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Is money a "blessing of man"? You must know that the blessed person must be a person with good fortune and good fortune. And those who are not blessed, even if they have money, may not live happily.
In the view of philosophers, money is nothing more than matter outside the body. Essentially, without humanity, it has no value at all. What is really valuable is the human mind and realm.
In the life of a person, what we want to pursue should not be all material things, but should include spiritual pursuits. The gap between people with a spiritual realm and those without a spiritual realm is not generally large.
Take the quality of a person, he has a calm and calm posture, talking extraordinary, broad-minded. Then, how can such a person not be a blessed person?
On the contrary, he is violent and greedy, either plotting today or doing whatever it takes tomorrow. Then even if he is rich, he may not be able to harvest his own "blessings".
This kind of thing is not as simple as money and fame, it is actually a comprehensive embodiment of people's "internal and external conditions". The better the internal and external conditions, the more blessings they can enjoy.
You know, these 4 types of "fate is poor" people, even if they have money, they may not have good results.
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People who are too greedy will beg for their own food.
The greatest enemy that everyone faces is not others, but the greedy self. Whether you can overcome greed will become the key to your happiness.
Some people have lived a lifetime, are still greedy, always entangled in "money and fame", and do not know "contentment" at all.
Some people are particularly jealous, and when they see that others get more money than themselves, they will see no one and become more and more narrow-minded.
After all, people cannot escape the shackles of "greed and anger." If you are greedy, you will fall into the abyss. Just like those who "use the public for personal gain", even if they have money for the time being, they may not have any good end in the future.
The so-called "Skynet is restored, and it is not leaked." ”
If you are too greedy, you will go a crooked road and violate the rules of society and nature. In the end, these greedy people will be deprived of money and wealth, not only will they lose their former glory, but even people will go to prison.
Therefore, if you are not greedy and restrain your greedy desires, then you will eventually be blessed with good fortune and a peaceful life.
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People who like to compare will harm themselves.
Some psychologists believe that everyone is a creature that loves to compare, which is a gene inscribed in the bones and blood of people.
When you're young, you compare grades with others. If you have better grades than others, then you are naturally elated. But if you are a little inferior, then you will be sad.
In middle age, you will compare material money with others. It is this comparison that your heart will quickly become distorted and dark, always treating others as opponents, and lacking contentment and love.
I once met a depressed middle-aged man who always liked to compare himself to others.
Seeing that others have earned hundreds of thousands, he is not happy, thinking that he has only earned tens of thousands, and he is not happy at all.
Seeing that others lived in noble mansions, he was not happy, thinking that he could only live in ordinary commercial houses, which was not interesting at all.
But is it necessary for us to compare ourselves with others? Not necessarily. Because the situation between people is different. No matter how you compare, you may not be able to gain anything, but only endless troubles.
04
Those who are not worthy of the position will beg for their own hardships.
The so-called "virtue is not worthy, there will be disasters." ”
What is "moral mismatch"? That is, the character of the person cannot match the current position, which will lead to serious results. At worst, it can lose money and money, and at worst, it can endanger lives.
Some rich and powerful families, if there is a loser, it will absolutely be squandered by the loser, and the loser himself will not have a good end.
The character of the loser cannot carry the precious money, so it is expected that he will gradually decline.
In the workplace, some people go through the back door to a certain position and become a small leader. If he has the ability, that's not a big problem. Conversely, if he is incompetent, the higher the position he is in, the greater the chance of encountering risks.
Imagine, let an inexperienced person lead a department, then the department will not become a mess?
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People with too low a psychological level are susceptible to reality.
From childhood to adulthood, people around us always emphasize what emotional intelligence or IQ. But does emotional intelligence and IQ really work that well? In fact, we exaggerate the effects of emotional intelligence and IQ.
In this society, except for a small number of people, everyone's emotional intelligence and IQ are similar. That is to say, others are better than you, perhaps not in terms of emotional intelligence and IQ, but in other aspects.
Psychologists have concluded that a person's contrarian quotient is the key to a healthy mind and a long-term future.
The so-called "upstream". If we can't bear the pressure of life, it is difficult to alleviate the risks of life, and we can't accept the reality of life, then why should we persist to the end?
The blessed people of the past generations have been strong and "tenacious".
Liu Bei started a business six times, persevered, and eventually became the Shu Han Empire. Zhu Yuanzhang did not take humility as a disgrace, went against the business and exploded, and finally created the foundation of Daming for more than three hundred years.
What matters most is not what situation you are in temporarily, but your attitude when you face difficulties. How much suffering you can endure, then how much blessing you can have.
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