It's normal for a two- or three-year-old to be fed by an adult, but what if it's a 16-year-old girl?
This picture, think about it, has a sense of weirdness, let alone seeing it.
But the audience really saw this strange scene.
In the shot, a 16-year-old girl sits at the table, a middle-aged woman is feeding her a mouthful of food on the side, the girl is eating when the meal comes to the mouth, and it is her second aunt who feeds her, everyone at first thought that the old man spoiled the child, so he fed the meal.
But the more she looked at it, the more she felt that something was wrong, because the girl did not only have to be fed for this meal, but every meal had to be fed, and she could not eat at all, in addition to not eating, she could not wear clothes, and even cut her nails to rely on her aunt to help.
Seeing this, everyone can't help but pity this girl, who looks clean and beautiful on the outside, is there a problem with intelligence?
However, seeing the back, everyone was even more surprised that this girl was not only mentally normal, but also a rich second generation.
In stark contrast to her clothes to reach out and open her mouth, it is her "boldness" of spending money without blinking.
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In 2006, Hunan Satellite TV launched a program "Metamorphosis", which is a program that exchanges identities between urban children and rural children and experiences two very different lives, the program has been attracting much attention since its inception, and it has also "won the popularity" of many children, Liu Siqi is one of them.
That year, she left a deep impression on the audience with her "super giant baby" behavior of eating and feeding, dressing by her mother, and cutting her nails and relying on her aunt.
Also impressive is her concept of money.
Once she dragged her uncle to drive a Lamborghini into a batch of mobile phone cases to set up a stall, the price of 20 yuan of mobile phone cases, she sold for 2 yuan, sold to the last few simply to passers-by.
A passerby asked, "What the hell is this?" ”
Liu Siqi's uncle gave the answer: "Tu Yi Lehe." ”
It turned out that Liu Siqi saw other people's business hot videos on the Internet, felt that it was very cool, so she also wanted to experience a hand, said dry, excited she pulled her uncle out to go out to buy stalls, later, in order to celebrate the "business boom", Liu Siqi instructed his uncle to drive two hours to eat roast oysters, the price of 100 oysters, she gave the boss 600 pieces as soon as she shot, because "just this mouthful".
What is even more shocking is Liu Siqi's strong ability to spend money. Her favorite thing to do every day is to shop, buy, buy, buy, buy backpack, the price of nearly 10,000, only because it is a limited edition, she only looked at it and immediately paid for it.
Facing the camera, she laughed and shouted: "What do you do if you have money!" ”
A 16-year-old giant baby who has no self-care ability and spends money like dirt, after the program was broadcast, Liu Siqi could not think of being popular.
For Liu Siqi's self-care ability comparable to that of a baby, Liu Siqi's mother said: "These are small things, she is still small, spending money is what I and her father are used to, girls are rich, and when they grow up, the money outside cannot seduce her." ”
It seems that the reason why Liu Siqi has become a "giant baby" is because of the push of his family, as the saying goes: poor sons and rich daughters. Liu Siqi's parents can be said to have done this sentence to the extreme.
They doted on their daughter to the point of astonishment.
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At that time, when Liu Siqi was just born, his parents' business had just started, and then the family's business slowly entered the right track, Liu Siqi's father regarded Liu Siqi as a lucky star in the family, as the family's business became larger and larger, Liu Siqi's status was self-evident, it was simply a treasure on the tip of his heart.
The only regret for parents is that the business has grown bigger, the time to accompany Liu Siqi is getting less and less, often a business trip is ten days and a half months, it is difficult to go home, and it is not easy to stay for two days and have to go on the run. In order to make up for the guilt of not being able to accompany the child, they had to hire a nanny for Liu Siqi, but outsiders were not at ease, so they had to invite relatives.
Even if they invited relatives, they could not be completely assured, so they repeatedly ordered from time to time that "Qi Qi's happiness is the most important thing, and everything comes according to her." ”
And every time before leaving home, they would leave Liu Siqi with a wad of pocket money.
