A person with a strong heart often does not care about misunderstandings from the outside world, nor does he care about how many worldly prejudices there are, because his heart is a perfect world.
What kind of person can be considered "strong at heart"? People with strong hearts tend to have the following seven characteristics:
1, he must be a person with his own firm beliefs
A strong heart shows that he has a complete set of views on the world, society, and life.
This kind of person must have his own firm belief, which is not verbal, but comes from the depths of the heart and carries deep emotions.
They have a wealth of life experience and a broad vision, and this kind of inner richness and strength often means that he is extremely confident.
And this self-confidence often comes from his deep awareness of his own shallowness, as well as his deep reverence for nature and human life, because reverence makes him have no sense of fear.
2, he hears different voices, and his heart will not be anxious
He has a special open mind and an open mind, and he can listen carefully to any different voice, think again with his own mind, and still be vigilant about what he firmly believes.
Therefore, he will not refuse to listen to it and think about different sounds.
However, due to the strength of his heart, he will not be anxious as soon as he hears different voices, and he will immediately change his mind.
And it is in the face of different voices, learn to re-test with logic, common sense, common sense, intuition, experience and scientific methods.
In fact, such tests are often not once in life, but repeated many times, and become a norm.
Repeat it many times, become the norm, still get stuck, and then something is solid.
In his heart, the more things that are really solid, the stronger he is.
Therefore, the person who is strong at heart is not no longer changing, but no longer needs to change what he is in the core of his belief.
If the core of a person's belief is often changed, then his spiritual world is still invisible, and his spiritual world is still confused and chaotic.
Such a person, even if he writes a book and says it, says it today and tomorrow, has a firm stand, is not logically consistent, and has no opinion on what he wants or what kind of life he wants.
What exactly is the core of belief?
It's your worldview, your outlook on life, and your values.
How you see the world, how you know life, how you look at happiness and meaning, these things are completely self-consistent in a person with a strong heart.
Here, you will not be insincere, and what you will not do contradict what you say.
3) He is peaceful, confident, and happy
If a person reaches this point, he is a person with a perfect personality and a strong heart.
People with strong hearts, that is, people who are truly thoughtful; Or that people who really have thoughts are also people with strong hearts.
Such a person, even in the so-called adversity of the secular world, his heart is peaceful, confident, and full of happiness.
Because his world is no longer just the secular world, he also has his own unique perfect inner world,
In this world, he has his own standards of happiness and happiness, and in this kingdom, he enjoys happiness and happiness that others cannot enjoy and understand.
Nearly two hundred years ago, the Danish thinker Gorkekhol had a life of poverty and a short life, but he was strong at heart and full of joy. The happiness of such a person is difficult for ordinary people to understand.
4, he is always preparing for the worst, but pursuing the best
People with strong hearts are actually spiritual aristocrats.
He was aware of the finiteness of human physical life, as well as the infinity of mental life.
He knows how to correct the relationship between his physical life and his own world of thought, and he can also recognize the material standards of the secular world and the alternative coordinates of his spiritual world.
Therefore, people with strong hearts often do not insomnia, do not worry, are not impatient, and do the worst plans in life anytime and anywhere, but pursue the best.
All the disasters and sufferings had long been contemplated in his life, and even experienced richly and truly. He was born to die, so that all change no longer made him feel that the world was suddenly turned upside down, and life would be turned upside down.
His life no longer waited anxiously, but acted resolutely, and his standard of action was internal, not external.
Do not rejoice in things, do not grieve with what has been done, do not spoil and do not frighten, and treat them indifferently.
5. In the face of the truth, he dares to be a thousand fingers
A person with a thought is not necessarily a person with original thoughts, and those thoughts that are accepted, as long as they have a strong resonance with his life and life, that thought will also make him strong in his heart, and thought and human life are inseparable.
To have thoughts means that he begins to think with his own life as a human being, to feel with his own life, to experience life, to feel the world, not to judge his own value and meaning based on the reputation of people, and not to live in the eyes of others.
Even if the people of the whole country made him an enemy, even if the people of the whole world misunderstood him and isolated him, he was able to live lightly but firmly.
At this time, "the loneliest man is the most powerful man in the world",
Ibsen's words show that a person with a strong heart, in the face of truth and truth, is the one who dares to become the enemy of the people, the person who has become a thousand pointers, that is, a truly thoughtful person, and the inner world of such a person will reach the point of being extremely powerful.
6) He doesn't care about other people's misunderstandings and worldly prejudices
No matter what era or country such a person is in, he will be a very small minority.
However, one thing is certain: such people will have more soil for survival in a pluralistic, open, equal and free society.
Moreover, such a person will no longer become the enemy of the people, nor will he easily become a lone peak, and he does not have to use "the way is not good, floating in the sea" as his way out.
Although he may also be lonely, loneliness here is a kind of happiness, a kind of enjoyment.
