Regarding love, Zhang Xiaoxian said in "In Love with You": "Don't say forever and ever, this scares me, I don't want to swear by the mountains and the sea, what I want is just the countless screws you give, every once in a while, you can take it out and tighten our love." ”
When you fall in love with someone, don't have the stars in the sky, just the happiness of the world. Men want to go on with the people they like for a long time.
But men should know that some women are restless and have never thought about being with men, and maybe two people will be separated after a while. The woman with these 4 manifestations shows that she is perfunctory to you and has no intention of being with you at all!
1. Focus on yourself in everything
Many women like to blindly compromise in their feelings, and respect men in everything, such women do not have any self in their feelings, most of them will not get real happiness, and will only be forced by men to retreat again and again, until there is no way to retreat, forcing themselves to be miserable.
But if a woman is always self-centered in everything and doesn't think about you at all, then she's also problematic. Such a woman is very selfish, and to her, you are not worth mentioning at all. If you're treated like this by a woman, don't put any more effort into her, you and she won't have a great future.
2, often busy enough to forget you
Although everyone's time is limited, if a woman really has you in her heart, then she can definitely squeeze out time to accompany you, even if the time squeezed out is not much, but it is not always busy enough to forget you.
If she always says she's busy when you're looking for her, and she doesn't always have time to respond when she sends her messages, then you have to know that she's just making excuses for you. Such a woman is not sincere to you at all, no matter how hard you try, she can't really belong to you, men don't fool themselves, think that the nature of women's work makes her unable to squeeze out time with herself, save herself.
3. Frequently refuse your offer
If a woman really intends to be with you, then she won't often turn down your offers because she wants to be together, so she will have great expectations for the date between you, and she hopes to have more opportunities to develop a relationship with you.
If it's not convenient for you to ask her out, she'll gently tell you when she's free, rather than always looking for reasons to reject you. If you are always rejected, no matter how grandiose a woman's reasons are, you should not be bypassed by her, and people who have no intention of being with you will show their true faces sooner or later, no matter how hard you try.
4) She doesn't want to take you to meet friends
Men and women are the same, and when they fall in love with someone, they want to be recognized, they want to meet each other's friends, and integrate into each other's lives.
If the relationship has been for a long time, the woman has not taken the man to meet her friends, has not talked to her friends about her relationship, and the woman does not want to recognize the identity of the man at all, nor does she think of having a result with the man. A woman who has this performance shows that she does not want to be with you, so leave early.
When many men pursue women, they always feel that as long as they persevere, they can get the results they want, and they don't know that the "person who pretends to sleep" is that you can never wake up.
In this world, there are many feelings that are fruitless, and men have to learn to face reality. If a woman really does not have you in her heart, then you must know how to let yourself go in time, as long as you have worked hard and left no regrets.
The person who does not belong to you is that you can't catch it no matter how hard you try, and men meet women who have no feelings for themselves, and they have to be willing to give up. If you always don't let go, you will hurt yourself in the end, and you may miss the happiness that really belongs to you.
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