"Dream of the Red Chamber" for the twentieth time to talk about two love affairs, namely Baoyu and the attacker and Jia Lian and many girls, if you look at it separately, you can't see the specific difference, if you compare the feelings of Baoyu and Jia Lian, it is not difficult to find that Jia Lian treats women only in "skin fornication", while Baoyu has a little respect for women in addition to being sticky, and it seems more innocent.
Whether a man respects women can be seen in many details. Some men on the surface look gentle and elegant, polite and polite, but in fact, they have an unclean stomach, have no minimum respect for women, not only have a very high self-esteem, put up an invincible posture, put their status above women, but also often joke about the privacy of others, and their performance seems to be uncultured.
The two brothers, Jia Lian and Bao Yu of the Jia Fu Jade Generation, are both dancing princes from the perspective of identity and external image. Although Jia Lian said that he had a degree of progress and retreat, and behaved decently, his personality was "a good opportunity to change on the road of the world, and his words went away", but there was one thing that was the worst, that is, indulging in female sex.
Since Jia Lian married Wang Xifeng, the young couple has also been in love, Ping'er is a person in the room, and Jia Lian has also been contaminated earlier. This Feng Sister and Ping'er are two beautiful billets, but because Sister Feng is jealous and manages too tightly, Jia Lian is actually equivalent to having only one wife and no concubines. Therefore, as long as she leaves Sister Feng, Jia Lian has no chance to create opportunities to cause trouble.
In the twenty-first time, because Sister Qiao had smallpox, Sister Feng was busy cleaning the house, offering the acne lady, keeping two doctors, and also making some clothes and Jia Lian's room. Jia Lian had to move to the outer study.
When Jia Lian went to the outer study to sleep alone, "it was very difficult", not only found Xiao Wei to "fire", but also hooked up with the daughter-in-law of the tattered wine head cook in the Rongguo Mansion, let his confidant Xiao Wei use the golden veil as a thank you gift, and arranged for the two to meet, the original text reads:
I don't want there to be a very unfinished and tattered wine head cook in the Rongguo Mansion named Duoguan'er... Two years ago, his father married him a daughter-in-law, this year is only twenty years old, also has some talents, and is also light and thin, and likes to pick flowers and weeds the most... Because this daughter-in-law's tone was abnormal and frivolous, everyone called him "what a girl." Now Jia Lian is boiling outside, and she has seen this daughter-in-law in the past, and she has been salivating for a long time... That many girls have also been interested in Jia Lian for a long time, and only hate that they have no time; Now that Jia Lian had moved to the outer study, he would have to go three or four times without a problem, and Jia Lian who provoked him was like a hungry rat. Little must not be discussed with the confidants, allowing the golden veil... Just say it.
It was the night when many insects were drunk and fell in the kang, and the two drums were fixed, and Jia Lian sneaked in to meet. As soon as they met, they had already lost their minds, and they did not have time to talk about love, so they opened their clothes and moved, who knew that this daughter-in-law had a natural curiosity, and once the man was next to him, he felt paralyzed all over his body, making the man like lying on the cotton, and even more obscene, overpowering the prostitute. Jia Lian was eager to melt into him at this time. The daughter-in-law pretended to be a prodigal voice and said, "Your sister has produced flowers and offered her mother-in-law, and you should also be afraid of two days, but you are dirty for me, and leave me here." Jia Lian gasped and replied, "You are 'Niangniang'! The daughter-in-law rose more and more, and Jia Lian was also ugly. At the end of a momentary event, it is inevitable that the alliance will be made to the sea, and it will be difficult to give up. Since then, it has become a contract.
This description is only five or six hundred words, but it depicts Jia Lian's hungry rat-like form, the text is not explicit, but the portrayal of its plot is amazing.
It is said that although Jia Lian was deprived of the right to take concubines by Sister Feng, she also had pampering outside, but she only left Sister Feng for two nights. Leaving this aside, among the men of Jia Province, Jia Lian is still decent. However, his habit of inviting cats and dogs makes him suddenly lose his color in the hearts of many readers, and his image is extremely unbearable.
"Dream of the Red Chamber" portrays characters very really, Cao Xueqin's description of Jia Lian, let us imagine that among the men in Jia Province, not only Jia Lian, Jia Huan, Jia Zhen, Jia Rong and other children of the Jia family, must also be so, but only one person is an exception, he is Baoyu.
Some people may say that Baoyu was still young at that time, and he was not yet married, so there was no comparison. But don't forget, even though Baoyu was not yet married, he had already dissolved at that time, and as early as the sixth time, he and the attacker already had a private affair.
Coincidentally, the twenty-first time also wrote a love affair between Baoyu and the attacker, but this love affair was not as naked as between Jia Lian and Duo Girl.
The raider is the big man who serves closely in the Baoyu House, and he is also the most mature big man in the Jia Mansion. She has been recognized by everyone for her diligent and thoughtful service to Baoyu, and at the same time, with the help of Baoyu's dependence on her, the attackers have not pinched Baoyu less, and even repeatedly quarreled with Baoyu overtly and covertly because of jealousy.
