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Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and the cornerstone of the morality of the Chinese nation. However, there are some people who do not honor the elderly, do not take care of the elderly, and do not give treatment to the elderly when they are seriously ill, such people are unreasonable, and they are messing around, not only have poor character, but also have too poor quality. The following story happened to me, this woman is not worthy of being a mother, not even a child who is in school.
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A family in the countryside of Chengde, Hebei Province, lives in the south of Luanhe, with a population of 6 people, including a hostess Xiaohua, a husband, a father-in-law, a mother-in-law, a son, and a daughter. Xiaohua elementary school culture, born in a family without tutoring, but will live a life, usually frugal, non-essential situations never spend money. The husband Li Yuan is an honest man, who has been running a vegetable greenhouse at home, the father-in-law Li Laohan is a retired worker, the mother-in-law is a housewife, the son Xiao tie is in a middle school in the city, and the daughter is in junior high school in the town.
Xiaohuaniang's family is from the countryside of the county, living in a deep ravine, she has four brothers and sisters, she is the eldest in the family, because her parents have no education in the countryside and have no special skills, they can only rely on farming for a living, and the family life is difficult. Xiaohua's mother is a selfish woman who is quite unreasonable, she has little contact with society, is extremely poor in dealing with the world, and has a very poor reputation among local villagers. Xiaohua wanted to eat burnt cakes when she was a child, her mother never bought it for her, and the clothes she wore were made up and made up, and he developed the habit of being stingy and cutting the door from a young age under the influence of his mother. When she was in elementary school, due to family difficulties, in order to provide for her brother's schooling, she did not go to junior high school after graduating from primary school, and has been coaxing her younger siblings at home. Xiaohua was 23 years old and looked handsome, and there were many matchmakers in the surrounding ten miles and eight townships, and Xiaohua picked and chose her current husband Xiaomin.
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Li Laohan, the duke of Xiaohua, works in a state-owned enterprise in the city and has a fixed income, and when Xiaohua was about to get married, her mother said to her: "After you pass the door, you must control the family's financial power, or you will be angry!" Some people said: "What kind of mother-in-law, there is what kind of girl" Xiaohua has learned from her mother since she was a child, and she has no mercy on anyone. A few days after she got married, she remembered her mother's teachings and said to her in-laws: "We are a family, I will have children in the future, family expenses must be large, now the money is relatively scattered, not suitable for family life, need a person to manage, you see I manage the money line?" Her mother-in-law said: "You are young and have no experience in life, or I will take care of it!" Li Laohan and his son Li Yuan both bowed their heads and were silent at this time, Xiaohua revealed the pungent energy of being a girlfriend at home as soon as he heard that the old woman wanted to manage the money, and angrily said to the mother-in-law: "You are old, your brain is not flexible, how to manage money, don't say anything, the money is in my charge, today you will give me the passbook, who has cash in hand will also give me, with money you and me!" "The father-in-law and her husband are honest people or do not say a word, at this time the little flower mother-in-law is also angry and said to the little flower euphemistically: "Little flower, or we have separated, your father is also going to retire, retirement will not earn much money, we are also old, we will not add trouble to you," Xiao Hua listened to the mother-in-law said this, thinking that even if the father-in-law retires, the salary is still there, at least enough for the family to live, can not let them live alone, must hold the mother-in-law, or do not want to be the master of this house. So she said to her mother-in-law, "You are good to live alone, you are good to live!" Xiaohua said that she packed up her things to go back to her mother's house, and her father-in-law and husband did not stop her, and finally Xiaohua still left.
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Two months have passed, Xiaohua's in-laws have found many people to go to Xiaohua's house to mediate and let Xiaohua go back, and Xiaohua's mother said: "You must calm down, you can't compromise, you must let them obey and put the money under your control." Xiaohua also thought so, for the people who came to pick her up, she did not say anything about it, and she gave it back one by one. Since Xiaohua returned to her mother's house, Li Yuan frowned all day, sighed, the field and greenhouse work is too lazy to do, the day is not to go to the mahjong field or sleep at home, Li Laohan and his wife are such a baby son, seeing the son gradually become thin and depressed and depressed, the two people are anxious in their hearts, and finally the old two summed up, for the son chose to give in. The next day the old two went to the little flower mother's house, just entered the house by the barbaric mother to teach a lesson, the old two are a lot of good words, and finally promised the family money to the small flower pipe, their unreasonable mother only agreed to them to take the small flower home.
