Goncharov once said: "Love is equal to life, and life is a responsibility, an obligation, so love is a responsibility." ”
If a man really loves you, he can clearly feel that he has a responsibility in his body, he knows that he is no longer alone, many things he can not only consider for himself, he wants to treat you well and protect you.
But if the man just wants to play with you and doesn't take you to heart, then he doesn't have a sense of responsibility to you, as long as the freshness passes, he will ignore you.
Love is not complicated, if a man really loves you, he will be good to you, if a man always makes you sad, then he just does not take you to heart. And in fact, true love can't deceive people, how deeply a man loves you, pay attention to his 4 details to know!
1. Whether he cares about you or not
It's raining heavily, you don't have an umbrella and you want him to pick you up, and he refuses you; you're sick and want him to take care of you, and he thinks you're causing trouble for him; you're in a bad mood and want him to stay with you for a while, but he thinks you're looking for something to do; you're late and haven't arrived home, and he hasn't even called you, not sent a single message of concern.
Such a man doesn't care about you at all, and your things seem to have nothing to do with him, which is how he doesn't take you to heart. He's not a straight guy or doesn't care about other people, he just doesn't care about you.
A man who truly loves you will not be so indifferent to you, and many things have not waited for you to say that he has done it. When it rains, he will take the initiative to call and ask where you are, if you are sick, he will take the initiative to buy you medicine to take care of you, he will also take the initiative to accompany you to comfort you when you are in a bad mood, and women should not waste time on a person who does not love you.
2, whether he will take the initiative to consider for you
If a man really loves you, then you are the one he wants to protect you for.
There are many things he can take on for you, he takes the initiative to take it, never pushes you alone to the front, and he does not care at all.
If a man never thinks about you, his brother makes excessive jokes in front of you, he doesn't know how to defend you, push you out when things happen to make you bear alone, consider the problem only to think about yourself, and you don't look like his lover at all, more like an accessory around him, always you are following his footsteps, but also you have been tolerating him, such a man actually did not put you in his heart at all.
3, whether he is willing to spend money for you
The man is with you, no gifts have been prepared for you, and the gifts you give him are accepted with peace of mind, other women are posting gifts prepared by their boyfriends during the holidays, and you have nothing.
Usually two people eat together, he is also very clear with you, not willing to pay for you at all, such a person how can you believe that he gives you the future?
Women can not be too materialistic, but also can not be too selfless, you always have to think for yourself, do not need a man to send you a valuable gift, but also to be able to see his intentions, men's words are no longer useful, willing to pay for you is the most useful.
4, does he want to marry you?
If a man wants to marry you, it means that he is truly in love with you, at least, he is willing to stay with you for a lifetime, indicating that he is physically and mentally prepared to assume the responsibilities and obligations of marriage.
Marriage requires courage for men, and not all men have the courage to step into the threshold of marriage. Marriage is two people who love each other hand in hand to spend a lifetime, and the love in marriage will sooner or later be wiped out by daily trivial contradictions and problems. If a man is willing to marry you, it means that he wants the relationship to be consolidated. He wants to give you a stable family.
If a man is willing to spend his life with you, it means that he is truly in love with you. Although marriage will also be full of contradictions and misunderstandings, as your feelings deepen, you will only love each other more and more. When your feelings accumulate to a certain extent, they will generate great energy. Loving someone makes us extra brave. Because we have learned to tolerate and tolerate each other. Our love will become more determined with the passage of time. Such a man is the man who really loves you.
Time kept going on, and we had to become more and more mature, and when we were young, we didn't know anything, and there was nothing wrong with doing stupid things.
But if you reach the age of maturity, you still don't understand anything, and you are still doing stupid things in the world of love, it is really stupid. Even if you like a person again, you must know how to think about your own happiness, after all, you are the most important.
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