At the beginning of the twenty-first time, because Baoyu was glued to Xiaoxiangguan Daiyu and Xiangyun in the morning and evening, and there Xiangyun, Cuiyi, Zijuan and others served to comb their hair, wash their faces and rinse their mouths, and the attackers were jealous.
Raider is a very complicated mind, it seems that from time to time to persuade Baoyu to follow the right path, but in fact it is for his own sake to tie Baoyu's selfishness. This time, seeing That Bao Yu did not let her serve to comb her hair and wash her face, she got into an awkward fight with Bao Yu. But after the attacker and Baoyu got into an awkward fight, the two men's actions were like this:
Until dawn fang woke up, when he turned over to look, he saw that the raiders were sleeping on the robes. Baoyu... He pushed him and said, "Get up and sleep well, and watch the cold." "It turned out that the raiders saw him fooling around with his sisters at night... I didn't sleep well all night... When Bao Yu saw that he should not, he reached out to undress him, and just unbuttoned it, and the attacked person pushed his hand away and buckled himself again. Bao Yu couldn't, so he took his hand and smiled, "What the hell is wrong with you?"
The attacker sneered, "You ask me, do I know?" You love to go there and go there. From now on, the two of us will shake hands, save chickens and goose fights, and make others laugh. The horizontal and vertical side is tired, and there are "four children" and "five children" on this side to serve you. We have this thing, but 'Bai Defiled insulted a good name and a good surname'!" Bao Yu smiled, "Do you remember it today?" The attacker said, "I still remember it in a hundred years..." Bao Yu saw that he was full of disgust and couldn't help it, so he picked up a jade hairpin to the pillow, fell two paragraphs at a time, and said: "I don't listen to you anymore, just like this hairpin!" ...... With that, the two of them got up to freshen up.
Looking at this description, although there was an awkward quarrel between Baoyu and the attacker, when he saw the attacker's face full of anger, he also felt that he could not help it, but his affection was not transformed into Jia Lian's actions as described above. According to the above description, some people have judged that this is Baoyu and the raiders after tasting the sweetness of the first cloud rain, and there have been many examples of cloud rain: "When Bao Yu saw that he should not, he reached out to undress him, just unbuttoned, and the attacked person pushed his hand away and buckled himself again."
This passage can be used as an illustration, but there is also another possibility, that is, this description can also be understood as Baoyu wants to untie the clothes for the attacker to let her lie down safely in the quilt, because the previous description of the attacker is "sleeping on the robe" and "did not sleep well all night", if this is the case, then Baoyu coaxed the girl out of sincerity rather than selfishness, and he is not a "stupid thing with abusive skin" like Jia Lian.
The charm of "Dream of the Red Chamber" is that the author gives a variety of possibilities through some details, but I prefer to believe that Bao Yu unties the buttons of the attacker, not to find fun, but to let the attacker sleep well. As for the reason, in fact, the author has introduced it as early as the fifth time, that is, the police illusion fairy was entrusted by the spirit of Ning Rong's second duke to guide the process of Baoyu's enlightenment, and the police illusion fairy once taught Baoyu:
Although sexual immorality is one thing, the meaning is different. Such a good adulterer in the world, but pleasing to the face, happy to sing and dance, laughing tirelessly, clouds and rain all the time, hate the beauty of the world for me to enjoy the film: these are all stupid ears of skin fornication. Ru'er generates an obsession in his talents, which my generation pushes as 'obscenity'. But the word 'obscenity' can be spoken by the heart but not orally, but it can be magical but cannot be spoken. Ru Jin has only this word, and although he can be a good friend in the boudoir, he is inevitably devious and strange in the world, with a hundred mouths of ridicule and a wide eye. Now that I have met erzu Ningrong's second duke to cut his abdomen and deeply advise, I can't bear to let my son add glory to my boudoir alone and see it abandoned in the world. Therefore, the lead came, drunk with fine wine, Qin with fairy tea, and the police with wonderful songs. Then my sister, whose name and beauty can be promised to be with Ru, can be married at a good time this evening. However, ling Ru appreciated the scenery of this fairy goddess illusion, not to mention the earthly scene. From the future, we will explain, change our understanding of the previous situation, pay attention to The Relationship between Confucius and Meng, and commit ourselves to the economic way.
From the above text, it can be seen that the police illusion fairy has defined Baoyu as "obscene" rather than a "stupid thing with abusive skin" such as Jia Zhen Jia Lian, which shows that the matter between Baoyu and the attacker is not a very big thing, and Baoyu has not been reduced to Jia Lian's first-class. The ultimate goal of the police illusion fairy is the same as the original intention of Ning Rong's second duke, which is to hope that Bao Yu will "change his previous feelings", pay attention to Kong Meng's learning, and commit himself to the economy. Of course, "fornication" Baoyu is not, and this is the biggest difference between Baoyu's love and Jia Lian's love.
References: "Dream of the Red Chamber Fat Collection", by Cao Xueqin, Comments on Fat Yan Zhai, Yuelu Book Club.