost his horse, he knew that he was not blessed", and a temporary loss is not necessarily a loss all the time. Sometimes it is really a good thing to suffer losses, especially for young people, and it is not a bad thing to suffer more losses.

Young people who have just entered the workplace, because they do not understand the rules of the workplace, often encounter some so-called "workplace old birds" in all aspects of the deliberate difficulty, this time we choose to suffer losses, they should do it well, time will give you a correct answer.

Those who steal and slip and cheat colleagues may get a temporary small profit, but over time these people will eventually eat the evil consequences they sow, and a diligent and down-to-earth person will eventually get a good result.

5, the skin should be thicker

For young people, face is perhaps the most ridiculous thing.

For a young man who is difficult to stabilize even food and clothing, is our so-called face really so important?

For the so-called face, we dare not confess to the beloved girl, the result is that the girl is chased away by others; for the so-called face, we pretend not to bother with colleagues to fight for the opportunity they deserve, and the result is that the colleagues are promoted and raised; for the so-called face, do not ask others about things they will not do, and the result is that the time is scolded by the boss and called miserable.

Face is really not as important as we think, especially for young people, do not give up the best opportunity for the so-called face, and then choose to regret it afterwards.

Young people, put down the mobile phone in your hand, don't fall into it, and make yourself excellent.

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