The establishment of every relationship hopes to end with a warm ending, but all indestructible feelings have the possibility of collapsing in an instant.
The fate between people and people is still limited.
In a relationship, you have been loved, cared for, cared for;
When he changes his mind and doesn't love you, you can actually detect it at the first time.
At this time, even if you love, you must recognize the reality.
Love is not one person desperately trying to leave, while another person desperately wants to keep it.
Here's what a guy doesn't love you anymore and takes the initiative to let go of one.
Hate you
An An in the TV series "The Second Time is Also Beautiful", after graduating from college, she married her boyfriend and had children, and when the child was five years old, she became a full-time wife.
How to take good care of the children and how to coax her husband to be happy has become the whole of her daily life, and she has no social life of her own.
She regarded her family as her own world, but her husband gradually grew tired of her.
Five years after marriage, her husband turned her into a resentful woman and filed for divorce with her.
She loved him so much, but he was so cruel to her.
Once a man does not love you, it is like a changed person, strange so that you have not known.
In the end, he still doesn't love you enough, so he will get tired of you with the passage of time.
Once the shortcomings of you, are cute, have a personality;
Once he doesn't love you anymore, the strengths he once saw as you become weaknesses.
Either today we hate you for not doing a good job, or tomorrow we hate you for doing something wrong;
Never be happy with you, always have an opinion.
At this time, don't doubt yourself, it's not that you're not good enough, it's not your fault, it's that he doesn't love you anymore.
The man who doesn't love you, no matter what you look like, he has a thousand, ten thousand reasons not to like you.
So, when it's time to let go, don't cling to it.
Care
The writer Yi Shu once said this:
"Men are more desperate than you think, especially when they choose to break up with you, they treat everything with a lot of money, and many people don't have past feelings." 」
Indeed, the difference between loving and not loving is really obvious.
When a person loves you, he is willing to give you anything, afraid that he will not give you enough;
But when a person no longer loves you, he is afraid that you ask for too much and will start to worry about you.
Once, he was willing to spend as much money as he wanted, as long as you liked, as long as you were happy, he was willing;
But now, he values money more than you, afraid that he will spend an extra penny for you.
Maybe others are still with you, but your birthday, the anniversary between you, he will not take the initiative to buy you gifts anymore;
If you mention it, he will say to you with a straight face: "You are not a little girl, what a gift." ”
From this, it can be seen that he really doesn't love you anymore.
A person who truly loves you must be willing to spoil you as a child.
What other people's "little children" have, he will also give you, will not let you envy others.
No more proactive
A man, if he remembers you and still thinks about you, he will definitely take the initiative, no exceptions.
Boys are a very straight species, and he can bear not to look for you all the time, which proves something.
You don't matter to him anymore.
So, silly girl, when a person no longer takes the initiative to find you, don't add drama to yourself.
Your inner drama is so much that it has no effect on him.
What you have to do now is to recognize this reality in front of you and accept the fact that he does not love you.
It's hard, but you can definitely let go if you want to.
Continuing to love someone who no longer loves him is tiring and painful.
Since you know that there is no end, it is better to get out as soon as possible.
Stop giving stupidly, and don't be humble enough to please each other.
What you have to do now is to get out of this bad relationship.
You have to believe that you will always meet someone who is willing to be consistent with you.