Brothers, today we are going to talk about what are the routines for chasing girls. Although it is now said that "mentality is king, no desire is just", but is there not another sentence called "since ancient times, the true heart can not be retained, only the routine wins the hearts of the people". For ordinary people, if you want to become a strong mentality in a short period of time, it is basically talking about dreams, and it is already very good to keep not licking and being measured, then if you want to improve the success rate of chasing girls at this time, the assistance of the routine is also very necessary. So today I will share two off-order routines that will make you use for life, and remember them carefully!
First, suppress first and then rise
The so-called first suppress and then rise, mainly aimed at girls who have just met in the same intersection and have not yet established attraction. For example, you just entered a new company and liked the female colleague next door, but she was not aware of your existence, or you just went to college and liked a certain student or sister, but she didn't know you. If the opposite sex you like is not in your social circle, please skip it automatically.
So what does it do? In the early stage to build a sense of trust, you should be cold, through a variety of opportunities to show your coldness to her, and then show interest in her later, creating a first inhibition and then rise. That to establish an attraction cycle, it is recommended that two months is enough, and it is easier to expose yourself and become a licking dog.
When you complete the first step of first suppressing and then rising, gradually you will find that when you speak, the girl will stare at you and see what you will do, and she will begin to have a thought of you to find out, which is the signal of the initial goodwill building. If the girl does not have a boyfriend, then she will definitely be interested in you, you just need to seize the opportunity, find her weaknesses, and then effectively output, then the basic love you basically negotiated. Of course, this is only the general direction, and the detailed things will not be said here.
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Second, encircle but not attack
This routine applies to the fact that you and the girl have established a certain degree of emotional foundation, and she has a certain degree of liking for you. For example, you can chat and talk normally, comment on each other's circle of friends, or occasionally ask out for dinner. So here I will give a few simple examples:
1, two people suddenly close together, but you no longer make follow-up actions;
2, pretend that your eyes are in the sand, let her help you blow, lean closer as much as possible, and then look at her;
3, with her to create ambiguous memories, so that she can not understand your intentions, doubt yourself.
The above is a process of continuous sinking, a process of continuous sinking, girls will slowly become inseparable, which is the process of capturing love.
In addition, the siege without attack can also be reflected in the invitation. If you are above ordinary friends and under good friends, then you will have many opportunities to chat together, at this time we can create invitation traps for girls. For example, if you bet with your sister about the outcome of something, whoever loses will be invited to dinner; or if the girl is a foodie, she will open a Michelin restaurant near her company, which is delicious, and then say: "There is a chance to take you to try it." Whether you succeed or not, you will not expose your sense of need, if it does, then then find her to honor the agreement, move in, upgrade the relationship between the two of you.
Of course, you can also take the initiative to invite a girl, provided that you have a strong attraction to her. Here should also pay attention to a point, the first date do not deliberately remind the girl, the day is up to let the girl to remind you, if the girl does not remind you, it does not matter, as long as the attraction is still there, then you have countless opportunities. In short, the trick to encircle and not attack is to turn passive into active, what does it mean? If the other party has been shrinking to defend the city, and you do not have the confidence to break through or the cost is too high, then it is you who are passive at this time. So what if you don't attack, but surround each other? The other party has limited food and grass, and you have rear supplies, and it is she who is passive at this time.