At the beginning of the winter vacation, the "Divine Beasts" are out of the cage!
Dear moms and dads have begun a "violent" life for more than a month.
The child's energy is never exhausted, as long as he opens his eyes, he keeps running around, asking questions from the east to the west, so that parents are annoyed, but helpless.
The daily work of the parents could not be stopped, and they had to be entangled by the divine beasts, and they were tired and tired, and the donkey skills were poor.
Spending up to an hour a day with the children has exhausted patience, casually throwing electronic products for children for a short period of quiet.
This is a problem that many parents have to face, what to do?
In fact, in the parenting industry, there is a "golden hour" rule.
Mastering this hour of time is more effective than spending half a day with your child. Some parents may ask: an hour of accompaniment for half a day? Exaggeration!
In fact, the accompaniment and education of children, and the length of time with children do not have much to do with it, but an effective method, there is a good way, you can use the shortest time to achieve the greatest effect.
01 Tell stories to your child before going to bed
Bedtime stories can also cultivate reading ability, this time children read books is very attentive, do 15 minutes of short reading every day, the effect is very good,
Children love to listen to stories before going to bed and fall asleep slowly in them. Before going to bed, children are more relaxed, lying in bed, the mood is calm, this time to cultivate children's concentration and listening and understanding skills have a good effect.
Children with poor concentration often have unsatisfactory academic performance. Without concentration, there is no way to do a good job, and it is often abandoned halfway.
An educationalist once said, "Children who can't read are potential underprivileged students." Reading is of great help to children in understanding the world and all kinds of curious questions.
Star Huang Lei often shares more reading photos on the Internet, and also recommends that everyone create some reading environment and atmosphere for children, thinking that reading is too helpful to children.
A good children's story can let children learn the correct outlook on life, values, and strengthen the child's inner world.
02 Communicate with your child before going to bed
Many celebrities write memoirs when they reach old age, which will write about their childhood, which is a time that no one will forget, and it is the best memory in life.
You can have a short exchange and communication with your child when you finish reading the book. Smile and ask the child: Baby, is there anything happy to share with me today?
You can also exchange small secrets with your child, and spiritual communication can not only enhance the parent-child relationship with your child, but also adjust your child's inner emotions.
Now the child's heart especially needs attention, sometimes encounter unhappy things at school, come back sometimes unwilling to talk to parents, worried about being blamed, etc., at this time, if you do a small secret exchange game, it is possible for the child to be willing to say it, the mood will not be so bad.
Note: don't mention anything at this time. For example, have you finished your homework today?
03 Before going to bed, praise the child more
Many parents will not express their feelings, so that children will also get used to your style, and when children grow up, they will treat their children the same as you, which is a bad habit, or parents should be good at communicating with their children and consciously affecting their children's emotional intelligence.
Boasting about children before going to bed is a very worthwhile thing to do.
Even if there is no thing worth praising the child today, it is good to find a little thing worth exaggerating from another angle.
"Boy, I want to praise you today because you helped Grandma pick up the shredded pieces of paper on the floor today"
"Baby, today you can dress yourself, it is really commendable, I hope you can do better tomorrow on your own"
There are many, many scenarios like this, and parents can completely apply them, and the effect is very good. Children want to be affirmed by their parents and will become more and more motivated.
Parenting Starts with the self, little by little
Every child is a blank piece of paper, and what patterns are drawn on the white paper in the future actually depends on the awareness of parents.
As the saying goes: "the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked" This sentence is to say that the problem of educating children, as a parent, you must lead by example to guide the child's behavior, sometimes your one action, may be better than a lot of words.
Parents are the best teachers for children, learn the above three points, make good use of the "golden hour", children will become better and better, even beyond your imagination.