For a relationship, the most important stage is the stage of not yet becoming a lover, which is very ambiguous.
Perhaps you have a good feeling for each other in your hearts, but you must also restrain your love, because you do not understand each other's intentions, and you do not dare to act rashly, for fear of accidental words, an action that makes this relationship come to an end before it has begun.
In fact, in this special period, language is very important, your words may be able to achieve a relationship, but it is also likely to destroy a relationship.
Sometimes a casual sentence will always give the other party an illusion, which will make the other party constantly speculate whether you like him.
Especially in the dead of night, this is the most fragile time of a person's soul, and any word you say may pierce into his heart and give him a heart-pounding illusion.
In fact, in addition to a momentary heartbeat, love is more of a subtle and slowly infecting a person's heart.
Maybe a person who falls in love with you is in the process of chatting with you, so when you meet someone you like, you must be cautious in the process of pursuing each other, don't be too hasty, and properly choose the time period and way of chatting, so that you can do more with less.
The charm of language is broad and profound, can intuitively express what you want, and can also express love euphemistically, so even if you love someone without saying it directly, you can feel love from words.
After ten o'clock in the evening, it is a very sensitive time period, and this time people are often lonely, and it is also the time when the soul is most fragile. If you still talk to the opposite sex about three topics during this time period, it is easy to have love.
One: Talk about your past
Telling the other person about their past is actually a very private thing, and most people don't easily tell someone about it unless the relationship reaches a stage.
So after ten o'clock in the evening, the opposite sex is still talking about their past, and it is easy to produce love.
In particular, taking the initiative to mention your emotional experience to the opposite sex will not only make the other party more aware of your concept of love and the way you treat love, but also make the other party have a sense of substitution.
It will make the other party think about whether it is possible for the two of you to think about whether it is appropriate if you are together, so it may be a clear hint that you take the initiative to mention your previous emotional experiences to the opposite sex.
In addition, the night is a more sensitive period of people's emotions, and it is easy to tell each other these things after ten o'clock in the evening, which is easy to make the other party emotional.
Two: Say something of concern
Many people are not used to being disturbed at this time of night, nor do they like to chat with friends, they only hope to rest their tired hearts and enjoy their own unique tranquility during this time period.
At this time, people who are often willing to chat with you must be people who put you in a very important position in their hearts, and are willing to make time for you after a busy day.
So in this time period, it is easy to say some words of concern to each other into each other's hearts.
For example, care about whether he is tired from his day's work today, care about whether he has had trouble with things recently, and care about whether he eats on time. Although these small details, they can make him feel that you are considerate of him.
Especially in the state of exhaustion after a busy day, your concern seems to be full of chicken blood, and he will feel that after a day of fatigue, someone is still worrying about him and caring about him.
Of course, this feeling of mutual companionship will also slowly evolve into love, and he will especially cherish the moment when you are with him.
Three: Talk about the other half of the type that you like each other
If the opposite sex is still sharing their recent anecdotes after ten o'clock in the evening, then this may be a very good start to the relationship between two people.
Because no one will chat frequently with a person who does not have a good feeling for themselves on a big night, when the other party is willing to chat with you, it means that they already have a good feeling for you.
At this time, you can talk about the types you like each other together, so that you can not only see if you meet the standards, but also deepen the understanding between the two of you.
Of course, this topic is a very sensitive topic, if you are not sure, do not be hard to pry.
For example, if you say "I like you like this" to the other party, if the other party is only good for you at this time, you may feel a little uncomfortable.
Love is a gradual process, do not express too directly when speaking, but implicitly express your heart, so that the other party will really be moved by you.
summary:
Love is a very sacred thing, not by slipping your tongue, but you need to treat it with a sincere heart, and you can naturally exchange your heart for your heart.
Of course, in this process, we must also understand what to say, which topics to talk about, and try to avoid which topics to avoid, so that the other party can feel more relaxed and happy.
Communicate with each other with your heart, treat this relationship with your heart, the other party can naturally feel it, so you only need to get along with each other slowly, care more about each other and be more considerate of each other instead of just relying on some skills, the other party will naturally be moved by this sincerity.