The fate of the world is very wonderful, people with no fate, even if they meet, they are only their own passers-by, you chase after it, dig your heart and lungs, and in the end it is just an emptiness.
Feelings are the strongest to ask for, love or no love, in fact, from the first time you meet, it is already doomed. People who have no eye contact can't be lovers if they do friends, and if they insist on it, they may not even be friends.
It is often said that in the face of people who like it, they always have the impulse to be good to them, and they always want to give the best to them, trying to move them.
However, when you make a series of efforts to this end, you will find that you can never touch a person who does not like you, no matter what you do, she will not accept, openly and covertly reject you, and her rejection of you is very obvious, there is only one word: cold.
Come over and remind you that if you are always cold to you when you pursue a woman, don't dwell on it.
If you are not separated, deliberately reduce the contact between you
Many men feel that the first element of pursuing a woman is to appear around her from time to time, show their thoughtfulness, thoughtfulness, and impress her from the details.
Two people in contact for a long time, it will indeed produce love, but the premise is that the other party is not disgusted by your proximity.
On the contrary, in the face of your proximity, she is always in a hurry, deliberately reducing contact with you, indicating that she rejects your approach from the heart and does not like you to appear in her life.
If you can't read her refusal and have to force it, you may not even be a friend.
Just like his friend Xiao Yang, who liked a girl for two years, felt that the time was almost up and plucked up the courage to confess, but did not expect that the girl rejected him without thinking.
Xiao Yang thought that he was not doing well, such as whether he was too busy to care enough about the girl, or what worries the girl had.
In order to show himself, in addition to working hours, Xiao Yang spends almost all his time chasing girls, and he has to find time to call girls between work.
The more active Xiao Yang is, the more the girl is about to leave, often not answering the phone and not returning text messages, and the invitation to Xiao Yang can be rejected.
All the girls' performances are telling Xiao Yang - I don't like you, please don't come near me.
Xiao Yang refused to face up to reality, if the girl was in a good mood one day and said a few more words to him, he felt that the two people had hope of being together. Until one time, the girl couldn't bear it and told Xiao Yang bluntly that he was not his favorite type, and Xiao Yang stopped pestering the girl.
In fact, whether a woman likes you or does not like you, the process of pursuit is a process of judgment, if she always deliberately reduces the contact between you and avoids you, you should understand her subtext.
If you don't directly refuse, you may take care of your face, you can't be a lover and you can be a friend, if you chase after it, you can only be a stranger in the end.
Alienated and polite to you, never accepting your overtures
In the face of a woman who does not like you, it is difficult for you to get close to her, and you will find that your interactions are always estranged and polite.
She will never accept your overtures, even if she occasionally accepts your gifts, she will definitely give you a gift of equal value in return, and will not take advantage of you.
No matter what happens, she will not take the initiative to ask you for help, in the face of your initiative to help, she will be the first time to refuse, if you can't refuse, she will also find a way to return your affection.
She is cold to you, you can feel it, she is surrounded by an iron wall, you can never enter her world.
Her performances are telling you that she doesn't like you, please don't continue to pester.
Many men are prone to misinterpretation, thinking that women's alienation and politeness are manifestations of conservatism.
A male reader once encountered something similar.
He invites the girl he likes to dinner, the girl will definitely make a AA system with him after she returns home, give him half of the meal money, he feels that the girl who does not take advantage of the man is very rare, and pursues it harder;
He gives gifts to the girls he likes, girls rarely accept, are "forced" to accept, and will definitely give him gifts back the next time;
The girl was always very polite, polite, and cultivated to him, and never showed negative emotions in front of him, and the more he felt that such a girl was rare.
It wasn't until one day, when the girl introduced himself to her new boyfriend, that he realized that he would never have a chance.
No girl will act too reserved in the face of the person she likes, and even if she is reserved, you can read the "feeling of heartbeat" from her reserve.
Therefore, men must learn to distinguish between "estranged and polite" and "reserved", do not take their intuition for granted, and do not misinterpret the girl's ideas and cling to their own interpretation.
She is estranged and polite to you, and this cold feeling is rejecting you.
The tone of your speech is cold and doesn't care how you feel
If the above two manifestations of rejection are not very obvious, then the third performance, you must be able to feel.
In the opposite sex, you like her, gentle and considerate to her, but she is always cold to you. Especially in the tone of speech, there is no emotional fluctuation, the voice is cold, and the words spoken never consider your feelings, which is actually the most obvious signal of rejection.
If a woman has a good feeling for you, you can feel the tenderness of women from her. When you don't see her, you look forward to meeting her, and when you just separated, you miss the bits and pieces of getting along with her.
If a woman doesn't like you and thinks back to your relationship, your feelings are only two words - cold, you are troubled by her words, you are sad that she does not care about your feelings, you can't understand how she can say such things.
Maybe you understand that there is rejection in her cold tone, but you don't want to admit it.
I remember watching an emotional program where the girl was bored because of the boy's pursuit and asked the teacher of the program group to "wake up" the boy.
The boy knew that the girl did not like him, whether it was her attitude or the tone of her speech, and had rejected it countless times just by simply rejecting it. But the boy does not want to give up, he feels that the girl is full of merits, and missing such a girl will regret it for life.
Boys with similar ideas in real life also exist, but even if she has advantages all over her body, she doesn't like you, she doesn't call you, this alone can offset all the advantages, so why bother to let go?
In the face of a woman who does not like you, she rejects you, you have to be somewhat self-aware, learn to let go, and reserve a little dignity for yourself.
The opposite sex gets along, and others reject your performance in one word: cold.
Some women may not directly refuse for your face, but they will not take the initiative to accept, and you only need to understand the meaning of her refusal.
True love should be two loves, you like her, she also likes you, not to pursue everything, not to mention the "twisted melon" has to get together.
When you meet someone you like, but you can't be together, it can only mean that you haven't met your own fate.
It is better to choose to give up, to wait, to pursue the love that truly belongs to you.
Today's Topic:
What else can be done when women reject people they don't like?
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