I don't know if you have seen a very popular program, its name is "Metamorphosis", mainly for some disobedient urban children's "transformation plan", specifically to let urban children and rural children exchange life, feel a different living environment, so as to achieve the purpose of education.
To know that in this show, there is really no shortage of rich second generation, one of the 16-year-old girls, named Liu Siqi, she spends tens of thousands of dollars a day, eats and needs to be fed, and actually after participating in the show, there have been earth-shaking changes, so what has changed in her?
1. The coddler is unknown
Many parents have coddling behavior towards their children, but the degree of difference is only the difference. Especially the mothers, after all, are the result of their own pregnancy in October, they seem to regard the child as a part of their body, and they can't see the child being wronged. It is really "afraid to melt in the mouth, holding it in the hand for fear of falling", even if they know that their behavior is not good for educating children, they are still happy to do it, and the name is to love children, afraid that this love is too heavy for children, and it may even bury the child's life.
And those spoiled children are collectively called "ma bao". They have always been protected by their parents, living a life of clothes to reach out and eat to open their mouths, and they do not even know the dangers of society, and they must go out with their parents, completely losing the ability to think. The lives of these heavily spoiled children can be said to be the same, either ending their lives early or embarking on the road of crime.
In the beginning of man, nature is good. No one is born evil, and education is important. Parents, as children's first teachers, have an important role in enlightenment. If you still want to spoil your child at this time, it will leave a mark on your child's life. The child's life is delayed by the parents, love the child needs to be moderate, learn to let the child cope with the problem, rather than the parents to think of a way, parents can not guarantee to accompany the child for a lifetime is not it?
As the saying goes: "No rules, no squares", we must understand a truth, that is, children need rules and education in the process of growing up. It is important for parents to let their children understand what to do and what not to do.
Parents also need to learn, and no one is born to educate their children. Parents and children need to learn and grow, children do not like to be compared, and some parents do not know it. Presumably, when everyone grows up, they will always be affected by the "neighbor's child", even if they have made great progress, they will also be questioned by their parents.
The existence of the "Metamorphosis" program may become a gospel for many families. Urban children do not know how to cherish everything they have, once lost, then they will understand what they should do, Liu Siqi's change is the best illustration.
Second, super giant babies
From a small family, he was pampered from birth, and Liu Siqi's life can be described as smooth sailing. Because she is a rare girl in the family, the elders like it and give a red envelope from time to time. In the eyes of her parents, Liu Siqi is the cutest child and has always adhered to the tradition that girls should be rich. Liu Siqi can be satisfied with anything, so much so that he has become a "super giant baby".
In this way, Liu Siqi became a little princess who stretched out her hands and opened her mouth with food, was surprisingly lazy, and was especially able to spend money. In Liu Siqi's eyes, there is only a distinction between like and dislike, and there is no distinction between more money and less money. She is very good at asking her parents for money, whether her parents want to or not, and even ask for money through spitting, even her own brother can't look at it, and often spit on her sister.
In the eyes of her parents, Liu Siqi seems to be really spoiled, does not have the appearance of a sister at all, and often beats her brother in order to ask for things. In order to educate Liu Siqi, Liu Siqi's parents thought of the "Metamorphosis" that they had inadvertently seen, thinking that as long as the child was sent there to experience life, the child might still have a glimmer of life, and if he did not continue like this, Liu Siqi would be completely ruined.
As a result, Liu Siqi was sent to participate in "Metamorphosis", and at first Liu Siqi did not record this show properly, thinking that it was a trip. Unexpectedly, this change trip made a huge change in her life.
3. Renovation plan
In this way, Liu Siqi came to the remote countryside at the request of the program and began his own journey of transformation. Liu Siqi was arranged to exchange family experience life with a rural child, and Liu Siqi who arrived at a new environment can be described as a variety of adaptations.
The meals are also not satisfied, the transportation is not convenient, and you still need to go to work, which can make the delicate big miss difficult. Liu Siqi also became uncooperative, refused to eat, and later chose to give in to his parents when he was hungry. Without parents to feed, Liu Siqi also ate very well, and things are already developing in a good direction.
In the countryside, Liu Siqi learned to care for others and know how to work. It is estimated that even Liu Siqi's parents can't believe it, after all, Liu Siqi has always been well protected, where has he done heavy work? In order to adapt to the new environment as soon as possible, Liu Siqi and the small partners who came to deform work together, which is still very rewarding.
Finally, after the successful transformation, Liu Siqi no longer needs the help of his parents, and he can get food, clothing, shelter and transportation. Liu Siqi even proposed to her parents that she wanted to study abroad and had a life goal, which surprised and delighted her parents.
After all, the thought of Liu Siqi going out to study will inevitably be a little reluctant, but since Liu Siqi has changed, he should fully support his child's dream for a long time. And Liu Siqi likes clothing design, so it is very likely that she will engage in the fashion designer industry in the future, and look forward to her coming to a more gorgeous transformation!
4. Summary
The so-called "deformation" is actually to change the trajectory of life, so as to achieve the purpose of education. Liu Siqi's success has made many parents see hope, and perhaps the doting child still has the possibility of getting better, but it needs a moment.
As the saying goes: "The doting person is unknown, the greedy person is not tired", everything must have a degree, parents love their children can understand, after all, it is the flesh that fell from the body, but also pay attention to ways and methods, how to educate a child, parents also need to learn. Especially those new parents, they should understand how to be good to their children. Don't blindly pay, but also let the child understand the big truth.
I hope that parents who dote on their children can wake up earlier and not delay their children's lives. To educate children as soon as possible, we should understand what is a "sense of proportion". Don't decide for your child anymore, don't always play the banner of being good for your child, you should learn to respect your child.
That would save some tragedies and save the lives of some children. At the same time, life is precious, and it is done and cherished. How do you think you should educate a child? If you have experience, you may wish to bring it up, let's discuss it together, thank you for your support and attention.