Recently, according to relevant media news, a pair of children of parents who married late and had children in Taiwan Province went to kindergarten to discuss the issue of picking up and dropping off children and holding parent-teacher conferences. The child's father said that I went not more like his grandfather (grandpa). The child's mother said, well, you say you're her grandfather. I felt embarrassed across the screen.
In the video, the child's mother said: When it is time for the child to go to kindergarten, you will go to school and hold a parent-teacher conference later.
Child's father: You don't go?
Child's mother: I don't dare, I'm embarrassed to go, I think I have so white hair now.
The child's father: Then I am not older, is not more like his grandfather.
When the parents are embarrassed, the child is very happy to be next to them.
In fact, this is the embarrassment encountered by many parents who marry late and have children late. The latest of my classmates to have a baby is 43 years old, every day to see him in the circle of friends and groups to post children's growth photos, in fact, we children have been in junior high school and high school classmates estimate that there are some embarrassment in their hearts, because we seem to have passed the era of the baby. People in their forties are sunbathing children aged 1-2, of course, we can also experience the joy and happiness in his heart, but the time is not a time period with most of the classmates. Now we are discussing most of the topics of further education, the child's school, the teacher and the state of learning, and his state is still which brand of milk powder is better, and which brand of diaper is safer.
In fact, it is good to have children in their 30s, the most embarrassing is that parents who want children in their 40s and 50s are now issued, and now that the three-child policy has been issued, it is estimated that there may be more such parents in the future, but since they have chosen this age to have children, do not be afraid of these superficial embarrassments.
There was a news story last year that a 13-year-old girl was reluctant to let her father go to a parent-teacher conference because he was too old, full of gray hair, and looked like his grandfather. The child feels that it is very inappropriate for the father to come forward to attend the parent-teacher conference. Although this scene looks a little heart-wrenching, it undoubtedly reflects some of the problems of the current late-child families from the side.
In fact, the problem for parents is mainly that the care energy of children in late childbearing will not be as good as when they were young, resulting in some restrictions on the growth of children.
And for children is more of a psychological problem, the pair of parents in Taiwan Province are still young, have not yet experienced the helplessness of it, and when they enter puberty, after the self-awareness grows and improves, they will be more sensitive to the age of their parents.
I am a 30-year-old child, which is considered to be late childbearing, but among my classmates, it is early childbearing. And in the area where I live, I am properly late inbred. In the fourth-tier small cities here, they generally have children very early, and they have babies as soon as they get married in their 20s. My child's classmates are basically 5-10 years younger than me. But among my college classmates, they belonged to the children who had children earlier, and now my son has entered junior high school, and the children of the classmates who played well with me have just been in the second grade of elementary school.
In the end, whether you marry late and have children later or not depends on the environment of your own life, if everyone is late childbearing, there is no problem in having children in the late years, if the living environment of children is early childbearing, it is still early to have children, which is helpful to the child's physiology and psychology.
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