In the impression of modern readers, Jia Lian is still a good man. Capable, jia fu external affairs, whether big or small, almost all of them are handled by him; with a conscience, in the shi nerd incident, he is unwilling to use power to toss a weak person who has no power to bind the chicken.
Borrowing from the Mandarin Duck, politely, a Mandarin Duck sister shouted; picking up And dropping off Sister Lin, all the way in the wind and rain, there was no lightness at all.
The third sister was married, and he was very dedicated. First of all, to break the deadlock and let the third sister Of Jia Zhenna be a concubine; after learning of the third sister's heart, she met Liu Xianglian in the field, regardless of Kurama Lawton, and could not wait to become a matchmaker, although in the end it failed to promote this marriage, but obviously used all her strength.
Like a little sun, he constantly sprinkles his light and heat on those around him. When shi nerds who were arrested and imprisoned look back, they will feel how human it is that the noble prince Jia Lian was pestering to see his fan. The Mandarin duck who is regarded as a plaything by Jia Yu will feel respected; the lonely and helpless Lin sister will gain a sense of security; the third sister who has gone through a detour will think that my brother-in-law is still quite reliable.
However, he is also a man who does not care much about his daughter and wife. Sister Qiao came out of the flowers, Sister Feng was very nervous, in order to clean, drove him to the outer study. It is said that as a father, he should be as nervous as Sister Feng, and from time to time send someone to inquire about his daughter's condition.
Even if not, you should exercise a little restraint and wait for your daughter to be well. He was good, seeing this time being kicked out as a rare opportunity, taking the opportunity to hook up with many girls, and not avoiding suspicion, ran to the bed of many girls and whispered.
Many girls said that if your daughter has flowers, you should also be afraid of two days. Of course, when the girl said this, it must be a tease and flirtation, but this sentence also implies the slight surprise of the girl as a woman: the man in front of him does not care about his daughter so much?
Jia Lian replied, you are Niangniang, where do I care about Niangniang. Maybe it was a real disbelief; maybe it was a fluke, as long as it was not made public, this matter was not a problem; maybe it was dependent on Sister Feng, and it was enough to have Sister Feng's sincere prayer, and his father did not have to do anything more.
But my father really didn't do that. Let's not talk about how Xue's father taught Baochao to read, love is like a treasure, Baoqin's father took Baoqin "the world ten stops and five or six stops", let's say that the old-fashioned and clean Jia Zheng, to the provincial relatives Of Yuan Chun, tearfully instructed and admonished, admired the talent of the niece who lived in his own home, even used her inscription plaques, and the poems of the daughters were also the first to perceive ominous.
Being indifferent to her daughter is simply cruel to Sister Feng. Sister Feng's birthday, the family crowdfunded, to celebrate her birthday. As a result, Jia Lian took advantage of Sister Feng's absence to pull Bao Er's family to bed; the two were in bed, and they also discussed who would take over the position of Grandma Feng'er when Sister Feng died.
Secretly marrying the second sister, in order to reassure the second sister, Jia Lian lied that Sister Feng was ill, but she would die in a year and a half, and at that time, she would take the second sister into Jia Province. Sister Feng was clearly bouncing around in Jia Province, and it was estimated that at this stage, she was also pregnant with the brother who later fell out due to overwork. Jia Lian made up this kind of nonsense to his lover several times, perhaps subconsciously, he really hoped that Sister Feng would die soon.
If their marriage is a political marriage, that's it. But in "Dream of the Red Chamber", although the marriage of the four major families is intricate, more often, the wishes of the parties will really be considered; Jia Mu has also stated that the first choice for finding a daughter-in-law is the appearance of personality.
Therefore, the marriage between Jia Lian and Feng Jie may not be all a pot of political marriage. Sister Feng is beautiful, energetic, and has a charm of her own. Because her aunt was in Jia Province, she could completely communicate with The children of Jia Province like Shi Xiangyun when she was not married. Sister Feng, unlike other concubines, saw Jia Zhen and quickly avoided it, and Jia Zhen was very familiar with Sister Feng's behavior, which proved this from the side. Just like Feng Jie likes to make jokes about Eryu, maybe someone has made jokes about her and Jia Lian. People who come over always see a hint of it and are so ridiculous.
In fact, in the first half of "Dream of the Red Chamber", they have a good relationship. However, as time passed, Jia Lian gradually changed her mind. The reason for pursuing it is nothing more than that Feng Jie always hinders him from liking other women. Such an approach, put on the mainstream table, of course, is not right. A main chamber should have a low brow, three from four virtues, and the concubines should play notes around his only harp.
However, in terms of human nature, in terms of women's hopes for marriage, and in terms of the bravery of a strong woman who is not afraid of the mainstream concept, she hopes to "be willing to have one heart, and the white head is not separated", hoping to respect and love each other in marriage, and go hand in hand.
In the end, Jia Lian did not understand her goodness, nor did she have the will to grow old with Sister Feng. He only felt that she was a stumbling block to his timely enjoyment.
His requirements for Feng Jie were: contentment. His bottom line for marriage is: You let me find a woman at will, and I promise not to threaten your position.
The second sister died, he did not blame himself for not caring for the second sister enough, under the provocation of Jia Rong, but secretly recorded the account on the head of his wife.
The second sister died, and he did not blame himself for neglecting his care and consideration for his wife before, which caused this tragedy, but he hated the pillow person from then on.
The Red Chamber was not finished, but judging from Feng Jie's judgment, she was eventually dismissed by Jia Lian. Perhaps, the family is ruined and questioned by others, which is not what Sister Feng is afraid of. When she was poor and depressed, being suspended by her husband Jia Lian was the most fatal blow to her.
The sequel straightened Out Ping'er and lived a peaceful life with Jia Lian. This is a veiled praise for Jia Lian's repudiation behavior, sitting on fengjie's strength, and putting all the responsibility for the collapse of the marriage on fengjie's head. This means that there are many "warm" men like Jia Lian in this world.
They seem docile and kind, yet they have their logic of pleasure. At this point, they were extremely stubborn, like the ground in the middle of a cold winter moon night, hard and without a little elasticity. Just like the male stars who frequently collapsed rooms a while ago, fading their glamorous coats, people were surprised to find that their style was chaotic and had no taboos. Like those who intend to hide that they have been in the mine, they think that washing their hands and putting on a white shirt is a superior person, but they do not know that the black coal left in the cracks of their fingers can never be washed.
A man with real warmth will not only leave a good impression on the people around him, but also give his wife and daughter lasting love and energy.
He will not rejoice in his daughter's illness without hindrance; he will not leave shame and tears in his wife's birthday in her life.
If he was really dissatisfied with his wife, he should speak at her most glorious time; not when she was at her most depressed, and then take a hard kick.
As a model of modern women who are dedicated to their careers, I hope that Feng Jie in the new era will not repeat the tragedy. I wish them and their children happiness!
Author: Qiao Hair, this article is less read of the original works of the Red Chamber.