Text/Coriander
The charm of love lies in the two loves, in the attraction to each other.
The pain of love lies in wishful thinking and in the inability to ask for it.
Zhang Xiaoxian wrote in her "The Farthest Distance": The most distant distance in the world is not life and death, not the other side of the world, but I stand in front of you, but you do not know that I love you.
One-sided love is painful. Some people say that such love is not worth it. However, the love affairs of the world may not be measured by whether they are worth it or not.
Love has always been a matter of "wishful thinking". That is to say, your love for a person is not because he or she loves you, you love him or her. Often, love occurs because one's own soul is touched and will love. If your own heart does not have that feeling, then the other person loves you again, and you are equally indifferent.
So, love is always an active word, not passive. Because they are proactive, most of them are also willing.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said in "The Farthest Distance": Loving someone, you don't have to let him know, you can also give up everything else for him, that is the minimum consumption, I should pay.
When you fall in love with someone, you actually love with your whole heart, whether he or she loves you or not. Of course, if the other person can respond, it is the best of both worlds. But if he or she is not, then this love road, it is only you walking, it will be very hard.
Many times, infatuation is rare to exchange for infatuation. No matter how affectionate you are for him or her, you can't exchange his or her love. Don't think that touching is love. Those are two completely different emotions.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: This deep affection, from beginning to end, only touched herself. All delusions are lonely.
There is nothing wrong with that. The love of the box, a one-sided attachment, has always been their own efforts, and sometimes, even they have been moved, but the other party may not be able to move and accept.
Even if he or she is touched and accepts, can you be happy? No, the harmony of love is not based on touching. Only equal love can make each other give their hearts, pay their true feelings, be moved by love, or be crazy for love.
The farthest distance in the world is when I stand before you, but you can't understand my love.
What is the world? Orthodox people are born and die.
The love that can make people live and die must not be one-sided love. If it is only one person's love, it is just a moth to put out the fire, not a "promise". Phase, is a two-way action. That is to say, only when two people love, there will be mutual actions and interpretations of love.
Love is like that burning flame, yearning for beauty. The reason why moths want to put out fires is also because of the light and beauty of the flames.
Love can also give people light and beauty.
"Love is a light, so wonderful, illuminating the future of our courage. The magic northern lights, the prophecies of legends, turned out to be the eyes of lovers."
Therefore, love is a flame, there are beautiful colors, but also brilliant light. The hotter the love, the brighter its light shines.
However, love is also short-lived. We all know that love is just a feeling. It is beautiful, brilliant, but also short-lived.
Very little love lasts a lifetime. Many times, two people live together for a long time and get used to it. Even if there is no love, it will become affection, become the habit of "you are used to me, I am used to you".
Because of habits, I don't want to change. So marriage has persistence.
If they are together for a long time, the two people have not yet become accustomed to each other, and the relationship will come to an end.
Whether it is the love of two people or the obsession of one person, it cannot stop the flame of love from being extinguished.
"The Farthest Distance" says: Love is used to burn, not to store, the light is gone, this is the love I pursue, will you understand?
The light is gone. Love is like this. It's always been like that.
Love is gone, fate is gone, the light is gone. Therefore, two people, naturally, are separated. Or, when you love too hard, when you can't hold on to a person's love, the light of love is extinguished.
If you can, really don't be the one who is willing to love. That kind of love is too painful and too torturous. Not fun at all. It's true.