-01-
In the blink of an eye, a year has come to an end.
Li Zongsheng once sang in the song: Years you don't urge, I don't push when you should come, you don't urge in the years, I don't chase when I go far...
Life is short, sweet and sour, the years are long, and the moon is missing a full moon.
Good memories, just a moment, sad troubles, but also in the blink of an eye. Although all things are deeply affectionate, many times, you have no time to reminisce, and time has reached the end without mercy.
Think about it, everyone, from the cry of the croak to the world, along the way, encountered the stars, some make you laugh, some make you ups and downs, some make you feel uneven, this worldly thing, it is really difficult to predict.
Three meals a day, food, clothing, shelter and transportation, every day in the walk to feel life; the world is complicated, fireworks are trivial, every moment is in the cold and warm of human feelings, experience the state of mind.
Years are a pig-killing knife, which will always bring you a lot of uneasiness, anxiety, distress, sorrow... The further we go, the heavier the burden on our bodies, so we feel more and more tired, more and more bitter, more and more difficult to feel joy.
However, the older the time, "tired" is not our destination.
Years should be a painting, the longer it is put away, the more valuable it is, and the more it has the charm of precipitation.
Like, our lives.
-02-
A road, walking for a long time, but always can not see the end, will feel tired;
A person who has loved for a long time, but always gets no response, will feel tired;
One thing, insisted on for a long time, but always no results, will feel tired;
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A person lives a lifetime, that is, there will always be many unsatisfactory, there will always be many unsatisfactory, lingering in it.
Just because we are always too persistent, too eager to get, so, in a hurry, we lose ourselves.
However, looking back and thinking about the original intention of doing this: obviously when walking, I want to enjoy the beautiful scenery on the side of the road; when I love someone, I want to enjoy the joy of love; obviously when I do something, I want to experience the fun of doing something seriously...
But in the end, the more love the more anxious, the more live the more depressed, the tense nerves, and finally one day, it is about to collapse.
Therefore, in this life, people still have to live a little freely, love is not too full, the heart is not too tired, learn to let go, learn to forget. You must understand: "Shaohua fades, the performance is lonely, and no one will applaud you until the earth is desolate."
You, just you.
When a road does not work, then go another way; when you can't feel a person's sincerity, turn around and leave; when you feel tired of doing something, then try to change...
If you want to live happily, then forget the pain, forget right and wrong, concentrate on pleasing yourself, and be a person with "no heart and no lungs" to live happily!
-03-
I remember there was a movie "Can't Forget".
Gu Tianle played the minibus driver, on the eve of the wedding had a car accident, cecilia Cheung played by the heroine, although heartbroken, but still took him and his ex-wife's child on herself, although she and this child have no blood relationship, but in order to support the orphans, her thin body, began to "mother is just".
She drives a minibus every day, and she is reluctant to rest in the middle of the night, in order to grab business, she was smashed by someone, the tire was broken, she was reluctant to call the trailer to repair, and she stepped on the big roof by herself...
However, no matter how difficult the days were, she always took good care of the child, reluctant to send him to the orphanage, reluctant to let him become an orphan, and finally because of her kindness, she met the lover who wanted to take care of her and rely on her for a lifetime.
Life may be a big drama, but you who get the script can only see the present, but you can't turn over the future.
Therefore, to live your own present moment is to find a living password.
The years are thin and cold, everyone is busy working for the sake of breaking silver two or two, everyone is eager to make the day better and better, and everyone wants to give a little more happiness to the people they love.
Therefore, to give your heart more expectations, to light a lamp for your present, to play your role well, is worthy of this ordinary life.
-04-
In fact, people feel tired of living, mostly for two reasons, one is because they are too serious and too true, and the other is because they are too persistent and want too much.
So, while struggling with desire, while comparing between gain and loss.
However, in this life, people are not actually living for others, the joys and sorrows of others, you can only see the surface, you can not feel the heart, just like the sentence: happiness is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Living happily on your own is the most important thing.
Whether you live happily or not, you need to feel the beauty yourself.
Remember that Mr. Lin Qingxuan once said:
I love the feeling that someone knocks on the window of a car and sells you a bunch of flowers, and then the ends of the world are different, as if walking through a country road, and there are birds and flowers along the way.
Everyone is carrying a heavy load forward, but in the wind, frost, snow and rain, their hearts can live more and more compassionately, the more they live, the more they can feel beauty, the more they live, the more wise they are, and they can live clearly.
Time, since you can't keep it, you may as well face the reality indifferently, so that every day that has not danced will be full of light.
-05-
We should be thankful that in life, there is a lot of warmth worth rejoicing and touching.
The willow green in spring, the fireworks in summer, the maple leaves in autumn, and the snow falling in winter will render the flow of years one by one, making the days more poetic.
Flowers blossom and fall, fate gathers and scatters, although time is not bright every day, but because of the warmth around them, it also adds warmth.
Don't worry about the years, don't go to the past.
With the passage of time and the end of prosperity, everyone is from ignorance to maturity, from immaturity to old age, from entanglement to open-mindedness, from fresh clothes and angry horses, hot-blooded rivers and lakes to old Ji Futuo, with ambition in a thousand miles.
The more time passes back, the thinner it will not get, it will only get thicker.
Perhaps, when people reach a certain age, they will let go of those people and things they don't like and meet their own indifference with a smile.
Therefore, don't put too much pressure on your heart, learn to relax, learn to follow fate, and learn to be at ease with the encounter.
In your spare time, let the inner rain shine; when interest comes, draw with a pen, or declare music and words; when anxious, take the sour, sweet, bitter and spicy as a drink, don't take it too seriously.
People live, that is, to enjoy the sunshine and warmth, do not live in the eyes of others, do not always wear a mask to show people, and do not feel that there is a defect, that is, imperfection.
One day, when you look back at the past, you will find that along the way, it is actually a very beautiful drama.
2021, soon to be in a "goodbye" to become the past.
But, at the end of the year, it is also the starting point.
May in the new year, everyone be able to walk between heaven and earth with an indifferent heart, and be able to live out the most beautiful taste of their lives.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!