A man with a strong heart, a man with rich thoughts, he does not care how many people misunderstand him, nor does he care how many worldly prejudices there are, because his heart is a perfect world.
The richness of a person's heart is enough to make up for some material scarcity.
A person with a strong heart is a person who really has a mind, and a person who is really thoughtful must also be a person with a strong heart.
The most bitter person I've ever met.
Lost his mother at an early age, lost his wife in middle age, and lost his son in old age.
When I saw him, the old man was in good spirits, talking and laughing, and he couldn't see that the three major pains in his life had happened to him.
He carried a tai chi sword to the lawn every morning to practice his sword, and in the afternoon he played chess with a group of elderly friends in the park.
Usually clean up the house is bright and clean, and the dishes are good, even the most ordinary leafy vegetables, he can fry all the colors and aromas.
More often than not, I read books on the recliner, from Confucian masterpieces to "Cai Gen Tan", "Fu Lei's Family Book" and so on.
Whether it is the philosophy of life or the humanities and arts, I have benefited a lot from the elderly.
Old people often tell me that the real strength is not to conquer anything, but to be able to withstand something.
When we were young, we always wanted to grow up, try on my mother's shoes, steal my father's suit, because we thought that when we grew up, we would get a lot of things.
However, when we grow up, we find that the world is not as good as we thought, and we face more things: loss.
Losing loved ones, losing love, losing health, losing dreams, and even losing the courage to live.
Whenever we lose, we always think about escaping, but even if we flee to the ends of the earth, we can't avoid it.
People with strong hearts never want to escape, but face them directly and then bear them.
Bear the transience and impermanence of life, bear the bleakness of life, bear the poverty of life.
Many times we are envious of others, however, when we really understand others, we will find that in fact, everyone lives a very helpless life.
The poor envy the glamorous beauty of the rich, and the rich envy the simple pleasures of the poor.
After studying professional work for many years in college, I found that I did not love myself, and people who loved for many years found that their feelings for each other were not so deep after marriage.
Self-esteem, not good at talking, but had to lose face for the sake of business.
Free and uninhibited by nature, but he has to seek perfection for the sake of life.
At the most incompetent time, but desperately want to give each other a home.
When I didn't know the most about love, I met the person I loved the most in my life.
Life is like this, everyone lives helplessly.
Since they are all helpless, let's go down to each other's helplessness, see who can laugh to the end in helplessness, and see who can bear more helplessness.
True inner strength is not to compete for fame and fortune, but to bear more.
I have listened to countless lectures, but only the lectures of the head of the medical department have made me unforgettable.
Before each lecture, he would tell students stories about him.
"My teacher was killed by my own hands, and I treated him as another disease until 3 months before his death, when I remembered the differential diagnosis, and the final diagnosis was liver cancer, which was already advanced."
"My teacher only did one thing before he died, and that was to make a will, and the content of the will was: the responsibility is not on me, no one is allowed to sue me, it is he who has not taught his own students well."
Director Ren was very calm when he said these words, and his heart was not alarmed, he knew that to this day, he had fully accepted himself.
He said that medical students need to strive for their own perfect medical skills, in addition to a strong heart, will accept themselves.
If there is no strong heart, it will bring endless harm to yourself and your patients.
And people who will not accept themselves will often trap themselves in the eyes of others, such as others' expectations of themselves and others' evaluation of themselves.
In fact, one of the things that should be most concerned about is how you get along with yourself, and how you accept yourself.
7, a strong person with a strong heart, no matter whether others praise or destroy themselves, they will calmly accept.
Because he knows that other people's comments are all about themselves in other people's minds, and what they evaluate is only their own shadow, not their real self.
There is a question on the Internet about "What did you gain after 5 years abroad?" The answer is still fresh in my mind.
"The most important thing I gained in 5 years abroad, not English, not diploma, for me, is just two things.
One is the ability to put me in any country, anywhere I don't know, and I can survive.
The other is that famous cars and mansions have long been unable to shake my strong heart of willingness to take the bus every day to pursue simple dreams.
And I think these two things are enough to benefit me for the rest of my life. ”
People who are truly strong inside will not be shaken by external things.
LV can't shake itself, famous cars and mansions can't shake themselves, long-legged Oba big-breasted girls can't shake themselves, and other people's gossip can't shake themselves.
Accepting yourself is actually accepting yourself without a mansion or a luxury car, accepting yourself who is not tall, not beautiful, and not rich, and accepting yourself who is not knowledgeable and rich in experience.
People who are strong in their hearts are people who are completely receptive to themselves.
He does not need to use external materials to enhance his self-confidence and sense of security, not to drive a Ferrari to live in a single-family villa, he is proud and calm, and he is inferior and falls into the dust when he changes to a bicycle grass house.
A strong man knows what he should and should not do, and he knows that he lives for himself.
All the source of his happiness comes from his strong heart.
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