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A boy on a runaway phone call with his mom shouting "I love you"
The video touched many netizens
The teacher said
The boys in the video are usually very restrained
But lately parents don't often stay at home
As soon as he heard his mother's voice, he began to choke
Then the emotions ran out of control and shouted
"Mom, you've worked hard, I love you!"
Coincidentally
There is also a teacher in class
Let the students bravely confess to their parents
A boy hadn't spoken yet
I can't cry anymore
"Mom, I love you!"
"It's nice to have you!"
And the mother's reaction is also very heartwarming
"I love you too!"
"I love you more than you love me!"
Children sitting in the audience
Originally, he was still slightly shy and laughing
But after listening to the conversation between mother and son
They were all moved to tears
Finished watching the video
Are you also red-eyed?
You remember the last time you were with a parent/child
When is it to say "I love you"?
"Love should be spoken out loud"
It is a phrase often quoted in advertising slogans
There are many ways to express love
But language is the most direct way
However, for most people
The way to express love is often subtle and reserved
Parents don't like to say it, and children are not embarrassed to say it
Many times the best time to express feelings is missed
Love is an ability, and breaking through the resistance of choking in the throat is even more of a strength. So, how can parents take the lesson of "love education and expression" to make the emotions between parents and children better expressed? Duan Min, an expert of the Shandong Provincial Family Education Propaganda Group and a teacher at Yantai No. 3 Middle School in Shandong Province, said so.
Duan Min
1. Acceptance and Permission
Parents must first accept and allow their children to be qualified to express their emotional feelings. When children can express their emotions in front of their parents, it also shows that the atmosphere of the family is safe.
2. See and respond
Children feel loved when they are seen and responded to in a parent-child relationship. Here's a few words to share, like "I see you're a little unhappy aren't I?" "I'm happy to see you, aren't I?"
3. Focus on physical sensations
When a child has an emotion, it is bound to be accompanied by certain feelings in the body. "Would you like to tell me about any parts of your body that are a little nervous or uncomfortable?" "Do you feel relaxed in your body?"
4. Express emotions first, then share things
When the child has full emotional expression, the parents come back to share with the child the relevant things that happened.
5. Demonstrate
Children's behavior is often learned. Parents should take a good lesson on how to "educate and express love". Be a role model for your child's behavior.
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