"Chanel: Toughness is My Background" 丨 Lifelong unmarried, but lived to become his own queen

Chanel – there is no woman who does not want to have;

Chanel – a legend of an era.

However, the story behind Coco Chanel is little known.

Happy people are healed by childhood, and unfortunate people heal childhood with a lifetime.

Coco Chanel is one such person who was healed by childhood.

Chanel's childhood was unfortunate.

Chanel's mother met Chanel's father at a young age. The two soon fell in love, and Chanel's mother soon became pregnant.

I thought that I would love and be happy after marriage, but Chanel's father has always been lustful. Her mother, among her father's many lovers, was only one that could not be more ordinary,

Later, the infatuated Chanel's mother left the children to find her husband, and finally found her husband. But this only increased her husband's dislike for her.

After that, Chanel's mother found a job. However, the good times did not last long, and Chanel's mother died of illness. Chanel was only 6 years old at this time.

Chanel's youth was bitter.

If Chanel's childhood was unfortunate, it was true. However, Chanel's youth was not as happy as she imagined.

The death of a mother will not restore the father's love for the children. Instead, Chanel's father sent her to the convent.

At the convent, the father comforted Chanel, "I'm just leaving you here for the time being, I'll be back soon." As a result, Chanel's father never returned.

In the convent, Chanel not only learned needlework, but also learned to be independent and live for herself.

Healed by unfortunate experiences for a lifetime.

There are thousands of people in this world, and the growth experience is also different.

But what would you think if you had the same or similar experience as Chanel? What would you do? Is it self-abandonment? Is it suicide by jumping off a building?

That could be your choice. Our Miss Chanel didn't do that. Not only is she more independent and has become her own queen, but the inspiration for the products that followed was also inspired by this seemingly experience.

For example, in order to make it more convenient for women to go out, Chanel deliberately designed the straps of the bags into metal chains when designing the bags, and this is precisely because of her dark experience in the convent.

Yes, all existence is meaningful; all experiences are valuable.

Chanel once said,

Every lover is a school.

Chanel had many lovers, poets, dukes, and horse farm owners in her life, but she never married and eventually became her own queen.

Because she understands that every lover is a school. In this school of love, every man has helped her career, guiding her step by step to become a fashion master.

Because she understands. Women are not appendages of men. As with every piece of clothing she designs, women need freedom, comfort, and elegance, rather than tight luxury clothes for men to see.

Because she understands that independent women are more respected. It is also true that women in the new era are more eager for financial independence and career success.

Because she understands that loving herself can win the love of others. Instead of being subservient to others, it is better to be your own queen.

In addition, for the career, Chanel is also like this, constantly creating its own fashion kingdom.

Chanel is a person who does what she has an idea, and is also a person who "insists on going her own way".

From selling hats to singing, to selling clothes, jewelry, shoes, perfumes, bags... Chanel, thought of putting it into action immediately; and we, especially the people of Xi'an now, "wait until the epidemic is over."

I would like to say, why do you have to wait until the end of the epidemic? As the lyrics say, how many more decades will there be to be brave enough to be a hot-blooded youth?

When I think of Chanel, what I can think of is the trend, the sign of the times. But Chanel didn't think so, she said,

When people bring up Chanel, I want people to say, "Chanel is a style."

Yes, small black dresses, two-color shoes, chanel five, Chanel bags...

The reason why Chanel products can be done for decades or even hundreds of years is still loved by female friends, precisely because she chooses to do style, rather than trend.

Just like taking wedding photos, the classic phoenix crown Xia Shuai is more enduring than the popular national tide style.

In addition, Chanel's dedication to work is something that many of us do not have. Not to mention that she was still at work the day before she went to hexi, let's say that her craftsman spirit is beyond our reach.

Chanel's women's bag, more than 100 processes, each of which is hand-sewn; Chanel V's unique taste for women, almost not at all; Chanel's clothes, even if it is a small fold, Chanel carefully examines...

And some of us are shoddy and shoddy. Such a practice not only deceives consumers, but also deceives themselves.

4. Inner beauty is true beauty

Chanel still has a unique view of beauty and elegance. This can be vividly reflected in Chanel's view of aging: "The more people who care about aging, the faster they get older, and it is better to massage sagging cheeks than to massage the spirit." Beauty should start with the heart and soul, otherwise cosmetics are useless. The real secret of eternal youth lies in transforming the beauty of appearance into inner charm, a technique that many women cannot understand. Whether this sentence can be interpreted like this: a woman's elegance is to interpret the beauty from the inside out, and the intrinsic heart with connotations and beautiful appearance are equally important.

Inner beauty is true beauty. This is vividly reflected in Chanel's selection of models.

Chanel's models are not only beautiful on the outside, but more importantly, more beautiful on the inside. "Outside the golden jade, defeated in it", such a person is a blasphemy against the Chanel brand.

Just like my favorite sentences: if there is a poetry book hidden in the heart, the years never defeat the beauty; the beauty of the 20-year-old is given by the parents, and the beauty of the 30-year-old is earned by yourself; your beauty hides the books you have read, the things you have done, the people you have seen and the roads you have traveled; books are the best cosmetics and skin care products for women.

And these few words are also appropriately reflected in Chanel's life path.

Chanel's later years do not see the age at all, not only because she has always been able to accurately grasp the fashion trend in this life; but also because of her continuous learning and lifelong growth; but also because of her independence and autonomy, living for herself.

In the end, Chanel never married, but became her own queen; and we, first ourselves, and then the mother of the child.

No matter what, you must live as you want.