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In your opinion, what factors are the key to influencing the "development of life"?
Some people think that everything is inferior, but the reading is high.
Some people feel that being generous to people can become a great instrument.
Some people sigh that the aspirants of the great bird should have a vast pattern.
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On the issue of life development, I believe that everyone has their own views, and these views are correct. However, they are still not comprehensive enough.
There are so many key factors that affect life that cannot be fully summarized at one point. Maybe one factor changes and our whole life is affected.
The ancients once said: "One life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulations of yin virtue and five readings." Six seven phases and eight gods, nine noble people and ten health. ”
These ten points may limit the lives of ordinary people.
02
For these ten points, we can carefully taste them.
A man's life, and his luck, is the basis of his life; and the circumstances in which he finds himself, the virtues of the individual, will determine his future.
After having the above four points, people still have to work hard to study and improve their personal cultivation. Then he is absolutely extraordinary.
A person's fame and his appearance are his business cards; and what he does, the noble people he meets, all come to help him.
After having these four points in the middle, people still need to take good care of their bodies and strive to live longer. In this way, he has a chance to come forward.
That is to say, fate, timing, environment, morality, reading, fame, looks, attitude, nobility and body, these ten important factors affect people for a lifetime.
Let's think about it, from ancient times to the present, celebrities and big people, which person does not have the above conditions? Generally speaking, as long as you achieve five or six of the ten points, then this person will achieve great things.
What is the difference between the prince and the common people? Only the difference is in condition. The former has a myriad of advantages, while the latter can not meet anything. In this way, the gap in life will be particularly large.
03
We may wish to look at Xiang Yu and Liu Bang when Chu and Han were fighting for hegemony, why liu Bang was able to defeat Xiang Yu?
Xiang Yu's personal personality is not good, not the material of being a monarch, then his fate is affected by "personality". Once there is a problem with the personality, then he will personally destroy his own advantages.
What about Liu Bang? He has a particularly good personality, knows how to deal with people, knows how to manipulate people's hearts, and is the material for being a monarch. Therefore, his "character" can allow him to gain advantages, have timing, have territory, have fame, have nobles, have attitudes and patterns, then he will not be able to achieve the imperial cause?
Don't think too complicated about the problem of life, the reason why he can succeed, and the reason why she is not successful, is not it in the above ten problems?
Even in modern times, don't those bigwigs of the Internet empire gather many advantages, and finally gain a foothold and achieve excellence?
Some people have encountered the opportunity to stand directly on the cusp of the storm, and his personal ability is good, with the investment support of nobles, then he can not "fly" up?
On the contrary, although some people have encountered the opportunity, they are not capable enough, they do not have the support of others, and they are more affected by risks, so is he not swallowed up by others?
From ancient times to the present, all developments and failures cannot escape these ten points. Therefore, to improve the advantages of individuals well, in order to accumulate thick and thin, a blockbuster.
04
Someone once asked such a question, do you meet a noble person, have the opportunity, you can achieve great things?
Actually, this is not necessarily true. Because of the personality and ability of the individual, it will also affect the direction of life.
Take Cao Cao and Yuan Shao at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty. At the time of the Battle of Guandu, Cao Cao was at a disadvantage, while Yuan Shao was in a strong position. From the data point of view, it is definitely Yuan Shao who won the victory.
Yuan Shao has territory, prestige, nobility, army, economy, and extremely deep roots. And Cao Cao? The territory is small, the prestige is not enough, the army is small, the economy is not good, and the foundation is extremely weak. But why did Cao Cao still win?
In Zhuge Liang's words, it is not only the time of heaven, but also the conspiracy of man.
Yuan Shao was indecisive, self-conscious, did not know how to accept good words, and did not distinguish between right and wrong, and finally played a bunch of good cards. On a personal level, you lose.
Cao Cao was decisive and wise, knew people and made good use of them, knew the overall situation, knew right and wrong, knew good and evil, and had a strategy in mind, and finally turned the bad cards into a king bomb and directly overturned the plate. The personal level wins.
It can be said that there are many things in this world that look at "people". Perhaps the key reason why we are inferior to others is in the individual.
05
So how do we change our future? Three levels.
The first level is to improve the strength of the individual, read more good books, expand the pattern, calculate three things in one step, and know the human nature of the human heart.
The second level is to win over nobles, form personal forces, lay a good personal foundation, and then wait for the time of day.
The third level is to "win with one blow" at the moment when the time comes, to crush the opponent with lightning speed and cover up, and to quickly achieve the final victory.
In fact, these three levels are an effective summary of the above ten points.
Therefore, if you are still depressed and depressed, then you may as well silently improve your strength. As long as there is strength, there will be a day of comeback.
In this life, as long as people do a good job of "people", then "heaven and earth" will come unexpectedly. Man's conspiracy and heavenly time are not waiting, but struggle is exchanged. That's all.
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