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Regarding marriage, it is actually a walled city, and those who go in want to come out, and those who don't go in try to get in.
In fact, when you actually go in, you will find that it is not what you want, and the more you want to escape.
How to choose life, there will be regrets, no one's life is perfect.
The long road of life, everyone has their own troubles, whether they are married or not, they have their own worries.
Compared with not getting married, in fact, what is more terrifying is marrying the wrong person, for a woman, marriage is a way to change the second half of life.
At any time, think rationally and calmly, and then make a choice.
Marrying the wrong person may be an abyss for the rest of your life
In today's society, more and more people choose to be single, not because they don't want to get married, but they are more afraid of marrying the wrong person and ruining the second half of their lives.
For a wrong marriage, it is actually possible to ask for a woman's half-life. The consequence of rushing to marriage may be to gamble on the second half of your life.
You know, a person can not remain unchanged, before and after marriage is completely different, some people have a little conscience and know how to hurt you, maybe you can still be treated kindly.
If you meet a person who does not know how to hurt you, you may face endless quarrels, violence, and will make you completely lose hope in marriage.
When in love, it may be wind and snow, but after marriage, it is more chai rice oil and salt. To put it bluntly, marriage is a contest of two lives, depending on what kind of person you meet.
If you are lucky, you can meet someone who loves you and pampers you, and two people will work together for a lifetime and grow old together. Unfortunately, the rest of your life will be spent in pain.
Not getting married may be relatively free, but it is also indispensable to be lonely
Regarding marriage, everyone has their own choices, but no matter how they choose, there will be regrets, and it is impossible to do everything as they wish. Choosing a state is actually choosing a life.
Not getting married also has the advantage of not getting married, you can do what you want, no one interferes, you will be very free, and you have to survive the time alone.
Life is not only perfect to get married, marriage is not the whole option of life, as long as you are strong enough to resist a person's loneliness, you yourself are happy, then you can choose not to get married.
Life is your own, just be happy.
I have seen many people's views on not getting married, and there is a passage that says: "If you see the lights of thousands of homes outside, the neighbor's food is overflowing, and the family walks hand in hand after dinner, you can hold back and not cry and not get married, I don't want you to be lonely, but I want you to be happy and happy." ”
There are regrets about how to choose in life, but when you make a decision, you have to bear it yourself
In fact, most people don't want to get married, but they haven't met the person who can really live together.
After all, marriage is to two people together for a long time, live together for decades to come, and must choose someone who likes each other, so that they will be happy.
But life is not so much as you wish, a lot of it is not satisfactory, life is like this, there will always be regrets, it depends on how you choose.
Whatever you choose, you should be responsible for your decisions and bear the consequences of your choices. As long as you are worthy of yourself, there is nothing to regret.
In this life, people will always make a lot of choices, it is impossible to do everything as people want, there will be regrets.
How to choose is not wrong, you just follow your own inner thoughts, do not care about other people's ideas, what you have to do is to be responsible for yourself, make a choice to have the confidence to bear, responsible for yourself, is the best state.
summary:
Whether a person chooses to get married, or not, or marries the wrong person who is struggling, there are regrets and pains.
Now that you have made up your mind, have ideas and choices, don't regret it and follow your inner thoughts. On the road of our lives, it is more important to have ourselves than to choose.
It is said that the cats in the alley are free, but they have no home; the dogs in the walls have a home and have to bow their heads for life. This multiple choice question of life, how to choose, there will be regrets.
Don't care what others think, you can be responsible for the choice of responsibility, the rest is left to fate, live your own life.