So Liu Siqi's uncle, aunt and second aunt took turns to fight, and finally formed a nanny team of "everything with Liu Siqi as the head". The uncle is responsible for driving and transporting part-time bodyguards, the aunt is responsible for daily life, the second aunt is responsible for cooking and feeding, and under everyone's "concerted efforts", Liu Siqi directly pets Liu Siqi into a "super giant baby" without self-care ability.
No ability to take care of themselves, even if it is, under the "rich support" of her parents, Liu Qisi has no concept of money, and the pocket money every month is forty or fifty thousand, and it is not enough to visit a circle of shopping malls without spending ten thousand pieces.
Yu Liu Siqi's behavior, the family does not feel that there is a problem at all, after all, this little money is not unaffordable, Liu's father is more responsive to his daughter's needs, never willing to be harsh.
My uncle once said bluntly: "My big boss is her, her father is my second boss, and everyone has to let her." ”
Under his father's "aid and abetting abuse", Liu Siqi became more and more willful and arrogant, and had the status of "one person below ten thousand people" at home.
In order to make a hairstyle, she directly dismissed her mother's hairstylist who paid a high price to panjin, insisting on going to Dalian, three hundred kilometers away, to do tens of thousands of hairstyles, she said: "Many stars have been there, and the hair stylist is still quite handsome." ”
Such a temperament slowly brought a lot of troubles to the family.
The younger brother next to him once couldn't look down, said two words to her, Liu Siqi directly hit the 8-year-old brother, and her mother and aunt could not pull away when they came to pull a fight.
Her mother tried to persuade her, but she ignored it.
After beating his brother into tears, Liu Siqi was still angry and immediately dialed his father's phone: "Dad, my brother just let me beat up, and then you stopped his pocket money." ”
Unexpectedly, for his daughter's unreasonable request, the father did not even ask the reason, and directly spoiled and said: "Good." ”
A child who has been spoiled to this point has thus deviated from the right path of her life.
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Seeing that her daughter was becoming more and more willful and rude, but she could not do anything about it, her mother suddenly realized that she could not continue like this.
So she signed up for Liu Siqi's "Metamorphosis" under the introduction of her friends, and painfully let her go to the countryside to experience life, trying to reverse her personality and not go further and further on the wrong path.
Hearing this news, Liu Siqi gladly accepted, and her fantasy was that she could finally go to the countryside to experience a beautiful life: living in a two-storey small bungalow, welcoming the villagers, becoming the most beautiful flower in the village...
However, when she got off the bus in Guizhou, she was dumbfounded, except for the endless mountains and the sheep intestine trail leading to the top of the mountain, there was nothing, she had to leave the 4 suitcases carefully packed by her family, panting, hands and feet and climbing to the top of the mountain.
However, this is just the beginning of the suffering, it is not easy to get to the place, hungry she found that there is no one to feed here, even if there is nothing to eat, because the mobile phone wallet has been handed in in advance, in the deep mountains and old forests, there is no way to ask for help, and later under the leadership of a small partner Ma Yihua who participated in the program, she had to go to the small shop under the mountain to buy snacks and food.
However, this can only be a cushion for the stomach, and there is no enough to eat.
- The two ushered in another small partner kang zhiyi who participated in the show, and after learning that Liu Siqi had not removed her makeup and washed her face for two days because there was no cosmetics, Kang Ziyi gave her his own toiletries, and the kindness of the two small partners slightly soothed her heart.
Until the third day, the new parents who worked in the county finally returned, Liu Siqi's suitcase was also found back with the help of the new father, but before he could be happy, the program team took away Liu Siqi's makeup bag, Liu Siqi, who did not wash and eat for two days, the inner grievances and anger could no longer be suppressed, and directly wrestled with the staff, and later under the obstruction of the two small partners, the chaotic scene was calmed.
Liu Siqi couldn't help but cry, although it was only a short period of 3 days here, it was the most difficult time she had ever remembered, and her heart was wronged beyond measure.
