Psychology: Working for relatives is often unreliable
preface:
Nowadays, it is easy for society to repay debts, but it is difficult to repay human debts.
Many people choose to work for their relatives because jobs are difficult to find.
But people often think of good things without taking into account all aspects of things.
Once you help, you will find that you have not made money, but you have not even had to do it with your relatives.
In the end, the two people will have a big conflict, so we don't easily work for our relatives.
But on the contrary, many people think that working for relatives will get a lot of care.
When you encounter things, you have to take care of things, but you must know that doing things for your relatives will be subject to a lot of restrictions, which is not conducive to the distinction between public and private.
This will make it difficult for both people to do, so we have to think about it in many ways.
Many people think that today is a humane society and a relationship society.
Working for your relatives often gets a lot of benefits, and there is even room for appreciation.
In fact, from a psychological point of view, working for one's own relatives is a very unwise choice.
It will even drag us down, and relatives will not be able to communicate normally with each other in the future.
On the other hand, the reward and punishment system of enterprises and personal kinship relations will also produce great contradictions.
This will also have a certain impact on the operation of the enterprise.
If we have the ability, we must rely on our own efforts to complete the achievements we want, not on relatives.
It is difficult for us to adapt to the new environment of the outside world, and it is difficult to maintain our original intention after this experience.
This leads us to waste ourselves at the optimal stage of growth,
A truly ambitious person, they must not sit on the mountain and eat the sky but have the strength to make themselves more powerful.
1. Not conducive to growth
It is precisely because we work under our relatives that we receive great preferential treatment.
This may seem very comfortable, but it is very detrimental to personal growth.
In our country, many times are permeated with human contacts, so many people will take good care of their relatives.
If a young person has long forgotten to be cared for by his relatives,
Then he must not be alone in his future work,
If you continue to develop for such a long time, you will become depraved.
In the future, when you want to seek another job, you will find that you can't do anything.
In fact, whether this is suitable for one's own love has a lot to do with the status quo.
Adults have to jump out of their comfort zone and go outside to grow.
2. There will be concerns
Many people work under relatives, and it is inevitable that there will be some concerns.
After all, they are our bosses, not only dealing with each other at work, meeting privately at home, but also meeting up.
This will inevitably lead to some embarrassment, and even many ideas at work cannot be truthfully communicated.
Therefore, whether it is a leader or a subordinate, as long as there is such a relationship, there will be a lot of worries, even face.
So in my opinion, try not to work under relatives, so that there is no way to play the best self.
3. Enterprises will always put interests first
We all know that no matter what the job, the boss is first of all to put his own interests first.
The relationship between the individual and family will be taken into account later.
Whether it is its own defects or the company's personal philosophy is inconsistent, it is very unfavorable to the development of both sides.
So if the relationship between two people is relatives, most people will be in the way of face and cannot make good decisions in time.
Therefore, there will be a lot of bad emotions in the heart or there will be contradictions between each other.
When a company is mixed with kinship in addition to employment, the fairness of this management will crack.
There is also no way to judge the relationship between each other very well.
It is the relatives who may eventually turn against each other and cause inevitable contradictions.
This is also a phenomenon that cannot be ignored in life. So we have to go to an unfamiliar environment to continue to grow and explore.
So even if we are desperate, we should not choose to work for our relatives.
Conclusion:
After reading this article, I believe that everyone will understand that no matter how difficult life is, no matter how desperate it is,
Don't easily call your relatives or friends, so that the relationship between them will be very awkward in the future.
It is precisely because of the existence of this relationship that we have no way to play our strengths well.
What we see too much in our daily relationships with relatives is that there is a gap between life and work.
Therefore, many people cannot adapt to the changes in their relatives at work, and there will be resentment in their hearts.
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References | Journal of consulting and clinical psychology