My son also likes to listen to stories, he began to listen to "Uncle Kai's Journey to the West" at the age of three, every day can hear not sleeping, when he was five years old, not to say that his back is like a stream, but he can repeat what he hears.
Later, I subscribed to Uncle Kai's storytelling, he listened to historical stories, listened to Tang Xiaomi, listened to Rice Circle, listened to the magical library, and so on.
These are, of course, very good. It also increased his insight, and he really benefited. However, listening to stories as reading, and laziness without guiding him to read books, is the "biggest pit stepped on in the parenting process" that I summarized this year.
He loves to listen to stories, but he doesn't like to read them after school.
The reason is not that he does not like to read, but that he has little literacy, and he is very frustrated when reading, and at the same time, he feels that reading paper books is a very "tired" and "difficult" thing.
Children's reading is the reading of the five senses, so listening to stories is actually a way of reading, but in this process, we parents should not neglect to let children go to picture books.
Why?
Because the child in the process of reading picture books, his eyes, ears, hands and brain are used, then in this process, the child's interest in reading, the ability to observe, the ability to think, the ability to read, the ability to read, the concentration of text enlightenment and so on are being developed.
Therefore, while our parents let their children listen to the story, they must not forget to accompany their children to read.
Help children slowly develop the ability to read independently.
My son was initially very resistant to reading outside of class because he didn't know much and often missed words when reading, and I kept interrupting him to reread, which made him even more dislike reading on paper.
By the second grade of my child, if I didn't supervise, he wouldn't take the initiative to read extracurricular books.
After a period of reflection, I felt as if I had the right guidance.
I am now starting to choose books that are suitable for him to read, for example, now he is still more suitable for picture books or bridge books, this kind of book, there are not many words, but through pictures children can roughly understand the meaning of the text.
Second, I will choose some good comics for him to read, such as "Father and Son", and through such books, I will accumulate reading experience and build self-confidence in reading.
Third, for not much literacy, I read with him, he will not be able to ask me, and I will no longer increase the difficulty for him to look up the dictionary himself.
After I tell him how to read it, I'll read it aloud and listen to it again, so that he can better recognize which new word.
Fourth, for missed reading, this is actually a very good exercise of attention, through finger reading, slower children can read out smoothly and completely.
Through a semester of hard work, the child slowly fell in love with reading. At the same time, his ability to write is also improving, and the knowledge he originally gained from listening to stories has also formed his sense of language.
Therefore, listening to stories is also a kind of reading, but paper reading cannot be ignored. Only by cultivating children's ability to read on paper can they fall in love with reading.