At this time, the new father came over, touched her hair and said lovingly: "You are very beautiful without makeup, the little girl is natural, how to look good." ”
Listening to this sentence, Liu Siqi finally broke his nose and laughed.
After that, the new father made them a meal, and Liu Siqi, who had been hungry for a few days, felt that it was the most delicious thing she had ever eaten in her life.
The new father is willing to spend time with her, but also willing to listen to her grievances, although the family is not rich, the new father is still very careful to make food every day, although the ingredients are simple, but eating into the mouth is Liu Siqi has not eaten the "taste of home", Liu Siqi said to the camera: "He is better than my father." ”
The hard-working and simple new father made her feel a different kind of fatherly love that she had never enjoyed, and under his guidance, Liu Siqi gradually realized the happiness she had and her own petulant willfulness.
She began to adapt to the environment, tried to be independent, and learned simple housework, and she also went to the construction site in town with her friends and worked as a cement worker, just to earn some money to buy a pair of leather shoes for her new father.
Liu Siqi works as a cement worker
In fact, in the depths of Liu Siqi's heart, what she wants is not pocket money, nor is it the all-round service of her family, but the companionship and attention of her parents, she spends a lot of money, she makes a fuss, just to attract the attention of her parents, but the lack of companionship in childhood makes her long do not know how to tell her heart with her parents.
Although the new father is not good at words, a few simple words have reached Liu Siqi's heart, allowing her to experience the kind of fatherly love she wants most. At the same time, it also made a huge difference for her.
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After returning home, Liu Siqi refused her mother's feeding for the first time, refused the help of the nanny, insisted on doing her own things, and gradually bid farewell to the "giant baby" life.
Later, she wrote on Weibo: "After people have tasted the sour, sweet, bitter and spicy, even drinking a cup of boiled water will feel sweet. ”
Once she was like a flower in a greenhouse, before the real life, she knew that life actually has a hundred flavors, after a month of poverty, she returned to the family, it is really on the right path to growth.
The hard life in the countryside and the hardships of making money with her hands made her have a concept of money, and she gradually gave up the habit of profligacy, and the transformation was so great that her parents were surprised and relieved.
After the show, Liu Siqi thought deeply about her life, she did not want to live the previous life, doing nothing, without the depth of thought, such a life is boring. She chooses her favorite fashion design major and is ready to study well.
As a result, Liu Siqi faded out of everyone's vision.
By the time she returned to the public eye, she had returned from her studies in a foreign country and became a fashion designer.
Today, Liu Siqi has realized her dream through hard work, her graduation design work has been rated as excellent work by the school, signed a company, and has her own place in the industry.
Liu Siqi's complete reversal has made many parents begin to reflect on what is really the love of children.
Those who take care of everything for their children in the name of love, let them lose their parents who have independent thinking and self-care ability, think that such love can move the world, but do not know that "coddling" can move only themselves, harm the children, not to mention, it is not beneficial to society.
One of the most typical cases of coddling is Yang Suo, "China's first lazy man".
"China's first lazy man" Yang Suo
Yang Suo's parents have always had children, and they are afraid of Yang Suo's inclusion in their mouths, they are afraid of falling in the palm of their hands, and they are still holding them in their hands when they reach the age of walking. Until Yang Suo went out at the age of 8, his parents carried it with a burden. When his parents were alive, he took care of everything for Yang Suo, and after his parents died one after another, Yang Suo, who had no self-care and ability to survive, finally starved himself to death at home in the winter of 2009.
Liu Siqi was so similar to Yang Suo before participating in "Metamorphosis", fortunately, her parents realized their mistakes and made a hard effort to let her experience suffering and setbacks, which made her have such a big change.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them.
Even the young eagle, before soaring in the sky, has to be pushed off the cliff by her parents again and again, and liu Siqi is the same, after she was pushed off the "cliff" by her mother, her life was high and wide.
Because only after experiencing hardships and setbacks, children can have enough courage to face the unknown life, and finally, create their own wonderful.
This article is written by Xiao Xian
Responsible Editor: Change
Review: Blue Orange