A friend told me about something she and her daughter had just met.
She and her 6-year-old daughter went to the mall restroom, which had only a children's sink and was just empty.
When the two of them were about to turn on the faucet, a seven- or eight-year-old girl suddenly appeared in the bathroom next to them, swooped to the front, turned on the water and washed it.
The friend and daughter were startled and stunned.
The daughter looked up at her mother and said angrily, "Mom, why doesn't she wait in line?"
The little girl washed her hands and muttered without raising her head, "Who made you so slow?"
Then he walked away on his toes.
Friends said that she had always given her daughter a humble and educated education, and never encouraged her to fight in case of trouble.
In the daughter's worldview, it is obviously impossible to understand what the little girl says and does.
"I can only explain to her that sometimes some people just do this, thinking only of themselves when they do these things, and don't care about others." 」
Friends say that I hope that children will understand that no matter how impolite others make, we still have to maintain our own demeanor and upbringing.
for tat by using someone else's wrong way of behaving is inherently wrong.
Huang Lei told his son that no matter what he did, he must first learn to be a person.
In this world, not everyone can be cultured and kind, and don't change your own principles because of other people's choices.
Those who compete for immediate, short-lived benefits may end up paying a more expensive price.
The synonym for kindness and upbringing is not weakness, and I hope that while you have them, you can also be a person who has the power to change the status quo and influence others, and never lose your empathy.
I especially want to tell my children that in a long life, the final decision to where you stand is not your rudeness and stubbornness, but kindness, politeness, self-discipline, and cultivation.
All of this builds the pattern of your life.
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