My story with the kids

You say, less angry with your own kids! So why are we angry? It's because we complain about our children every day, probably because they don't work hard, don't act, and don't work hard. They unconsciously make you feel disappointed. So you will be angry, and it may be because you are too demanding of him. Because you use the standards of your own treatment to demand him, it is because you are too demanding of yourself, so you impose too high requirements on your own children! When they are slightly unsatisfactory, you may add sticks and even scold! But have we ever regretted it? Maybe we will regret it, because we have also grown up from childhood, but we have experienced, they are experiencing it again, can we really change, to change the story between me and him! While he has not grown up yet, I have not slowly aged, while we still have a lot of good times, should we cherish every day and even every minute of our children's growth? So it may be difficult to change, but our story is slowly beginning, we have to change you are to change yourself, stop complaining about writing homework with your child, don't complain that she can't afford to live, stop and insult him, because what he experienced is exactly what you experienced before, maybe because you are not excellent yourself, you want him to become a better person, so only he will tolerate your bad temper, because he is your child, no matter how you kill him? Scold him, yell at him, he is still the one who loves you the most in his heart, at least for a few years, he should be the one who loves you the most, poor, it won't be long before he grows up like you, and then its wings harden, and finally, he will choose to fly away, and what time? We may only be able to silently look at the light in the child's room, will think about why we are so scolding our own children, then our eyes will often flash to the small figure, he is writing, he is biting the pen, he will gently let you bring her chocolate to eat, but also say some thoughtless, clueless words, you? We will also pretend to be pure of their mature faces, silly look at you and smile, so we will miss, we will miss the days of school, the days of writing homework, the days of carrying school bags, at this time we will be lost in our hearts? I think it will be sure, because you will understand that this is not your own fault, because this is the mistake that every parent will make, because only by making a mistake, you will accompany the child to write homework, you will go to torture him endlessly, because you and he may be because of the fate of the previous generation, in exchange for your companionship with him in this life, so my story with the child may be in such a past flash This is our life, although our life is very long, but I and the child he is very short, the so-called short, That is, the shortness of mutual companionship, from his birth to his adulthood, every winter and summer vacation seems to be in the memory of a flash, after adulthood it may bring you is every Spring Festival with you for a short few hours, or dozens of minutes, right? So please cherish every day with your child, this is the story of me and my child.