In order to satisfy spiritual abundance and emotional pursuits, we need love. In order to express our inner feelings and needs, we need love. Love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, it may have missed, there are regrets, there are unsatisfactory. But what will not change is the unwavering chastity of those who truly believe in love. These encourage people to move forward on the road of pursuing love and exploring love, although the road ahead is difficult, there is no turning back. The Republic of China is an era of talents. During that time, the situation was turbulent and the society was feudal. In such an environment, love seems to become something that can be met but not sought, and some people obey the arranged marriage arranged by their parents and do not know what the word "happiness" is all their lives. Some people can boldly pursue love and get rid of the world's vision.
Among the many women in the Republic of China, there is a special female existence, and this person is Lu Xiaoman. Most people should be familiar with Lu Xiaoman. In Lu Xiaoman's life, there have been three men, all very famous and critical, and the three men are Wang Geng, Weng Ruiwu and Xu Zhimo. Hu Shi once commented: Lu Xiaoman is a must-see scenery in Beijing. If Lu Xiaoman is put into the current society, Lu Xiaoman is the top celebrity of the Republic of China or the number one social flower.
She socialized with Tang Ying, a famous lady in Shanghai, and was known as the "Southern Tang Dynasty and Northern Land". At that time, there was a saying in the circle that Lu Xiaoman was a must-see scenery in Beijing. In 1920, the 17-year-old Lu Xiaoman was recommended to the Beiyang government to receive foreign guests, and after several years of training, she transformed from a middle school student into a high-class lady, so the upper social circle composed of literati, politicians, and ladies had a place for Lu Xiaoman.
In 1924, when Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman met, one was still Mrs. Wang, but her husband was busy every day, which made her very dissatisfied; the other was frustrated by the failure of pursuing Lin Hui. The two met in such a context, and a vigorous love was destined to happen. As Xu Zhimo's teacher, the witness Liang Qichao was very dissatisfied with the combination of the two, and in front of the two at the wedding, he said, "Shima and Xiao Man are both people who have come over, and I hope not to be a person again." Not only that, Xu Zhimo's father was not satisfied with Lu Xiaoman and still regarded Zhang Youyi as his daughter-in-law.
On October 3, 1926, the traditional Chinese Valentine's Day, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman held a wedding ceremony in Beihai Park in Beijing, with Liang Qichao as the witness. According to Xu Zhimo's salary, he can fully enjoy the life of the upper class, but unfortunately he met Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman has to wear exquisite and beautiful clothes, eat exquisite dishes and snacks, catch the night dance day and night, and listen to the drama and play mahjong. Lu Xiaoman's health was not good, and under the guidance of Weng Duanwu, he was infected with opium smoking.
As a result, Xu Zhimo began to work part-time non-stop, seven or eight jobs have almost become the norm, and there is naturally less companionship. When in love, the two were in love and drank enough, but now in marriage, money has become the biggest problem. For all this, Wang Geng had already expected it. After many years of marriage, how could he not know Lu Xiaoman's personality and how could he not know Lu Xiaoman's spending power. Miss Squeamish's personality is destined to make her disagree with the Xu family's parents, and Xu Zhimo is a person who does not know how to deal with family affairs, and it is only a matter of time before she breaks with the family. As for their later economic problems, it was even more to be expected.
After Xu Zhimo's death, all his family and friends around him resented Lu Xiaoman for forcing Xu Zhimo to die, and lu Xiaoman, who had reneged on him, had been repenting of what he had done for the rest of his life, and the long journey of redemption was 34 years! In this 34-year career, Lu Xiaoman took off his former Chinese clothes, quit his opium addiction, and has since closed his door to thank guests. At the head of her bed hangs a large portrait of Xu Zhimo, and daily flowers are offered continuously. Before dying, her last wish was to be buried with Xu Zhimo. Her friends have repeatedly communicated with the descendants of the Xu family, and the other party hates Xiao Man to the bone, and resolutely disagrees, which is also a very regrettable thing!