When my classmates go to school, do they spend every morning in a hurry and in a hurry? The time in the morning is urgent, if you meet the parents of the acute child, every few minutes in the back to urge, the original busy morning will make people more upset.
The classmates were upset, lost in a hurry, the parents were also upset, and they couldn't help but make a big fuss in the many urgings and reminders, and the intensive urging and loud shouting made the family's morning have a hint of smoke.
Many parents have complained that they have reminded their children that they should pack up their things the night before, so as not to be busy the next day, and the next day they also called their children to get up early, hurry up and hurry, why is the effect not satisfactory, the child is always not in a hurry?
The daily life of a father and daughter has attracted the attention of many netizens, and can even be praised by CCTV. Did they make any outstanding contributions, or did they convey positive energy for everyone?
No, the video of the daily life taken by the father and daughter is even a little "bland", and it is this blandness that attracts countless people to watch. Many netizens have lamented that this father is really well-bred and wants to learn from him.
The daily life of the internet celebrity father and daughter has attracted attention, praised by CCTV, and it is easy to hold out internal injuries after watching it
Xiao Yu is a girl who is in a hurry to do nothing. Eating is not urgent, walking is not urgent, even doing handicrafts are grinding and rubbing, as if the button of slow play has been pressed. Her rubbing made countless netizens anxious and almost held out internal injuries.
Her father, on the other hand, looked unhurried, holding a large clock and placing it where his daughter could see it when she looked up. Even though the school regulations are 7:45 requiring students to come to school, and when the time comes, Xiao Yu has not yet gone out, and even eats slowly and methodically.
The old father did not urge and roar, but just stood in front of his daughter with a helpless face, quietly waiting for her daughter to eat one grain of rice after another, and when she was finished, she sent her daughter to school.
Obviously, this father was also very anxious, but he did not take the same way as other parents to put pressure on his daughter, but helplessly and calmly accepted all this.
When it was time for school, the father went to pick up his daughter from school. I saw other children carrying school bags and rushing out of the school, while their daughter had her hand in her pants pocket, and a person standing alone in the school square was meditating.
If this had changed to other parents, it is estimated that they would have already yelled at the children. The father did not urge, just sat at the school door and waited quietly, waiting for his daughter to finish thinking about life, and then slowly and leisurely walked towards him.
The blogger Sanshi was never in a hurry, no matter how much his daughter was abrasive, even if she was late for school, even if it took several hours to do handicrafts, he did not blame and yell at his daughter, but always accompanied and waited silently.
But this father is not unrepentant, once solved the problem of his daughter's rubbing in the morning of school, so that parents feel that he has a good parenting.
The daughter was already packed up and ready to go out, waiting at the door for her father to send her to school, but this time the father was rubbing up, learning her usual way, doing everything in slow motion, even if she heard her daughter complain loudly that she was going to be late.
This made her daughter anxious and changed her bad habit of loving to rub everything she did. This made the netizens who had been anxious for Xiao Yu to breathe a sigh of relief.
Parents' education should pay attention to ways and methods, and should not interfere excessively in the growth of children
The blogger Mishi is a typical gardener-type parent, who knows that every child has his own style and temper, and it is impossible to grow into the same like a machine in a factory.
Therefore, he fully respects the child's habits and preferences, understands, respects and supports her behavior and thoughts, but also needs to guide the child's behavior when necessary.
Sanshi is not a "commanding" parent, rather than other parents pointing fingers at their children, he is more willing to listen to the true voice of his daughter's heart, fully respect her daughter's opinions, and let her grow up freely.
If the daughter has any task, the father will try to find time to accompany his daughter. Xiao Yu is practicing dance at home in order to perform, and Sanshi also borrows costumes to accompany her daughter, although the movements are not standard, but this intention can make her daughter feel the love of her father.
On the other hand, some parents, lip service to attach importance to their children's education, but in the usual times do not ask about the child's learning, need to cooperate with the teacher's work is also a mess, to the test results out of the score to complain that the child is not serious.
Parents do not really pay attention to their children's learning in their usual words and deeds, so how can they ask their children to pay attention to learning?