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Since then, Xiaohua has been in charge of the family, and after a year, Xiao Peanut has a son, at which time Li Laohan also retired. Five years later, Xiaohua gave birth to a daughter, and the family's vegetable greenhouse was also developed from the original 1 shed to 2 sheds, and the family also saved some money, and the little life was relatively rich. Over the years, The little flower father and her husband have been busy in the vegetable greenhouse, and the little flower and the mother-in-law are at home with the children to do housework.
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The weather is unpredictable, just last year, the little flower father suffered from heart disease (in fact, there has been a disease for a long time, the little flower father has not said that he feels uncomfortable), needs to be hospitalized, the little flower said to the family: "Heart disease is a chronic disease, take some medicine, work hard to the greenhouse to do some work, it is okay, there is no need to be hospitalized." In order to calm his father-in-law's mentality, he bought some medicine for Li Laohan to let his father-in-law maintain his illness. Just in March this year, Li Laohan was bedridden and needed heart surgery, Xiaohua said that the two children in the family were in school, and they needed a lot of money as an excuse not to treat their father-in-law, Xiaohua's mother-in-law and Xiaohua argued many times, and then Xiaohua said viciously: "If you mention this matter, I will kick you out of the house!" "The mother-in-law is older and powerless, so she can only choose to swallow her anger." Li Yuan also persuaded Xiaohua many times to ask for his father to be hospitalized for surgery, and after being slapped by Xiaohua a few times, he did not dare to mention this matter again.
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Xiao Tie, Xiao Hua's son, heard that his grandfather was sick and lay down, so he took a leave of absence from school and returned home to visit his grandfather. Xiao Tie grew up under the care of his grandparents and has special feelings for his grandparents, this child is kind and simple, listens to the teacher's words at school, and has a good academic performance. When he saw that his grandfather was sick like this, he asked his grandmother about the condition, his grandmother said that only by doing heart replacement heart valve surgery can be good, the operation cost needs more than 100,000 yuan, Xiao Tie heard this and ran to his mother's house, directly questioned his mother: "Why don't you do surgery when my grandfather is sick like this?" Xiaohua said: "Child, your grandfather is old, there is no need to cure it, in the future you will still have to go to college, find a job, marry a daughter-in-law, buy a building and need money, our savings can not be moved!" Xiao Tie said angrily: "Our teacher said, a good boy is determined to be in the four directions, my business does not need you to manage, I will rely on my own efforts to start a business in the future, you don't think about my future affairs, or give Grandpa a cure!" For this reason, Xiao Tie quarreled with his mother, and when Xiao Hua saw that the child was too old to dare to quarrel with her, he angrily picked up the broom on the ground and beat Xiao Tie, and after Xiao Tie was beaten, he ran to his house and cried.
At dinner in the evening, Xiao Tie's grandmother called Xiao Tie to eat, Xiao Tie's eyes were crying and swollen, just couldn't eat, Xiao Hua sat on the dining table and scolded Xiao Tie, Xiao Tie was angry at this time, walked to the dinner table and pointed at Xiao Hua and said: "You are not worthy of being a mother, let alone a good daughter-in-law, after you are old and sick, you treat my grandfather, I also treat you like this." As soon as Xiao Tie finished speaking, he lifted the table with both hands and overturned the dining table.
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Xiaohua compromised and did not dare to fight with her son anymore, because her son would not go to school and would have to go out to work to earn money to treat his grandfather. Xiaohua had to choose to treat Li Laohan for the sake of her son. Two months later, Li Laohan was discharged from the hospital, the illness was cured, and the person was also mentally energetic, and the first thing he did when he was discharged from the hospital was to go to the school to see his grandson.
finale
Filial piety or filial piety to the elderly is not a matter of ability, nor is it a problem of having money or no money, it is a problem of human nature. A child who is in high school knows how to repay the favor and honor the elderly, has excellent character, and is given a thumbs up by the local people! And as a mother of the little flower, no culture, grew up around her unreasonable mother, infected by her mother, valued interests, means tricky, do things arbitrarily, be mean and ruthless, the reason is the lack of good tutoring from childhood, as the saying goes: "Buy a house to see the beam, marry the daughter-in-law to see the mother-in-law." This sentence is not without reason. On the other hand, her husband Li Yuanren is cowardly, which also promotes the bad temper of her daughter-in-law, who as a husband does not attach importance to personal education and does not make a filial piety to her daughter-in-law, so that her daughter-in-law has become more intense. The elderly are people who have made contributions to our society and family, and today, when they are old and have no ability to work, we should care more about them, love them, take more care of them, and let them live happily in their old age. Sons and daughters of the world, filial piety needs to wait for the absence of relatives as soon as possible. There are some things that we can't understand when we're young. When we understand, we are no longer young. There are things in the world that can be made up, and some things that can never be made up.