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How can you break up decently?

The Godfather movie says:

What you really want to do, don't even say to the gods.

“Never let anyone know what you are thinking.”

― Mario Puzo, The Godfather

When I saw this place when I was a child, I sighed in my heart: How lonely it is!

When I grew up, I found that I couldn't tell the gods. Some time ago, European and American news were reporting on church sexual assault cases, and those victims just wanted to talk to the gods, and the risk was even higher than imagined.

Of course, recently Chinese the news of the world, you will feel that not only is it risky to talk to the gods, but the pillow people are even more "dangerous".

As a result, my heart was even more lonely.

How can you break up decently?

Having lived for less than 40 years, I have begun to shudder involuntarily for the loneliness of my future life. And asked about the young people around me, friends in their early 30s, and even boys and girls in their early 20s, it seems that they have shown a mournful attitude towards "love" and "companionship", which is lamentable. The estrangement between people is always inadvertently reminding themselves that the only way to maintain decency is to be alone.

How can you break up decently?

Is this really the case?

I've wanted to make a product for a long time that makes two people feel warm, whether it's two people or one person. That's why when the BBF brand was founded, the first product was made with scented candles. When it is ignited, there is a warm breath in the air, let the fragrance wrap itself, and the loneliness will be shallow, like a gentle hug.

Countless people have asked me why I did not develop incense sticks first, and I thought about it and said: Because of the sense of ceremony, if it has always existed, you will ignore its preciousness, I hope that there is an opening ceremony of "I light it", there are throbbing flames for my visual enjoyment, and there are also temperatures brought by the flames that make me understand the difference of that moment. Just like love, it requires conscious daily maintenance, catalyzed by a sense of ritual from time to time.

This season's aromatherapy inspiration comes from the "I Ching", the reason is: before the establishment of the BBF brand in France, the French people around me once asked me curiously: Why is the convenience of the ancient Chinese people to contact knowledge much worse than ours, but we use various scientific and technological means, and finally the understanding of life in the universe seems to be inferior to theirs?

Oh, yes. Why did people in ancient times already have the Oriental philosophy "I Ching", understand the harmonious coexistence of man and nature, understand the inner balance of all life, and the coexistence of yin and yang. And today we are still arguing about gender antagonisms and class differences, what is wrong with us?

How can you break up decently?

Based on these thoughts, in the new season, I have developed two new delicate black wax fragrance candles based on the brand's regular white fragrance candles. It is inspired by the Bagua Yin Yang Fish, which is the other side of white ash. One black and one white, one yin and one yang, is like two sides of our understanding of the world, like heaven and earth, but also like men and women.

How can you break up decently?

Zhen ZHEN is the thunder and lightning in the Bagua Gua Xiang. It is according to the scene of boating on the lake in late summer in Jiangnan, designed the aromatherapy, after the completion of which we gave it a nickname, called "black lotus".

Gen Gen, a mountain range, is where you can see the smell of bergamot and fresh air grown in the fields of the black-blue mountains in the distance, and its nickname is naturally "black lemon".

When they were created, I originally thought of pairing them in pairs, just right for lovers to express love and concern. The name can be "you are my other half", "with you I can be complete", and even have made a happy gift box such as "black and white matching, boys and girls I am most compatible with you".

For example, this Gen & Joy Gift Box.

But today, I found that there is no possibility of a decent breakup, where do we have the courage to fall in love? This is also like the two poles of all things, symbiosis can be balanced.

When we are together, you and I are nong, love is like a thunderstorm on a summer afternoon, electric flint; and when you leave, it should be like a wind blowing through the woods, the branches and leaves tremble for a moment, but there is no more trace.

If necessary, we can also write you a parting message: May in the future, you are day, I am night, I hope that we will be safe from now on, never see each other. The past is not counted, the past goes with the wind.

If you need to write a breakup message, please note the message when placing an order.

Shipping time takes additional 5 working days.

How can you break up decently?

This season, in order to better reconcile with nature, we also updated the FSC certification + patented plastic-free customized environmental protection packaging, express box and gift box integrated, reducing environmental pressure.

Of course, in addition to a decent breakup gift, you may need to find a mature and decent love partner, about this, can only wait for us to start the live broadcast, slowly talk.

Please pay attention to our Little Red Book account BBF Bebivor, starting in January 2022, every Tuesday at 20:00 live broadcast. Of course, you can also pay attention to our public account "BBF Boundless Life" to share your mood story.

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