When the opposite sex is together, you have true feelings for each other, and the other party seems to like you, say some "emotional love words" to you, be courteous to you, and do something to make you happy.
At this time, you will feel joy, and you may have a question in your heart: the other party is currently very good to himself, and he is still getting along, but he does not know whether he can accompany him to old age.
You want to test each other, see if the other party cares enough about themselves, and afraid that the other party will not be able to withstand the test, and finally end up sad, more afraid that you have betrayed the trust of the other party, and rushing to test the other party will hurt the other party's heart, at this time, you may feel entangled, feel some contradictions. In fact, it is not difficult to know whether the other party loves you enough, can a person accompany you to the old age, look at these points to know, do you understand?
1. Is it good enough for you: give you something to lean on.
When the other party comes and goes with you, he says that he only loves you alone, will make a "promise to keep his head in white", and will swear to heaven that he will only love you alone.
However, he often has different words and deeds, and when he interacts with you, he is too close to other people of the opposite sex, and you ask him to restrain himself, but he becomes more indulgent and does not take you seriously at all.
He said to you every day, "I will support you", "I will be your solid support", however, when you really want him to give you some help, he is not willing to help, but he is afraid of being involved by you, he will treat you like this, obviously he does not care about you.
The person who truly loves you will be good enough for you: he will support you and will be your solid support.
In daily life, he will love you without distraction, only good for you alone, he is afraid that you are jealous, will consciously keep a distance from other people of the opposite sex, even if he has not said "I will do what you rely on" and other emotional words, but when you encounter things, he will always be absent, he will always mix with your things, share your worries, will not make you feel lonely and helpless.
2. Whether you can accept you: give you tolerance.
When a person interacts with you, he says to you, "My belly is big enough to contain everything you have", but when you show a little flaw or do something wrong, he will be preoccupied with you and forget what he has said.
At this time, you want to seek his forgiveness, but he has to forgive people, and he can't get along with you again and again, which makes you tired.
In fact, the person who really loves you deeply will communicate with you with a mentality of living a life, he will accept your shortcomings, even if you do something wrong, he will forgive you, he will help you correct your mistakes, and on the road of life, he will witness you getting better and better. The other party can accept you and tolerate you, which means that he can't leave you and take you as his own.
3. Will not respect you: give you understanding.
When the other party interacts with you, he often says to you, "I am a more enlightened person" and "I understand you", however, he is only talking, and in the process of getting along with you, he does not know how to respect you.
He will often impose his own ideas on you, asking you to live according to his way of life, often kidnapping you with morality, forcing you to do things you don't want to do, or making you objectionable demands.
For your opinion, he always can't listen, which makes you feel that it is difficult to maintain communication with him, and the other party has such a performance, indicating that he only sees himself in his eyes, and there is no you, which ignores your feelings.
The person who really loves you deeply, with you in his heart, will stand in your point of view for your sake, he sincerely hopes that you are happy and happy with him, and he will give you full understanding and respect, which makes you feel really relaxed with him.