If parents are not tolerated, why should the world be tolerated?
We were all born and raised by our parents, but each parent is not a perfect person, and we all have problems of one kind or another. And these problems have become the reason why many people are unwilling to filial piety to their parents.
For example, some parents are grumpy, some parents favor one over the other, some parents are stupid and poor, some parents have backward concepts, some parents are not sound, especially their parents are old, their minds are not good, dirty, smelly, and urine are pulled on the bed, temper is worse, and so on.
Parents are the original objects of our practice, and each of us must start with our parents and learn to be tolerant and loving.
No matter what the parents are, we have to love him, honor him, respect him.
A person who refuses to tolerate even his parents must be a "little person" who is calculating, must be rewarded, and is not angry.
Without atmosphere, how can it be a big thing? Therefore, in the past, the emperor's selection officials would put filial piety first.
Then, the person who chooses a partner must put whether there is filial piety in the first place, whether the boy has a sense of responsibility to his parents, whether the girl is docile to his parents, and whether he takes or repays his parents.
Otherwise, a person who does not even tolerate his parents will not be able to tolerate your shortcomings and your parents' shortcomings in the future, and in society, his (her) popularity will not be much better.
No matter what kind of child a parent is, he will love him, raise him, and hope that his child will have a future and a safe, smooth, happy and happy life. However, if parents do not even have the heart to tolerate their own parents, and their children have heard about it from an early age, where is the broad heart?
Without a broad mind, life is full of obstacles, where is the outburst? Where does happiness come from? In the future, when the child is older and the parents need the child in old age, the child will definitely worry about the parents.
To be a man is to fulfill filial piety, which is the first step to change your destiny. Because we are human beings, our parents cannot tolerate it, so why should we tolerate the world?
Parents, if you want your children to have a happy and smooth life, you must honor your elderly parents; People with great ambitions must first calmly start with their parents, tolerate the stubbornness of their parents, and take good care of their parents patiently and meticulously, which is the first step in cultivation.
All wealth, fame, and status are outward appearances. Virtue is the fundamental, and the saying that virtue carries things is not false at all. Why is it easy to gain wealth after learning traditional Chinese culture?
Because virtue can carry things, thousands of gold wealth must be thousands of gold figures.
"Five No Complaints" for Loving Parents"
First, do not complain about the incompetence of parents
No one is omnipotent, and no one is perfect! Our parents gave us life, and it is not easy to raise us as adults with all our efforts, and we should be grateful to our parents for their hard work and raising us. Instead of complaining about "what kind of father should be a father, what kind of mother should be a mother", you should sincerely say: "I accept, you are like this; I accept, I choose you; I enjoy everything you have given me." ”
Second, do not complain about the parents' rambling
Our parents came to the world before us, they learned to experience, they took care of themselves, and then they gave birth to us. When we were born, it became a fate that our parents voluntarily chose to take care of with the rest of our lives: to dress us, to teach us to eat, to hope that we were safe... Only people who truly love you will talk about you, and parents will never talk about someone who has nothing to do with them.
Third, do not complain about parents complaining
Parents complain about us, just not satisfied with what we are now. When we do well enough, they crave us better! They are not for themselves, maybe they have a lot of dissatisfaction in life, maybe they are very hard at work, but they can't talk to anyone, so they want us to be better, even if they don't want to be a son and a dragon, and they want our daughter to become a phoenix, and our parents also hope that we are blue and not like them.
Fourth, do not complain about parental delays
When we are older, we have limited mobility, and we should never abandon our parents for being slow to move, because we can never imagine how patiently they taught us to walk when we were young.
When my parents were younger, they were probably more spirited than we were! It was for us that my parents were tired and bent over. If one day, the parents have become old, the legs and feet can not be roped, we must remember: to see the parents is to see their own future, filial piety must be timely.
Fifth, do not complain that your parents are sick
No matter how busy my parents are, no matter day or night, rain or wind, as soon as we are sick, they will immediately put down everything they are busy with, hurry up and take them to the doctor, and love us all night.
When parents are sick, how much can we do? Is it really a long-term hospital bed without filial piety? There is often news in society that children do not support the elderly, can we be a person who takes care of his parents with dedication and responsibility!
Life is not for complaining. We grew older, our parents grew older until they left us... Without our parents, there would be no us. It is better to complain about parents than to understand parents.
If parents can't tolerate it, why tolerate the world? From now on, don't complain about your parents anymore.
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