Untie the knot in the heart of an older mother

Now there are more and more elderly mothers, and the older mothers I am talking about here mainly refer to women who have children after the age of 35, including two categories:

First, the mother who married late and had children later, and gave birth to the first child after the age of 35;

The second is the mother of the second child.

As a member of the first type of mother group, I will untie a knot for you today, really after having a life experience, and there is no other emotion mixed in.

In life, I met several older mothers like me, worried that my children were still young, and if I went to another world, I was afraid that my children would complain or be sad, why did I give birth to myself so late and could not spend the difficult moments of life with myself.

But what I'm trying to say is that it's actually superfluous worry. Why?

In terms of my life experience, because I have a very happy marriage, I am particularly happy with my husband and children every day.

I suddenly noticed a wonderful emotional tilt: I really didn't miss my parents so much, and I saw my husband and children in my eyes every day. I also called less often, often by my parents.

After discovering this emotional tilt, I was relieved about having children late.

I was thinking, now that the average life expectancy of a woman is 77 years old, then my daughter is almost 40 years old at that time, and finding a way to teach her to learn to know people and find a husband who loves her is the king.

Children have a happy marriage, or add a chip, they have a good child, in fact, is not so need for parents, miss parents, really do not have to be so entangled.

Do you understand? Older mothers, you can refer to my situation.