"My maximum limit: I have been hiking for 14 hours continuously, to Jincheng Dayang Town sightseeing tour, more than 100 miles back and forth, in one go, there is no stop in the middle, starting from 1 a.m. and returning at about 3 p.m."
"You're amazing! I admire your perseverance! But here's your Achilles heel: you're being too cruel to yourself! You have to be nice to yourself. ”
The unintentional conversation with my friend actually touched my sensitive nerves, and I couldn't help but cry...
This is not the first time, it is often like this:
A person quietly enjoys the song "Heart is Too Soft", which leads to emotional loss of control; a successful masterpiece, read to his wife, snorting, sad and crying, and seeing the plot of a TV series or sketch, can always cause emotional loss of control, as well as being a little wronged, wronged, always inadvertently crying and drooling...
Indeed, to pay too much for others, in order to be a good person in the eyes of others, endure the burden of humiliation for too long. Living for others and seeking perfection is a kind of sadness.
Time has passed, 57 years of ups and downs, in exchange for a small consummation of life, career success, family happiness, children and grandchildren around the knees, husband and wife love, two sons are married to start a family, career is also thriving, it can be said that the day in the sky, the scenery is infinite.
The only thing to be ashamed of is yourself, save money and use, bear hardships and stand hard work, only know dedication, do not ask for returns, bow down to the cattle, burn yourself, illuminate others, work silently, and dedicate selflessly.
Today, it is another year's Christmas Eve, and I suddenly saw this topic: learning to love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
I have sworn more than once: please yourself, live for yourself once, the real life starts from 50-57 years old, shouting for seven or eight years, but never in the real sense of the beginning, pay too much, too persistent! Too cruel to yourself!
Today, on this peaceful day, I write this article, determined to start from today, to live for myself and live the rest of my life.
In fact, until now, living yourself well can be worthy of your family, worthy of society, and worthy of the country!
Because the back wave of the Yangtze River pushes the front wave, a generation is stronger than a generation, life is at this point, can send out their own light, can live healthy themselves, is the greatest contribution to society and family!