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Parent-child case details:
Dad said that you can earn money by doing housework and save money by helping your mother do housework every day.
I listened to some reluctance, the child to do housework must be billed, that will not affect the child's concept of family responsibility? If there is a reward for doing housework, then without a reward, is the child not required to do it?
Home is our family's, and everyone has to make an effort to make our home better, isn't it?
But Dad said that letting children do housework and give material rewards is to let children understand that your labor is valuable.
As a parent, do you think your child should be rewarded for doing housework? Looking forward to your answers.
Director Li of Orangutan Village analyzed:
Looking at your situation, I found that parents want their children to develop in a good direction.
Dad wants his child to get toys through his own efforts and learn to manage money on his own;
Mothers don't want their children to measure everything by money, and they want to establish a correct view of money.
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So is there a way to learn to manage money and learn to do what is within it consciously?
The answer, of course: yes.
Every week or every month, give your child a fixed amount of money, and when you encounter a holiday such as Children's Day, give a little more.
In other words, it's the same as our monthly salary.
Before working, the boss must let the employee know what he is doing, and in the same way, the parents must tell their children what they do.
For example: put the toys back in their original positions after playing; wipe their own small tables every day; help their mothers share the housework and so on.
Let your child recognize two things:
You are a member of the family and there are many things you need to contribute to.
Since those things are something you should do on your own, money is no longer a reward. Mom and Dad give you money every month because Mom and Dad love you and want to give you some control over your wealth.
In educating children how to view money, we should emphasize the idea that paying is greater than returning, and guide students to establish a noble sentiment of paying without asking for returns.
Paying, being recognized and approved by others can give people a strong sense of achievement, and should also be a realm of life pursuit.
Cultivating love and kindness, extending the hand of friendship when others need help, is a moral and spiritual purification, is the improvement of quality, and thus gets everyone's recognition, praise, friendship, family affection, trust, happiness, blessing, etc., this experience can not be bought by money.
Children with love will have a deeper affection for the family, the care of parents will be full of gratitude, and will also return to the family in the same way, which is the ultimate goal of building a warm family.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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