"Perfect Partner" Sun Lei's mother used three points to warn that the mother-in-law is not a mother after all, and no matter how good it is, it is in vain
There will always be netizens who will issue soul torture questions: Will the mother-in-law really treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter-in-law? Will the daughter-in-law really treat her mother-in-law as her mother??
To tell the truth, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot stand the test, and it is already fortunate that two strange women can get along peacefully. And two women can live in peace, but also rely on the balance of the man they love together, otherwise it is likely to become a natural enemy.
I don't know whether the mother-in-law will treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter-in-law, after all, I have not yet reached the age of being a mother-in-law, and I have no mother-in-law, so this question is insoluble for the author. But the daughter-in-law absolutely does not dare to treat the mother-in-law as a mother,Because the daughter-in-law is not so polite to the mother-in-law, and if she wants to eat, she will call her mother what she has, and she will not be remembered for her when she sleeps until her mother is cooked in the morning.
What mother-in-law do you think can tolerate such a daughter-in-law, so the daughter-in-law will never dare to treat the mother-in-law as a mother-in-law. And the mother-in-law can't stand these things of the daughter-in-law, which also shows that the daughter-in-law is not regarded as a daughter-in-law.
Sun Lei's mother used three points to warn all women that her mother-in-law was not a good mother after all. It's not that don't be nice to your mother-in-law, it's just that you should be appropriate and not too good, otherwise it will hurt yourself in the end.
First, only hurt his own son
Daughter-in-law on a business trip is a month, the family are left to the son to take care of, the two go home to argue, Sun Lei's mother's first reaction is to let her son spread fire, because this time he is too hard.
Taking care of the family and working is really hard, but there must always be someone in the family to do it, Sun Lei does not do that Chen Shan also has to do, if the daughter-in-law she will be so distressed? I don't think so, but then she said that it was natural for women to take care of the family.
It is a fact that Chen Shan did not take care of her family, but she earned money to support her family, and she did not say anything. It's a lot harder for women to work outside than it is for men because they'll be seen with colored glasses.
Maybe someone chen shan can interact with Sun Lei's role, it is true, but the facts show that Sun Lei can't do it at all. The reason why Chen Shan came out to fight for her career was because Sun Lei did not have the ability to make money and be an old and good person, and the family could not get by Chen Shan had to go out to work with a jump, so she finally directly exchanged identities with Sun Lei.
Chen Shan was working hard outside, and her mother-in-law was not distressed, only her son. Therefore, the mother-in-law is not a mother after all, she only feels sorry for her son, not her daughter-in-law.
Second, only focus on their "grandson"
When the old couple heard the little two quarreling, the mother-in-law's first reaction was to blame the daughter-in-law, saying that she should stay at home well, and the implication was to give her husband a chance to go out and break in.
But once she heard Chen Shan say that she was pregnant, her attitude took a one hundred and eighty degree turn, focusing only on her "grandson". Since learning that Chen Shan was pregnant, the mother-in-law did not come to ask the daughter-in-law whether she was unwell, and only paid attention to the child in her belly and a "grandson", not only the suspicion of favoring sons over daughters, but also the daughter-in-law as a fertility machine.
Third, the daughter-in-law can worry about her son, but not worry about her own career
After the family prepared to eat, Sun Lei's mother asked her son when Chen Shan would come back. Sun Lei called and asked his daughter-in-law, Chen Shan did not tell her husband the truth, but said that she had taken on a new project.
At this time, the mother-in-law directly took the phone over, a little bit reproaching Chen Shan's meaning, saying that if she was pregnant, she should not be busy with work, and earn money to have a son Sun Lei. And Chen Shan did not hide this time and told her mother-in-law bluntly that she did not take any projects, she just solved things for him in Sun Lei's unit.
As soon as she heard that it was her son's business, the old lady stopped talking for an instant, and even had the intention of telling her to do a good job. It is also absolutely absolute, the daughter-in-law is pregnant and worries about her own affairs, but it is no problem to worry about her son's affairs, and it is clear that she does not take the daughter-in-law seriously.
The old lady is worried about the grandson in the daughter-in-law's belly, but as soon as you hear that it is the son's business, you have a look of indifference or even let the family do a good job, this kind of old lady is really amazing. Since you are worried about your grandson, don't let your daughter-in-law worry about anything, whether it is work or your son, if you have the ability, let your son solve it by himself.
After all, the mother-in-law is not a mother after all, she will not feel sorry for the daughter-in-law, as long as her son and grandson are good and other things do not matter, this is the vast majority of mother-in-law.